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Oh, Right! I'll also be sure to keep you updated if you want to, I'm definitely gonna be trying out your methods.
Eww.
You need to be bold enough with the person you love and put this guy out of the equation. It’s called shooting your shot. Being ‘selfless’ in this situation just puts you in misery and serves no purpose as it shows them that they aren’t incredibly important to you enough to make you move mountains for them. If it doesn’t work out then that’s ok still be her friend but show her she is worth it
Oh I would never speak to anyone he knows or to him. Ever.
That's what I'm referring to. The fact that they are at different places in life has a lot to do with the age gap.
I wouldn’t object to that but i was more so pointing out the comments that was referring to it as weird behavior or as if the man was a pedo or something
He's bullshitting you and you need to get out of this merry-go-round and sue him for child support and live by yourself. Distance yourself from your family. Get a lawyer and stay with friends/other family?
Short answer is yes. What to do to overcome it? Get a job, my parents barely gave me money in HS, I had a job since I was 15.
Just provide proof. Discrete pic of him and some woman where it’s obvious she’s more than a friend.
Also what do you think can explain the way he only sees me once a week, but he seems so worked up and interested to see these girls everyday?
Out of experience,don't bother with the heartbreak, torture, and trauma. Go find someone who will treat you properly.
Get him a gift certificate for a local tailor for Christmas. Problem solved!
You stated she left scars. Regardless, give couples counselling a go and try to have an open discourse again. If you want to stay in the relationship, I warn you it's going to be the difficult option. Marriages aren't easy, they take a lot of work, ups and downs to be long, let alone happy. Cheating will offer you the excitement but it also runs the risk of leaving you feeling stained with guilt.
He sounds super creepy
Why do you care so much about what other people think about you? You will drive yourself insane trying to get people to feel a particular way about you – you can’t control their thoughts. Just focus on yourself. Stop trying to live to other people’s standards and start living by your own.
(•_•) Mother mercy
Nah, not after an fwb. Idk how to bring the relationship conversation up as I don't want our said friendship to end. It's more than friendship, though, if we're talking like this. I've never been in a relationship whilst he has. I don't want to make things awkward, but I am open to a relationship.
Don't marry her. Just be with her.
If abusive people weren't sometimes good they'd have no one to abuse.
I'm 43 with a 22 year old. Just no on every level.
Harsh take, but sadly true.
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Yeah try posting it , honestly, see for yourself
You're an adult. Move out. What can she really do to stop you? Set boundaries with her, find your spine, and get tf out of there. The only power she has over you is the power you give her.
Save up, slowly and quietly pack your stuff and just leave. She can't legally keep you there. You're not beholden to her just bc she's your mom. So what if SHE is super traditional? That's a HER issue and not your problem to deal with.
The only thing she can do is yell at you and cut you off and let's be real, after how she's treated you for years is that honestly a bad thing? Stop caring what she thinks and do what's right for you. This is your life not hers, so LIVE IT! Right now, cowering to your mom's neurotic behaviour are you even truly living?
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Just let the relationship go
Let him go. He wants you to make all the changes and compromises while he remains the same. This is not an equal partnership. People who truly love you don’t want you to change at all, let alone for them.
You get attracted to people from proximity or seeing them. You don't develop feelings by just working with someone. There have to have been some romantic interactions between them for her to have romantic feelings towards him, ie, emotional cheating.
Its upto you whether you want to put up with that but honestly, you really are suffering a lot right now and you have to wonder if all this is worth it for someone with such fleeting feelings for you that they can have feelings for someone so easily. Cheating is cheating. Telling you doesnt mean much.
Or he’s v smart and planning on using this excuse in the future as his alibi…
Her son is probably tagged in the posts, so they show up without need for creeping.
Doesn't add up. Who's she taking risqué selfies for if you have no knowledge of them
he’s a sex addict and actively cheating on you. goodbye.
Yeah, I’m calling BS on her “multiple gifts over time” line. What a load of BS. If she getting you a Christmas present in April, so it will be totally unexpected?
Bullshit. She just likes that you spend a shit ton of money on her. But she doesn’t care enough to put any effort into getting you anything.
And COME ON, man. She didn’t get you a birthday present because she was busy with work? Where does she work, the International Space Station?
She couldn’t find 5 minutes in the two weeks leading up to your birthday to order you something that you would like?
She’s a taker. You’re a giver. That works for her, but will ultimately be disappointing for you.
