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Date: October 24, 2022
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How long has he worked there? Does he have social anxiety… Do you? He may just have been nervous about being the only one to bring a partner and having to socially babysit for the night instead of chatting/networking. I think a lot of the responses here are very worst case scenario but the comment about being too pretty for the roommate is definitely a red flag.
Have a frank chat about why he didn't invite you and maybe say it's a shame you didn't get to meet his colleagues. See if they ever do drinks/lunches that might be partner appropriate and that you want to meet them. In particular, see if you can meet the girl in question because you'll gauge a lot from how they interact.
Also, casually mention it to the roommate and see how he responds. He'll know if his friend was playing single or acting inappropriately so you might be able to sniff out the situation from there.
Tbh if he is lying to you, play your cards close to your chest because otherwise he might just get better at covering his tracks.
I can't explain that but there are a whole bunch of people there.
I agree with you here. She has already kissed this Ex, so it's not like she can claim the relationship is in the past and they're just friends now. I'd be very concerned about this. Also, I get wanting to hang out with friends, but things like Birthdays, Christmas and New Years I feel should be reserved for your relationship. There's hundreds of other days of the year to socialise with friends. It's definitely a bit iffy that she'd rather hang out with this ex on an important date than with you. If I were you I'd be reconsidering whether this relationship was for me as she doesn't seem to care so much about your feelings even after having maturely expressed them.
How old is the baby now? How long before your wife has to go back to work?
Haha, a steamy God I love you moment.
I'd say 50/50. Could be some truth to it, could be hormones.
Regardless of reason, both are positive for you. Ones just more major than the other.
Well I'm about to ask someone on a date this Tuesday, so I'm hanging in there.
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Interact with him as little as possible. Don't ride with him or if you do, don't speak much. Don't comment on “best by” dates around him. Don't answer him when he says something dumb.
In other words, pretty much grey rock technique. (google it)
The only weight you need to be concerned with losing is the deadweight bf.
Take your meds. Trust me, going cold turkey can be horrific.
Partially because I want to have healthy communication in our relationship. If he has a medical issue, I want him to feel comfortable to discuss with me. I also would like to understand if there is anything I can do to help and/or if there is a way to limit the need for medication because some of the side effects could directly impact his career.
Partially to be supportive and understanding, and let him know it’s not something he has to hide from me.
You are assuming no man would feel vulnerable when he gets rejected, and you are perpetuating the standard that men want to fuck 24/7 or at the drop of a hat. I think a bath and candles is waaay more effort than just taking my tits out and expecting that's seductive enough, so i don't think that's a good comparison.
Yes, he could have been more sensitive and yes, in marriage you are supposed to take the others feelings unto consideration, but sleeping in another bedroom because she's offended? THAT is ridiculous and childish.
Why, OP? Why would you give in to him? He’s not worth it.
Make sure you have a clear understating of your finances. Make copies of records and know how to access all accounts. Prepare yourself to divorce him and get full custody with child support. This is so messed up.
You don't need “valid concerns” you can leave a relationship for any reason or no reason at all. If you aren't happy then go
That’s true, but he has to actually fucking say something.
WTF is wrong with your girlfriend?
Right mb. Situation sucks, I d say leave him and keep the kid or leave him and get an abortion if you can t afford to have a kid rn. If you stay he s most likely going continue cheating on you throughout the rs, don t think any kid is gonna want to be part that and you either
He's filling them with water and joining in water fights with the local kids but he is embarrased to admit this because he thinks that OP will accuse him of being immature or trying to relive his childhood ….
Sounds like interest is there.
He has never avoided or dodged plans you've made, right?
Kind of sucks that you've fallen into the initiator role, but that can be corrected.
To me, his level of interest will be shown if you seek an adjustment and his reaction to it.
If he sees is as work and reluctant to hear your side vs hears you and adapts to it.
so in other words your his mom and his bang maid.
She thinks of me as a friend, I communicated my feelings
The only thing I can either do is wait or move on.
I am also afraid, like she has her colleagues ( some are interested in her too?, If I bail out and do not wait what if? Somebody else waits , would I regret that?
He's just not that into you.
just give him a deadline and if he doesn't get it by then, it's on the curb with a curb alert posted.
I agree with the poster – he doesn't get to dictate anything with you. If you aren't into it, then he either accepts it, find some work around or something else that works, or move on. Not coerce/manipulate you into doing him the favor.
Regarding your overall opinion about the act, I can't say I disagree. – Fellow straight woman.
I think you should cut off this supposed friend. She’s not a friend and she’s ruining your mental health. You can’t change another person. She is selfish and doesn’t care about you.
