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Date: October 17, 2022
You, your life and your mindset is all just… wow, a complete dumpster fire. Your poor kids. You are in the affair fog and I honestly don’t believe your husband is truly as bad as you say and that you are just trying to justify your crappy actions with the affair. You’ve contradicted yourself with every statement you’ve said about him. The thing about cheaters is it’s never their fault they cheated, they lie and twist the narrative to justify their crappy behavior and have deluded themselves into actually believing the BS they spew. You’re codependent, what a solid idea to monkey branch to the next guy, I’m totally sure nothing will go wrong even though you barely know him, and no talking on the phone or spending short dates with him doesn’t count. You don’t truly know somebody until you’ve been around them face to face for at least a year. I’m super confident the guy that was okay having an affair with a married woman and blowing up her marriage so fast is totally a great guy and he definitely won’t drop you like a hot potato when the next girl comes along. Cheating is a bad idea because any sane person would recognize how horrible it is for that to be the foundation of a relationship. You don’t want to be with a cheater because it means they aren’t a good person and anyone who doesn’t see the problem also isn’t a good person. Good luck with your delusions. Can’t wait to see the update when everything crashes and burns, this guy moves on to blow up the next marriage and you’re all alone because even your kids despise you and only want to be with their dad. You’re not supposed to introduce new men to your kids for like a year of a real, in person relationship, it’s very unhealthy to expose your kids to a revolving door of men and if you introduce your man to them after a few weeks or months the probability of that happening goes up. No way this guy who’s 50, has already raised 3 kids to adulthood and is a musician wants to settle down and be the new dad to your toddlers. He’s focusing on only the good half of 50/50 custody, but I bet when those kiddos are with you he will begin to resent everything about it and eventually turn tail and run. If wish you luck, but all the luck in the world can’t help with this flaming wreck of your life. I’ve read this story 1,000s of times before and can tell you exactly how it will end. You’re so deluded I feel so bad for your kids they don’t deserve to be raised by such an arrogant, insane, piece of work like yourself. Better just start putting money away into a therapy fund because they’ll need it when they get older and the cracks start to surface from all the damage you’ve done.
It sounded deliberate from what OP said and he said he did it due to a trauma reaction. And the fact he was doing it all over her torso and face instead of turning away sounds intentional. Dude needs therapy.
Yea so it's better i leave them both to it.
If going that direction you feel you have to, but I would think he's reaping all the benefits. Does he offer to pay for fuel or anything else. Maybe a talk with him to clear the air and resolve this, especially if it's an inconvenience.
This is so sad
Don't stay with an abuser.
Drinking made your relationship bad but she could have left. I'm not blaming just stating a fact.
Once you quit drinking you should have started couples counseling. It would have given you both a safe space to communicate.
Resentment from her because of those 2 years is natural but therapy would have helped her progress that in a healthy way.
She's told you that she doesn't want to change. The best thing to do for you both is to break up.
Thank you so much. Yes, I can’t deny that he is still making little snide comments etc here and there. It’s usually something personal, appearance based, or even during sex. He says he does it to tease me and see how I react. He knows I don’t like it and that I think it’s mean.
I sadly do wonder if he will do the absolute minimum. There was a point where I was aiming for divorce and he could see how emotionally detached I was – I was still “functioning” and keeping our home life running peacefully, but he could tell my mentality had changed. I was honestly surprised he could tell bc I wasn’t ready to talk to him about it. He became nicer, concerned, started asking me what was going on. He started trying in the marriage. He stopped many of the “micro behaviours” that I found hurtful, like rolling his eyes when I would become affectionate.
My individual therapist (who has never met him) said I should make sure I have clearly stated what I feel is wrong with the marriage and give him the chance to change in couples counselling. As soon as I started putting work into the marriage again, he seems to have slowed down on his side of things.
Very good article on abusive relationships. I do think our couples therapist is making the relationship her client rather than seeing us as individuals. I do think she is more neutral. She hasn’t called him out on abuse directly although she does know about the abuse. It seems she is trying very gently to get him to see my perspective and trying to explain things to him in a way that is empathetic to him. I don’t know if it’s working.
Your father is a monster who has conditioned you. Your husband was right to defend you. If your father tries to assault you in his presence again, he deserves what he gets.
It sounds like you love him a lot, but you're spiraling emotionally.
Please please please get professional help. Actively turning things down that you know you want and are good for you out of an irrational fear and copious amounts of anxiety is going to wreck your life. I think therapy is your best option.
And you think that's normal and give him an answer? If someone asked me that, they would never see me again.
Not believing in divorce just sounds kinda dumb I'm not gonna lie. All kinds of things can change after a couple get married, one of them can get abusive or manipulative, or start cheating on you. Any number of things.
Also shaking your head is generally a negative rather than a positive, but nodding your head is like saying yes. Unless you're from a culture where the opposite is the case.