Yeah you are right. I really appreciate your input and validation
By speaking w her and communicating exactly what you said here. Maybe somethings going on in her life and she doesn’t want to put any more on you. Could go either way.
First of all, I’m so sorry you and your brother are in this situation; this is a horrible thing for all of you to be going through, psychosis is so difficult for everyone involved. Have you tried contacting NYC WELL (888-692-9355)? They might have resources or someone you can speak to who can help you.
Whose name is the apartment in? Who pays for rent and utilities? There’s might be further legal options you can take depending.
You don’t even know her. You aren’t in love with her. Leave her alone. This is super creepy for any gender to do. No means no. No doesn’t mean “try again later”. No means “leave me the fuck alone”.
Go to rehab…sounds like more than just trying to get back at him (take it from someone who’s been there, done that, and got the t-shirt). I was a full blown alcoholic in denial when I met my husband. He gave me the courage and support to get help and I can say life has never been better.
So the minute he leaves you start an affair. Dump him. You can't handle being alone. You don't feel bad about cheating. You don't love him at all. He deserves a woman who is faithful and actually loves him.
Im a gay dude but Im also not talkative during sex naturally but my partner likes when I do it. My brain kinda auto turns off during sex so I have to make a concious effort to talk lol
But just even simple things will work. They may sound bad and cheesy when youre not fucking but tbh all dirty talk is cringe when said outside of a sexual encounter.
Say you like his dick, how big it is, how you like how he is fucking you. If you feel good, let him know in words that you do. Have any praise/degrading kinks? Use that to your advtange.
Wait, so all they've talked about is trips with a legit purpose? My man, you need to get a grip. Are they flirty or sexual messages? It sounds like you're just catastrophizing what could be nothing.
Exactly and a good relationship wouldn't say I love you just not enough to help your family. They would say 'listen I'm not comfortable with them loving here so let's work together to avoid your sisters continued abuse.” None of that is here. The only way to make the gf look good is to assume the op is lying. He'll maybe op is but this is an advice forum for what they should do so it's important to give advising using the information we have, while asking more questions if needed.
So far we know that OPs gf will not be ok with OP trying to help her sister. She can't being her home to stay for a while while she gets on her feet and she can't help her get a place by being a temp roommate. Gf has provided 0 ideas just said if you do these things we are done. That's pretty heartless as she is showing 0 empathy for OP who's sister is in a toxic potentially abusive relationship.
At this point the only thing that matters is that OPs sister could be hurt or in a worse situation at anytime and instead of helping with ideas the gf is just saying no if you try to help I'm gone. That's not a relationship you wanna be in.
Caveat of course being if OP is for some reason lying and the gf is trying to come up with ideas and they just don't wanna take them. That of course means the gf is at least trying to help.
He misses the high and low emotions because his brain is used to that, not because you’re boring. There can be an excitement in passion and conflict- it’s heightening.
Bingo
Maybe he is a sub, and you need to do the job
Dude sounds deranged…
If you divorce just be aware she’ll try to do the same to you, so make sure to document everything, she’ll probably say you’re leaving her in order to chase a relationship w ex-babysitter or something
Have you SEEN kids?
Like really looked at them? They're horrible. They're noisy and expensive and poop. For 25 years.
That shit was insane! Poor kid!
He told you he's going to cheat on you. You can accept it or leave. That's it
Seniors did date freshman and it was WEIRD. Why are y’all excusing predatory behavior because “oh they were both in high school, so it’s okay!” One is an adult, the other is a minor. A very young minor. It would be different if she was 17, because they would just have a two year difference. Still, a bit weird, but they’re not FOUR YEARS apart.
You're a place holder.
Grey rock him and see if his anxiety pops up. I’d even make like your actively looking for dates with others. Get your gfs together within his earshot and discuss this guy or that guy and their availability. Spook him and he may respond. After six years together most would say an engagement ring at least should be forthcoming.
Maybe its because I read this book called The Kiss Quotient but she sounds like an autistic woman who has sensory issues that she expresses too bluntly.
The problem with scents, the cashmere, the obsession with eating the same dish, the lack of tact about your audio, these sound a lot like neurodivergence not snobbery and elitism.
Food snobs do not just go and eat the same dish all the time, for example.
Not sure if she is into you or not but I think to answer that question you might have to reframe how you interpret her behaviours.
This is beyond disturbing. I wouldn't be able to trust her as a partner going forward.
It totally is her fault. For fours years she's been hounding him to take her to meet his parents, and for four years he's been telling her they're shitbags and he doesn't want to do it.
