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Based on everything you said after the first sentence, it doesn't sound like his increased income was the reason for him leaving you. That doesn't mean he was “right” for leaving you. Afterall, there are other ways for couples to have a child. Just saying that his increased income doesn't appear to be a factor based on the information you provided.
So is he.
He has an inadequacy – you are worth so much more.
He knows I have a small support system too unlike his many friends and big family. I feel taken advantage of
This and tbh I’ve been w someone who preferred being dominated as someone who also prefers being dominated— spoiler they still played the dominant role when I asked
Then you’ll find someone better she sounds very obsessive
Oh yeah. Been there. Not a teacher but have definitely prayed for tragic death on the commute to work.
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Send her a puppy book with training tips. Sign her and the dog up for dog socializing classes.
Why are you still with this jackass?
Try phoning her.
You'll know you have because they won't ask you to do stuff your uncomfortable with. It will be different with other people because they are different, the right person who is compatible with you will have the same views on sex, or they will love you enough to compromise some of their sexual desires for their partner, because sex isn't everything in a relationship. You're right to ask how this will make you feel down the line, when your older and have other important relationships, do you want to have to lie to them as to why you have 2 boyfriends as it seems like you wouldn't be comfortable living an open polyamourous lifestyle, which is what your boyfriend is asking for.
How does it feel to date Ralph Kramden?
You can't really do anything about it. Just wait and see what happens. Any interference will probably create distance between you and your son.
report her if you want to but let’s be clear you’re not doing it for anything but revenge.
Yet today it is not, sorry
Yep, wasting the cost of a wedding is still cheaper than divorce.
Honestly I'd have dumped this dude when he pressured you to farm out your cats to his brother. Guy can't get his own pets? It seems like manipulation and control on both their parts
Go on the honeymoon trip with your friends.
Yes I am resonating with him. I'm a recovered limerent. So i know what the delusions of limerence can make you do. its a horrible illness. He deserves the chance to get healthy. Not judgment for being mentally ill
Your EX wife isn’t your emotional support animal.
And you can’t have your old life back.
Thank you
Or just tell him to stop working out with her. She's his wife and has every right to do this. If he's any kind of decent man he will abide by her wishes. If it's not important enought o him to even mention it to her, then it's not important to him to not work out with her. No big deal he has this young female workout buddy? Ok then, no big deal to stop.
If you're looking for actual advice its this. Bird in hand is worth two in bush. If you're loved and respected by your current partner dont leave him to look for what you already have.
That being said you're extremely young, at 20 everyone is kinda expecting you to bounce around through relationships trying to find what you want. Just realize you're going to get your heart broken more than a few times if you do 'bounce around'.
But if you are going to explore anything else please give your partner the respect he deserves and break up with him prior to pursuing anything with anyone else.
Having a sexual relationship with a close friend who JUST got divorced is absolutely the worst idea you could have possibly had. I think you and your wife need to talk about the actual boundaries of who you can sleep with. Sleeping with your friend is involving way too many emotional connections. If it feels wrong, it probably is.
Run!!!!!
I found this out literally a few hours ago while picking up my new antibiotics!! Thanks for looking out
It sounds as if he should be f'king men because he has no interest in finding out how our equipment works.
It isn't light hearted fun. It's assault andcyes you are a demeaning pig.
She called you a pig because she tried to tell you to tone it down a lot of times, you completely disregarded her words, and now she's fed up.
I don't think you're a pig. But you're a clueless AH and you should stop making excuses for yourself and start actually listening when your girlfriend expresses discomfort. Yes, even if that means you won't be touching her as much as you'd want.
Its so fun that she checked you and said you’re violating her comfort.
It isn't light hearted fun. It's assault andcyes you are a demeaning pig.
I guess I didn't really think of it like this until now. Boundaries I had mentioned when we had talked about it were that I don't want to know who and when etc. It had been a running joke in his friendgroup to have an orgy and he asked me at one point how I would feel about it. At that point I was like, I guess if everyone consents but after this conversation I really don't know if I'd be comfortable with it and I'm sure they wouldn't now.
She sounds horrendous, and I wonder how she can smell your cologne with her head so far up her own ass. She sounds insufferable. If it wasn't clear by all the comments here, you are NOT the problem in this dynamic. But you do need to let her go.
It shouldn’t take one of you cheating, or demanding a divorce for you to be heard & have your feelings taken seriously. Your relationship is broken.
You don’t have to “save” it. You are not compatible any more.
Go ahead with the divorce.
Obviously you don't hang out here enough.
But hey, if you didn't want all opinions why did you even post?
is that weird?
This is fair, I think I will sleep on it and consider this. Thank you
Well yes.
This sounds like a pic circulating a few years ago about a guy trying to convince his gf that the hickey he got from cheating was actually just a joke his dad did
This has to be a troll. Fuck off.
He looked at some pictures while you were broken up. He had no idea that you were going to get back together, so he was trying to move on.
You're not “being crazy” but it's also not a problem he can solve for you. When you bring up this tiny thing from 5 months ago to him, what do you expect him to do to make you feel better? What actions do you want him to take to remove the anxiety inside of you?
I would also be concerned if I heard my spouse threatening to punch a little baby in the face.
