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She's controlling, jealous, and manipulative. This relationship is awful. It has tipped beyond merely toxic and moved head first into abusive.
You should go away to college to pursue a future for yourself, but you should also go to get away from this relationship.
She has isolated you completely. You aren't allowed to have friends or a social life. She has manipulated you into agreeing to put your dreams aside in deference to hers. The expectation is that you are to toil away at work to pay for everything including transportation and housing costs. You are to be her benefactor, mommy, and college scholarship. In exchange you get nothing. She isn't even nice to you. She will never return the favor and pay the bills for you when you're in school. This is a destructive relationship conducted on her toxic terms.
It's not only you that needs to want to give both of you a second chance, show him how much you love you etc., he must also want it.
What's the point of you sacrificing everything but he does not want to be you even for a second? At the very least, at least try to work on the relationship. The kicker is that he didn't, he just upright left.
I'm sorry to say but I would not be surprised at all if this kind of controlling, intimidating, disrespectful, demeaning behavior escalates. Be safe, OP.
That is why I asked him last summer, because I didn't want to have any regrets. I also wanted to clarify any of my actions which would have made him think I wasn't interested. But it would be better to do it in person right? Wait until he is back?
Dont take her back.. she accused u if something u didnt do, most likely projecting her guilt for cheating on u, she doubled down on it and then when she came back she realized she wasnt going to be ass kissed and threw a fit and said things deliberately to hurt you. That will NEVER go away…. she made her choice let her live w them.
Whether an age gap relationship works is entirely dependent on the personalities of the people involved and how well they fit together.
I previously was in a relationship with a man 22 years my senior for 10 years. I had a stepdaughter who was one year older than me. Although people initially regarded our relationship through a negative lens, that changed as the relationship progressed and the years added on. The relationship was loving and wonderful and I wouldn't have changed it for the world. We grew apart though as often happens in age gap relationships but we separated as good friends and still are good friends to this day.
Now I am married to a man 10 years my junior. We don't notice the age difference and he is the love of my life. We are in complete sync in regards of life values, wants and expectations and I wouldn't want to change anything here either for the world.
So no, not all age gap relationships are about manipulation or taking advantage of someone. Sometimes it is about two odd people finding compatibility and peace in one another.
My advice to you is to reserve your judgement and treat them with dignity and respect ? They might be together for a longer time than you'd expect
I just want to say one thing. Not all family are good for you. Some family members could end up being your worst nightmare. The best option would be to stop contacting them for your own mental health and wellbeing
She's controlling, jealous, and manipulative. This relationship is awful. It has tipped beyond merely toxic and moved head first into abusive.
You should go away to college to pursue a future for yourself, but you should also go to get away from this relationship.
She has isolated you completely. You aren't allowed to have friends or a social life. She has manipulated you into agreeing to put your dreams aside in deference to hers. The expectation is that you are to toil away at work to pay for everything including transportation and housing costs. You are to be her benefactor, mommy, and college scholarship. In exchange you get nothing. She isn't even nice to you. She will never return the favor and pay the bills for you when you're in school. This is a destructive relationship conducted on her toxic terms.
Run away.
It's not only you that needs to want to give both of you a second chance, show him how much you love you etc., he must also want it.
What's the point of you sacrificing everything but he does not want to be you even for a second? At the very least, at least try to work on the relationship. The kicker is that he didn't, he just upright left.
I think you can do better than him.
I'm sorry to say but I would not be surprised at all if this kind of controlling, intimidating, disrespectful, demeaning behavior escalates. Be safe, OP.
That is why I asked him last summer, because I didn't want to have any regrets. I also wanted to clarify any of my actions which would have made him think I wasn't interested. But it would be better to do it in person right? Wait until he is back?
Stop invading your partners privacy for one thing. If you are bothered by snooping let this be a lesson. Shame on you.
One of our kids came out as trans, and generally, the last 10 years have been a daily occurrence of unfortunate events.
The way you've phrased that, its like you are saying your child being trans is one of the unfortunate events.
Just letting you know in case that isn't what you meant.
Dont take her back.. she accused u if something u didnt do, most likely projecting her guilt for cheating on u, she doubled down on it and then when she came back she realized she wasnt going to be ass kissed and threw a fit and said things deliberately to hurt you. That will NEVER go away…. she made her choice let her live w them.
Your new gf is ok with emotional cheating. Once she locks you down she'll be looking for her next challenge. It's what you deserve too
Whether an age gap relationship works is entirely dependent on the personalities of the people involved and how well they fit together.
I previously was in a relationship with a man 22 years my senior for 10 years. I had a stepdaughter who was one year older than me. Although people initially regarded our relationship through a negative lens, that changed as the relationship progressed and the years added on. The relationship was loving and wonderful and I wouldn't have changed it for the world. We grew apart though as often happens in age gap relationships but we separated as good friends and still are good friends to this day.
Now I am married to a man 10 years my junior. We don't notice the age difference and he is the love of my life. We are in complete sync in regards of life values, wants and expectations and I wouldn't want to change anything here either for the world.
So no, not all age gap relationships are about manipulation or taking advantage of someone. Sometimes it is about two odd people finding compatibility and peace in one another.
My advice to you is to reserve your judgement and treat them with dignity and respect ? They might be together for a longer time than you'd expect
I just want to say one thing. Not all family are good for you. Some family members could end up being your worst nightmare. The best option would be to stop contacting them for your own mental health and wellbeing