She finally wore him down. He finally got tired of her shit and went to see them, and then most predictable things in the history of predictable things happened, his parents acted like the troglodytes they are.
She thought he was overexaggerating, and she could magically mend all the fences in an afternoon over tea. She found out how wrong she was, but he had to get assaulted by his own father for it to happen. The damage is done.
She should have respected his wishes. She might not have fully comprehended the whole picture, but you don't have to understand something to respect it. He told her “no”, she pushed, anyway.
It's not her fault his parents suck, but it damned sure is her fault she pushed him into this situation in spite of him begging her for four years to just fucking let it go.
People have boundaries for a reason, and pushing against those boundaries is blatant disrespect. She can fix this, but not until she fully acknowledges her fault in this.
Are you that desperate for a girlfriend? Seems like you’ll be the next chump she cheats on
Honey this is grounds for a call to police. Breaking up is the bare minimum. Whatever he's saying to you is gaslighting you into thinking you're crazy for disagreeing with him or that or was that serious. Please call your support system even if you've not talked to anyone in awhile and leave.
Open relationship?
Just make thing clear for him since the beginning. That you don't have time to spend in a casual relationship. That you need a committed partner. If he is so eager to see you maybe he deserve a chance. Baby or no baby.
So, he has a TERRIBLE history with cheating. We talked about it alot, its really a validation thing that we were working through and he’s been great since then till now. We didn’t plan on getting pregnant, but being that I struggled with infertility in the past I wasn’t going to risk losing her for any reason. Our daughter has been both of our greatest blessing, throughout my entire pregnancy he was phenomenal, and he’s been the BEST co parent, he does everything for us. I don’t regret having his child one bit.
You know that Ex is unstable and none that BF is untrustworthy. Even if he did sleep with Ex, he didn't cheat on you – you broke up with him. (And the story is suspicious in the first place: pregnancy from a single instance of unprotected intercourse is statistically unlikely, and what are the odds that he had unprotected sex with someone he already knows is a bad partner, who sleeps around and stole from him?)
Get a DNA test if she shows up with a kid she claims is his in eight months, but until then, I'd assume the pregnancy is a lie (and also the rest). It sounds like he also needs a restraining order and to pursue legal action if she is repeatedly harassing him or you (it should be possible to get restrictions in place that still allow for whatever coparenting arrangement they have).
This is why you sleep with people BEFORE you get married. See what's available, see what you prefer.
It's too late for her to decide this now. You are well within your right to divorce her for it, ESPECIALLY since she doesn't care to hear your side of it. I'm sorry this is happening to you. It sounds awful.
You’re incorrect. There’s empirical evidence that trauma can be healed. That’s literally why psilocybin works. Some forms of therapy can help you manage your symptoms by introducing better coping mechanisms for anxiety/depression but other forms of therapy such as exposure therapy are literally designed to heal traumas like phobias. I think you need to take a more clinical approach with regards to your situation and find professional help (or better help if you’re already receiving any). Nobody will hekp you until you start helping yourself. Literally acknowledging that you can be healed is the first step and nothing is gonna work until you believe that.
Nope, he’s a bad person. He preyed on you knowing you weren’t ready.
He's hurt!! It's only been just over a month or so ,and you're expecting him to be ok and normal? If you want it to work, he needs counseling to get through in a healthy manner. All drinking is going to do is bring up the pain and anger! He'll probably get lost in it! Don't try and bother comparing what he did before you were legit with actual infidelity! Keep owning your shit and get him some help!
50 bucks says the dude is attractive
I can guarantee you she wouldn’t be doing it if he was ugly and creepy.
She is too young for you and you are possibly not socially mature enough for a relationship.
Because cheaters tend to be narcissistic. They get off on the power plays. On almost-but-not-quite throwing it right in your face and then trying to shame you if you call them on it.
This woman's either toxic AF or so dangerously stupid to think that this was okay, that she should not be trusted with to handle Kitchen Cutlery near electric sockets.
You decide.
