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Date: January 14, 2023
Him telling me that I’m always all over him isn’t asking for distance?
Honestly it scared me, I’ve never felt like that when we’ve had sex. I actually started crying a little, but I don’t think he noticed.
OP if a friend told you this about their partner what would be your advice.
I have a friend who did earn equally as her boyfriend who lived with her, but the guy was so selfish he nickeled and dimed her to death. He bought her daughter hashbrowns at McDonald’s once and asked for the dollar they cost back. He also bought his own canned goods and hid them in the guest room closet instead of storing them in the kitchen like a normal person.
I cant do that.. I need to see him one last time for my own closure. I fully understand it will hurt me more and he will never say sorry. But without saying everything to his face i cant imagine moving on from his abuse.
Here’s a revolutionary idea, try asking him.
It's been like 18 hours at this point but I get what you're saying. What should I do if she doesn't respind for like weeks? Message her or just give up?
Pretty much every psycho/serial killer/whatever has had friends that are utterly surprised to learn that their friend is crazy
You never know
hugs
Time and distraction are the only real ways.
From your wording, it doesn't sound like you two have moved in together yet, you are just spending a fair amount of time at his house. Until you guys move in, there's no reason to change the dynamic. Why should his stepson give up space for someone with currently less connection to that room than he does?
Discuss what will happen when you move in, make sure you are on the same page. Your stepson deserves a designated space of his own anyway if not his own room, and so does your daughter. Figure out what that's going to look like and how to make it as fair as possible for all 5 kids. When having this conversation, be mindful of how this will impact the kids and get their input since they will be the ones making sacrifices, not you. If he won't agree to work something out that doesn't involve your daughter giving up her space all the time, then for her sake don't move in because it will not be your home, you'll just be living in someone else's house. Even if you're okay with that dynamic, it's not at all fair to your daughter and it'd be wrong to impose that on her.
Wow I know I would be devastated knowing that my now ex’s fiancé is getting everything I wanted and couldn’t have because of physical restrictions.
Please tell her in private, or over text, or a phone call BEFORE she sees your fiancé. It doesn’t matter that it’s 12 years out. This can still sting like a motherfucker. Especially since she wanted children and couldn’t have them and now has to face what she wanted to have with you, at one point.
This whole thing stinks for both of you. But you gotta tell her asap before this thing with top tier class.
Let her know bc it's the respectful and kind thing to do. Good luck with your baby OP!!
If she really believes these make believe people are her best friends, then she needs to stop gaming and get a real life with real friends. She needs therapy.
That was my biggest mistake. I did not as she typically texted for financial advice and maybe like a merry Christmas and some stuff like how is work going etc. or something. I just would answer the questions to be helpful and did not think too much about it.
He definitely has a side piece there. Just divorce him.
May I ask if it was out of nowhere or if she gradually stopped until it came to that situation?
The important thing to focus on here is that you have purposely chosen to be around family members and friends that have the same values as you, yet you haven't chosen a partner that does, you need to find someone who already shares those values.
Do it, its always better to do it and regret than to always wonder “what if I”
No. Good people don't treat their friends as shit as he did you. Have some respect for yourself.
This is beyond destructive behaviour. You need to get therapy to help you move on because you are just hurting yourself.
I just feel like this is something most high school boys wouldn’t do. Idk.
Um, Americans ARE fat on average comparable to the world population. It is actually the typical situation.
Statistically.
Knowing how to avoid conflict is not a relationship. This is not healthy or enjoyable at all.
I am thank you for your input
try and bang his gf
Read it again…because you didn't read .
You're 28. And this guy has been on your mind for almost 10 years.
I think you owe it to yourself to at least find out what could happen, or at minimum finally put an end to your high view of him.
You're somewhat holding yourself back. Any connection you have doesn't compare to anything you encounter.
So, you need to settle this one way or another.
no. just feel bad for you.
Fair. I didn't think he would either but I'm no expert in psychology
It's messed up they won't give you the note… it's even MORE effed up that they would TELL you about it if they had no intention of giving it to you.
As someone else said, maybe talk to a lawyer (but, I doubt you'd get very far.) The only way to get your hands on the note, likely, is if the family decides to give it to you, so I think you've got to play the long-and-kind game here.
Express your deepest sympathies for their loss– answer any questions they have about what you observed, let them know that you will respect their space and ask if you can check in again in 6 months to see how they are doing, etc. Let them know you would very much like to read it for your own closure. Let them know a scan or transcription is fine, if they don't want to give up the physical object.
I feel like if you double down on “that's my note, I have every right to get it. You need to send it to me,” etc., they may well dig their heels in further (depending on the content of the note, they may believe this sad turn of events was in some way your fault– so the only way to circumvent that is to demonstrate over time who you are.)