However…
Is this his usual behavior in different contexts?
Does he curse loudly when he stubs his toe? Does he threaten people when they cut him off while driving? Is he usually prone to violence or threatening?
When my son was born I had to make a concious effort to control my emotions when I felt overwhelmed with lack of sleep and stress. When he started repeating what we said and did, I had to adapt again and avoid my usual dirty mouth (still a challenge, I admit) to be a better model.
We don't have enough information to know if this is a common occurence or if he has an anger issue. If this is an isolated incident and he promised to work on it, give him a little time to prove he can.
If you feel there is an anger management issue (which I doubt, since you mentioned nothing of the sort), by all means insist that he gets help.
Some learned behaviors and gut reactions are very hard to overcome. This will also happen later in your son's life, when you have to discipline for his behavior. He is not going to listen to you and completely change the first time. It is bound to take a few instances to get him to pick up after himself, brush his teeth, not to push people around in the playground, etc.
That’s because the stories were made up. Your mom doesn’t have your best interests in mind
It sounds as if he has OCD. Is there anyone else you could stay with? You need real food, no wonder you have bad cramps.
Does your ex gf know you were raped?
Tell him his friend is hot.
I need more advice from you please babe
It depends a lot on your personal health up until this point and your family history.
I know many women who had children over 40 naturally
I know someone who used successfully it for 10 years and got pregnant immediately once she started trying.
I also know someone who got pregnant with an IUD. Shit happens.
And again, this is being suggested as a backup method in addition to hormonal BC. An additional method doesn't need to be airtight. If you go purely by the typical use stats for both methods, it's still going to make a significant difference and give OP some peace of mind.
I got a boner reading this so he definitely did.
He voted for it.
And I'm not a Republican, so take that binary stupidity elsewhere.
He wants to cheat on you and is using an “open” marriage as an excuse. Time to think about whether you want to be in this relationship. I wonder if he has already cheated.
When you make a mistake like pregnancy with a manipulator, it is dangerous to call their bluff. If she moves away how will he ever see his kid?
I agree, I just think she won't see it that way… but there's your last chance I guess…
Think of it like car insurance. You never plan to crash your car but you definitely want to be covered if you do.
And following the metaphor, not every family is healthy/kind. Many are abusive.
Your mom is the way she is and did the things she did in accordance with her own trauma as well. It's not a justification or an excuse it's an understanding. Your parents don't do things to be negative to their child. No parent is like I want to breed resentment in my kid and act in ways they will forever negatively remember.
At 28, you're really starting to see your parents as humans just like you without the answers, which can cause some resentment as you would have done this that or the other thing for ever negative trauma you know you received from their actions. Well, at the time and maybe even to this day, they dont know they caused that.
Your first sentence blames her for being a victim of father abandonment, which affects you too, but still, she's to blame from your father's actions?
Now clearly, there's much more to this, and yeah, she's 100% caused trauma onto you, but sometimes we take things that others see as small and make them huge.
I agree. OP stop doing this to yourself! You gf clearly still have feelings for this guy and that's not going to change anytime soon. This guy is never going to be out of the picture, you need to break up with her for good! A relationship can't survive without trust! She clearly doesn't care about your feelings or she wouldn't be meeting up with him or sexting. Walk away and don't look back. You don't need to be with someone that's just going to keep toying with you. It will hurt as hell right now, but it's nothing compared to a lifetime of heartbreak.
I used to think the same. We were going to wait longer but we had to get married to get him a visa to live with me while I attended my dream school, which I gave up for him later on. I regret leaving that school, I just thought there would be other opportunities and he loved me so what could go wrong..
I wouldn’t bother with it. You tried to do it once. He failed. You don’t have to just forgive and forget just because he decided it was time to grow up. Your wife is being kind of a bitch about this. You do a great job being cordial and understanding of there bond and she wants to push the issue
You mean maybe he’s unhappy?
Looking into everything insurance related now and have texted him asking for the model of his tv so I can text back the instructions as I am in no way up for a phone call.
His actions say he doesn’t want to progress. He should be at least willing to have the conversation. That’s just disrespectful to you.
it’s not a “realist” ? that’s just stupid. I’m not mad either. U guys only have one point of view and not the other. So ur not even commenting with open mindness and that’s what i don’t like. I already expressed how i know visiting n shit would b hard but love isn’t always about in person shit.
Do you have a question?
I know i get a little hot and bothered by comments and a little defensive and combative. But I don't necessarily think i am wrong either. Should women have to put up with constant harassment? No of course they shouldn't. Is it fair that there are people who want a relationship? Yes. Is it fair they seek it? Yes. At the end of the day though, this is exactly why I am, not cruel or dismissive but maybe a little cold. Let me put it this way, I arrive at work I say hi how are you. This is literally a “ok, fine” comment, not an invitation to tell me your sob story. Because then I am “ok is there anything for work i need to know? No? Ok i'll get abc while you do xyz.
That is an an example of how I am now. Another good one is when i get my favorite coffee, I just want the coffee and not to have a conversation even though they seem like nice ladies. I hate answering “how are you” or “anything fun planned” and will give one worded replies and i won't ask how they are.
I think this is the approach most women want now don't they?