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I (30f) have been dating my bf (37m) for a little under a year. Currently I am in the process of moving as my landlord gave me notice to leave my bachelor apartment, stating that his son wants to move in. My boyfriend has also been in the process of apartment hunting (we agreed it was a little sudden to go into moving together and would rather it be gradual), however I found a place which I signed for yesterday. My boyfriend says now that he doesn't want to date anymore until he finds his own place also because it makes him feel inadequate (he lives with his brother, sister in law and nieces in their home). I feel like it's bs because I feel like he could find one if he took some initiative. My landlord also divulged my boyfriend's yelling and stuff were factors in why he evicted me because I had been fine for years beforehand. I'm not sure how to feel about this or go about this situation, should I just say screw it and give up on him?
boyfriend (37m) is mad that I got an apartment
You did nothing inappropriate, he shouldn't be mad at you – his behavior/reaction is very inappropriate.
My landlord also divulged my boyfriend's yelling and stuff were factors in why he evicted me because I had been fine
Yeah, you should dump him – in addition to all the above, he's 37 and still living with “brother, sister in law and nieces” – by 37 I'd been living independently for two decades. And what's your boyfriend done for you? Causes you to get evicted and then gets mad at you for finding your own place.
give up on him
Yeah, that's likely the best move.
Have things progressed with your son? I won't lie, I've been checking every day with bated breath hoping to hear that you all were able to move forward despite the miscommunication. You obviously don't owe us an update, but I really do hope the best for you both, even if that's not being in each other's lives.
Why are you saying I'm condemning my wife?I didn't say anything negative about her response. I said that I understand why she would do it and I wouldn't be ungrateful for what she is doing ,but I would not because in the end,aftermath of the situation, the trauma and the healing process would be huge. Things could get better over time, or get worse, there is no telling. It seems like everyone is looking at the question at face value and not actually trying to see it from both sides.
“By asking, the husband has basically said OP isn't good enough for him and she probably shouldn't trust him to not cheat anyway.”
No. You literally made that up. That's what you're doing when somebody says one thing and you insist it really means something that the person didn't say – you're making shit up. And then treating it as real! Even when the person's actions reflect what he actually said and not the thing you invented in your own head are are pretending is what he actually said!
I don't know if it's narcissism, delusion, or what, but it is absolutely terrifying to see how many people think that way here. How am I supposed to operate in a society where so many people are running around interacting with me on the basis of something they simply imagined rather than what I actually said or did in reality? That is frightening, dangerous, antisocial insanity.
Snorted aloud at the “collector’s series” comment. Sorry OP, I hope you can get to the bottom of this. Or get out and live your best life.
Yeah I think this is not real, she probably wanted to post it on a romantic story reddit
Oh, she totally is doing bad shit. lol. She thinks if she calls you manipulative and a narcissist, you’ll back down.
Now, if it were me… (warning: horribly, bad idea coming) I’d back down and drop it. Let a few weeks go by, maybe a month, then I’d get a friend or a friend if a friend—someone beautiful, who I know is her type, and have them follow her. Strike up a casual convo, some harmless flirting. You get access to her accounts, and see what she’s like. If your wife is cheating, she’ll eventually take the bait. (I know, I know. If I’m this distrusting, I should just break up with her…but what’s the fun in that? I’m a petty Witch)
Judging by your post history you either cheated or wanted to cheat. Your partner probably knew this which was why she made you come back home. Why are you so upset about having to come home from your 20 year old friends house?
Jackass.
Avoiding the fight is always smarter! What if the dude had a weapon? What if he’s just way stronger or better trained? You never know who you’re dealing with and the idea that this guy already followed you that much tells me somethings off. Why was he following you? Sadly, road rage is the least concerning to me. More likely, especially depending on your job and how he saw you initially, this dudes some kind of creep who had worse on his mind for you. Next time (hopefully there never is one), willing or not, TEXT your bf what’s going on and then call the police! Tell them what’s happening and let them do what they’re paid for. I’d bet money that guy (your follower) has priors for something.
Also, keep your eyes open from now on leaving work or your bf’s (?) place late by yourself. Dude could have picked you out and come back around. I’m not trying to scare you but there’s F’d up people out there and you gotta watch out for yourself. Can’t call anyone if you get grabbed walking to your car in an empty parking lot at night. Stay safe.
GET. A. DAMN. JOB.
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She likes the attention. If wife goes file for divorce. Go to surviving w.com it helped me with a cheating wife. It has great tips to detect cheating. Check phone and social media they may be secretly talking. Look for a 2nd phone. A 2nd phone is standard for cheating
I was in a relationship that was like this except the adhd. Let me tell you after an experience like this the kind of s*x that you are about to experience when someone pays attention to you and takes the time and everything – will blow ur mind
Lower ab workouts for the win ??