Start by loving yourself. Do things to help you grow. You are too focussed on her and for too long. It’s time for you to move on. Eventually you’ll meet people that will care for you. When you see your therapist choose what is more important for you to fix.
You have low self esteem and confidence in yourself this is why you think you are nothing maybe it will be good to fix this with your therapist first.
That’s kind of how I feel. It’s unorthodox but it’s not gross.
Agreed. Girls in my high school friend group dated men in their late twenties and early thirties when we were in high school and no one ever said anything to them apart from their parents. I would imagine most people would’ve just minded their own business or assumed that the girls were older than they looked. No way this entire community is actively shunning OP over this.
Also I very much doubt that his 30 year old wife looks 15 but idk, I guess it’s technically possible
Honestly, the gut punch is on you…however.
It’s kinda off putting that she had “one last romp” while on the trip. I get that you both agreed to go exclusive after the trip, due to you having to travel but…her getting one last bang in feels slimy. That would be something I would have issue with.
Unless you did that on your trip as well. Then the consequences of it all are just on you.
If you want to move forward after that, youre a dumb*ss (very respectfully) unfortunately.
I don't know is a good idea to confront him. We don't know how long have you been with your boyfriend and don't know how is he as a person. It looks suspicious but we don't know what is the truth.
Maybe you can take some pill and confirm what it is. If you have some proof before confronting him he can't lie about it. And i don't know but when you put it like that about the blood you never know, maybe is nothing, but maybe is better if you go to the doctor to see if everything is fine?
You are confusing conception and implantation. Pregnancy can be detected days after implantation, which would be maybe a couple weeks after conception.
We’ve talked about it a lot together. I’m attracted but we can’t date because of living in other countries. It’s more just wanting to help than anything, it sounds like it’s something he struggles with and I don’t know what to say.
In your understanding, is 'temporary BD flareups' a category level that is manageable, and can be reasonably fixed? I'm seeking a psychologist, but it seems you have an educated opinion. So I am interested in hearing it.
Judging by the information above, I would assume 'temporary BD flareups' is the case. I.E. in this scenario, she was (A) triggered by a very specific event, (B) was under the influence of too much alcohol, and (C) was on her period. Driving the explosion. Outside of limited events, she is almost always completely fine for levels of BPD.
It's kind of disappointing how accurate the information is in your link. Of the 18 BPD warning signs, 1, 2 , 3, 4, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 14, 16, and 18 are recognizable. To be clear, she's not doing all those all the time. For example, she's not always the victim. Often, she can identify when she is to blame, and will apologize. But she can be hard to reason with sometimes when it comes to fault, and it is not uncommon that it will take an apology from me first, and a few days, for her to realize her contribution. Even if I didn't do anything wrong – I.E. her getting jealous over something that is unreasonable.
There are some things that are absolutely true all the time. Like having friends. It is likely hard for her, being an immigrant and a traveling nurse. But to be clear, she has absolutely no friends outside of her family she actively keeps in touch with (number 16). She had just 2 when I met her. Both where long distance. Both she flipped from being very close to them, to not liking them at all (number 1). That stood out to me a bit, as I have always found her lack of interest in making new friends odd. It's beyond introversion – she doesn't have any, and doesn't want any. She just needs her family, and me. Putting me in the center of her life (number 14), which ironically I always kind of adored. But knew was unhealthy.
Thank you for all your help. Seriously.
Bye bye
She's gaslighting you. She's trying to manipulate you into allowing Ron into your life and basically pretending you can't see her without him being there.
Your mother has decided to turn this situation into a “it's my daughter or my boyfriend” situation and she's made her choice.
I'm truly sorry you're going through this. But this relationship isn't even worth trying to save at this point.
People’s physiology changes in their late 20s. When you’re 20 you can stay up all night but by the time you’re 30 you start to appreciate not feeling like a zombie at work and you go to bed earlier.
If you want the sex, listen to her and plan it earlier. Skip the movie.
Wank sock.
What point of she was monogamous until he kept dropping hints is so difficult for your tiny mind to comprehend?
Yes, how disgusting, what male would ever do that?! Gross! Phooey! Shame on him! Gross weirdo, jerking off to attractive women he knows personally. I for sure have never done that. No way Jose.
i’m soo saying that haha
So he’s probably trying to find out how much he can squeeze out of you?
Ask him what he plans to do with an extra savings he can find. For you to put it in your own saving account or to squeeze money out of you to pay off his debt or for you to take on even more bills he’s paying so he contributes even less.
Ask him what he plans to do with it, and if it’s the latter two reason, tell him to stop being selfish and he wanted finances separate and he needs to contribute fairly so you’re not taking on any extra bills.