So sorry for your loss– this has got to make it doubly hard!
Why are your standards so low?
Agree.
What OP and others fail to understand is that there is a difference between being controlling/ insecure/ not trusting and setting boundaries. Often people don't realise that setting boundaries is not being controlling.
Let's not interact/ stay in touch with our exes and this rule applies to both of us- this is setting/ discussing boundaries.
You can't have friends of the opposite gender – that's insecurity & controlling behaviour.
Best to ease off and cut the habit entirely. Smoking drugs generally isn't healthy.
I haven’t but honestly I think I need to now.
That’s break up worthy love. He didn’t tell you because he knew it wasn’t ok
Even if his age isn't a deterresnt, his marital status should be.
It can wait.
Sounds like a perfect match, congratulations!
I see everything he’s doing on every screen he owns, I spend every second of the day with him. Where is there time for cheating or porn? No way
Hon, I'm going to be blunt. He sees you as a blow up doll not a partner. If he actually cared about you as more than a sex toy he wouldn't ever have asked you for sex while you were recovering from medical treatment especially surgery. Lose this POS. You're only 5 months in. There are plenty of decent partners out there who will see you are more than a body. You deserve to be treated as more. He can buy a Fleshlight. Don't let him use you as one and guilt you for not wanting to be treated as such
I personally would lean more towards “don't get involved” (reddit advice always leans towards “call out cheaters” but I tend to think that in the real world, sticking your nose into someone else's relationship is likely to blow up in your face). But I think this is your wife's call. What you say about the husband acting reluctant about the pregnancy…maybe he already knows or strongly suspects?
You should not do that.
This man does not respect you and you really don't know him at all.
Apparently down votes dictate how your feelings are controlled.. maybe delete them if your karma is so precious to you.
I interpret this to mean that it looked like WWiii because of the abuse it had just taken, not because your pussy was ugly. I think it was just a light hearted joke saying it looked beat up — TEMPORARILY. Not an insult to your pussy. Am I correct?
Do you call out men you see being toxic or harassing women? Do you listen when a woman says “this is my experience”? Do you try to be a better person and ya know, NOT harass women? Or do you choose to be offended when a woman complains about being harassed by ONE man, and complain that yes, that one man might have harraassed you – others also might have harraassed you too – but not all men would. No one is saying it's all men.
There’s a lot of misinformation about birth control on this thread. OP, you messed up when you made this about you. She needs to see a good women’s health care provider, there are MANY options, some women do AMAZING on birth control pills, and for some women, it’s awful, and sometimes it’s just a matter of finding the right formulation for that person. She needs to discuss all options and side effects and figure this out. There are non hormonal options such as Paragard (cooper IUD), Phexxi gel, condoms, diaphragms. But if she has other hormonal issues certain pills can help. also, the rapid weight gain needs to be assessed.
All her behaviour was emotional. They had ONE conversation then she blocks him and goes underground. A man not wanting his partner to spend a night to some other guy's place is not controlling behaviour, it's normal and she admits to this by sayign she knew she was wrong. it's not liek she cleared this with him like she does with her current husband. So the argument for him being controlling does not hold to scrutiny and she has nothing else. You are blowing it out of proportion because she does- she is retconnign things so as to not look bad.
What accountability is he supposed to have? He did nothign wrong here. “hey the ex I think cheated on me came and said she was pregnant, I'll definitely believe her”… that doesn't happen. She blocked him after that. The only emotional and rash behaviour here is hers, and she's trying to cover her own ass.
Guess what? people are not machines. Anybody finding out they had kids tey were never told about could take it badly in the beginning. The DNA test will probably follow
The custody battle etc is definitely coming.
Maybe “date” is a subjective term
Right. But you didn’t answer the question.
Was she crying and showing fear in her eyes while you had her pinned down and you refused to get off of her under she “surrendered”? Are did she cry and seem scared after it was over.
Jesus this can’t be real. If it is, shit can him.
Get new friends, she’s taken those ones.
That is fine those five years are a part of you now and leaving him will not change that. You can take the memories and experiences of those five years along with you through the rest of your life. You are still young with more five year chapters ahead of you none of which should have this man in them, you deserve so much more. So travel the world, be alone, find yourself, find someone else, do or be whatever you want, it's all open and ready for you.
Do not open the relationship if you are not 100% sure you want it.
Doing so will destroy your relationship.
And a open relationship must have very firm rules and boundaries, and lots of communication.
Because you cheated on her. And it was with her grandfather.
You are 56 years old. You can't actually be that stupid, can you?
Yeah but it seems to me like your wife should be a little more understanding. I could definitely see how this could rattle someone when the last thing you are expecting is that some unknown persons phone is in your bathroom charging. Especially wi th your wife waiting in the car