Leave this borderline. Look it up and see if it fits. You moved fast, she's talking to her exes. Breaking up multiple times. Little things causing fights. LEAVE
You don't stop her. Some people are just too stupid to date. She actually feels that going on a cruise with another guy who has already made his intentions clear is a good idea? Yeah, that would be the last decision my partner would make as my partner.
Sorry for your loss buddy.
I have experienced a lot of loss and death, but not exactly your situation. Friends and family around are good. Agree that I think therapy is a really healthy thing here – therapists are experts on feelings and having them explain why you feel certain ways and how to deal with it is going to pay dividends for you long term. She is always going to be a part of you, but you don’t want this to become a crippling, detrimental event, you’re a young guy, your whole life is ahead of you.
When you’re ready, maybe it would be therapeutic to scrapbook all your items and ticket stubs and things from your girlfriend and have it together in a place. It’s just a thought, I’m not an expert and this is probably bordering on above reddits pay grade.
Wish you all the best, reach out if you need a virtual friend.
It's fairly obvious he professed some interest in her, and was turned down. Nicely, it seems, which is lucky for him (I guess?). And now he's paranoid about why she's suddenly not going to the bus stop with her kid.
The unsent messages? Ehhhh… If they seem to only be within the texts to this woman, that's pretty fishy. She's the only one he accidentally pocket texted?
Besides, who deletes pocket texts? Pretty sure it's only on his end, anyway. Once a text is sent, it's sent, the recipient gets it. You can delete it from YOUR convo, but the only (real) reason you'd do that is so somebody who gets hold of your phone doesn't see it.
Regardless, if I were in your shoes, I'd be asking her a few questions – in person. Keep in mind, it doesn't seem like she's done anything wrong, so don't attack or accuse her if you can help it. You might not get any answers, depending on whether or not she wants to rat our your husband, but she'll at least know that you're on to him/them.
This dude has created his own narrative in which he is both the victim and the savior.
It’s disrespectful to him, and he has the solutions.
Tell her you're willing to build a time machine and unfuck your first partner.
I understand not wanting future children to have to deal with genetic diseases or conditions. I'm epileptic, immunocompromised, have autoimmune diseases, central sleep apnea and several other issues. My boyfriend and I are both childfree, our lifestyles just don't accommodate kids and neither of us have the patience for kids.
However, the bullshit about your girlfriend's family not love your kids as much as if they were hers is a massive red flag.
You sound like you need a new boyfriend. One who actually respects you.
She is now hurt and questioning whether you was cheating or that you really wanted to be with OW instead of her. As you said you both still love each other you just have different goals and can't come to a compromise. Most women feel if you loved them as you say you do, you couldn't move on that quickly, which makes us question everything about the relationship. You did nothing wrong. I agree. You assumed it was completely over and while she was, I'm sure hurting and crying and trying to figure out how to move on and trying to process, you were “really quick” to get your dick wet with another person. As crude as that sounds. She is angry and hurt but there was nothing you did wrong. But reverse the situation. Would you be upset at all if just a few weeks after the breakup she already started sleeping with another man, and immediately contacted the OM after your breakup? That wouldn't have hurt your feelings at all? I do think that if you want to continue to be friends, leave the talk of other relationships out of it. If you're still communicating then that leaves the door open for “maybe” one of you will change your mind and you can get back together.. so moving forward with OW/OM could be construed as a betrayal. Even if you are single.
Talk about how you could balance it. Maybe it makes more sense for you to be the stay-at-home parent!
This is the second time today this question has been asked. To start with, 6 months isnt long enough for this BS and he could have no complaints if you called it off. Your bf clearly has a significant insecurity here and this place will tell you to just ditch him. Its definitely a him problem for him to solve but if you think he's worth keeping a little help is OK? Never give up a friendship for a guy unless it's an ex, a whole nother story, and tell him you wont do that. But you could make a little effort to not be alone with these guys. It's not a great answer but if he's really a keeper….
I already did that and it wasn't pleasant experience at all sp I want to stay away from all of it for the time being
Your gf, without any prompt, told you to go into your bed and have sex with another woman and that it was all ok with her. And now she’s upset. And you think you’re in the wrong?
Dude… your gf needs to learn a bit of emotional maturity and be able to take accountability for what she said even it she was drunk.
She said it like 8-9 separate times in the space of 3 meetings
That’s Excessive surely?
I assumed she think sim useless so it exceeded her expectations hence the well done 9 times
It’s really important to look after your health by losing dead weight (i.e. your a-hole bf)