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Your opinions on her job are irrelevant
A partner not cheating is the basics, him being financially being there for you is good as long as he doesn't see that as buying off the need to be emotionally supportive. Parenthood is one big compromise, time, money, freetime etc. A true partner is about give and take, relationship with no compromise will be hard
At best, she’s lying to you both. More than likely, you’re the side piece. She’s lying, she’s cheating. She blatantly lied about where she is going for Christmas, never mind everything less. She’s spending Christmas NOT with you, NOT with her grandmother but with an ex. That may not even be an ex. RUN!
Tell her to boot it. Hoe
I’d say run while he still can
Yeah you’re totally right. I just don’t understand how someone could ‘love’ me. And leave me 4 times
Yeah agree, he doesn't seem “pushy” to me, he is just approaching dating one day at a time
A 3 second call that she doesn't remember was probably a butt dial. Even if it wasn't and she hung up right away, there's no harm done. If you're making it in to a big deal, then she's right to think you don't trust her because….well you don't. Either get over yourself or break up so she can find someone better.
Your doctor clearly doesn't think you're psychotic unless the “medicine” you're on is an antipsychotic. Wait, you didn't say that and said you're on medicine for ANXIETY? BECAUSE YOUR DOCTOR PRESCRIBED IT FOR ANXIETY??? Yeah ditch your boyfriend. He's clearly not equipped to handle dating someone with mental health issues (which lots of us have)
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I wish I had friends willingly giving me 200$ gifts that aren’t for Christmas,birthday or special events
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Having a crush is normal but if it's growing then you should reconsider the relationship
Or the sister and the ex are friends and she offered her a place to stay.
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She really is. She's enabling the abuse!
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Dude. If you can't see the problem with “setting expectations in your household”, I've got nothing for you. Good luck with that.
Be sage and stop wasting your thyme.
Why don't you try to find options for college where you're both in the same area?
After school I didn't want to move away from my best friends. We looked up which cities had universities where we all had options for our professions, and then moved there.
I don’t think you know what malicious means. You can’t have malicious intent if your intent was never to be discovered – you can’t do something for the purpose of causing harm if the person that would be harmed by merit of knowing was never meant to know.
You’re right, hedonism and maliciousness aren’t mutually exclusive – OP being the prime example. She wants to fuck the guy for pleasure, she also wants to rub it in the husbands face as revenge.
Agreed. I wouldn’t have minded this 7 months ago but all of a sudden now he wants one? He woke me up at 3 AM asking me about this.
Your wife needs therapy because her sister has TRAUMATIZED her. And maybe couples therapy so you have a professional helping you reassure her. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.
I wouldn't give any weight to anything he's said, more like the exact opposite. He wasn't a partner that wanted the best version of you, but the worst because you would be easier to control and manipulate.
I'm glad that my comment was able to help in some small way. Take care of yourself ❤️
I only went back to him once. He was a narcissist and I have borderline personality disorder (match made in hell). There’s no excuse for what I did, but we are here now, not in the past. I’m trying to figure out what to do now (not focused on the past).
Then maybe something is bothering her.
As a woman I do have problems with having sexual thoughts, but the thing is, you need to work on them actively. The only thing you can do, is to be there for her. You can also both look after help (maybe some other positions, role play, a no-sex-rule for a few weeks/months, dates etc.).
I read a few comments before posting and saw one telling you she might be cheating. That's why I put it in my comment.
lol bro this dude would be dead to me lol
Therapists usually don't advice things like that, they don't make decisions for you they only give advice and mostly support your decisions though, you try to enter therapy to improve the relationship so the therapist will accept that.
Seeking therapy in general is always a big step and some people may react more defensive brining it up.
Maybe it would help if you sit down and talk and you also enforce your standpoint that you don't want to leave him but want to improve your relationship so you can be happier in the future to take his anxiety out of it a little bit.
i felt safer vacationing in colombia than i ever did in europe (i went to france). didn’t even stay at a resort, but if you travel to a big tourist city and have basic respect for the people there, you’re treated very well. imo husband, like many americans, have this weird idea that south/central america is all cartels and murderers who are gonna steal his baby
You can do it tactfully. No need to bring up any specific names. Just mention that ‘a friend’ in the group has confided in you with some personal information and would like her to stop the jokes.
Hard agree. When I first met my boyfriend (also via dating app), we discussed what we were looking for future wise, including when to marry, have kids, etc very early on. I think it's smart to know what you're looking for and communicate.
Put it on a chain and wear it as a necklace.
And when he gets a wedding ring, tell him to get platinum or titanium so you can wear it all the time. Softer metal like gold just can’t hold up. Nor can soft gems like opals.
When I worked in veterinary medical (so had to wear gloves), all of us put our rings in a little dish by the OR or wore them on necklaces.
You are underreacting to the issues in this relationship. You are not important to him. If you were, he would make the effort to see you, have you an active part of his life and him yours. So what if this is his first “serious” relationship. Because it's not really all that serious to him. He's 31 yo and should know how to treat someone he's supposed to love and respect. I would assume he cares about his family and his friends? Enough to spend time with them? Make the effort be there for them? Why not you? Because you aren't that important to him. I'm sorry, but your bf isn't very nice and you need to move on. You need to believe in your self worth and not have to beg for scraps.
Sounds like he's just pissed you won't do whatever he wants.
I dont really get why guys like girls with a mouth full of cum. Like.. do they just like cum flavored kisses?
A dick should not have a flavor or smell, if it has either then its dirty and should not be sucked until during/after a shower.
You dont need to deep throat. The best blowjobs are just handjobs with more licking, and kissing the head of the dick.
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Tell your dates he's gay. Problem solved.
I was married to this same man. Not gonna lie, it will not ever get better. Most likely, it will get worse. If you are already contemplating leaving, I would rest up and start making plans.
So she’s not wife material because she’s not Asian?? How about you just break up with her and let her know it’s because you’re racist and therefore not husband material?
As a mixed race woman (specifically half Korean, half white), you’re an AH.
Idk for the first thing, and I just checked and she was in the hotel room on her laptop. Idk why they're doing this, and my sister was their first choice, but she couldn't get off work, so she couldn't go. I hope not, because her friends weren't really my type even before this whole framing thing.
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Throwaway cause I don't want her to find this. My girlfriend and I were supposed to celebrate our 3 year anniversary today. She started the day with telling me about how not that big of a deal the anniversary was and I'm not gonna lie I was a little hurt. I specifically tried hard to make sure I got the day off from work even after some scheduling conflicts with my boss almost made it impossible. I even surprised her this morning with wine and chocolate and her favorite sodas. We went to a couple of different places including the mall and target and some errands that she needed done. I tried my absolute best to make sure my attention was on her all day along, which is difficult sometimes because I have ADD and tend to get distracted when I'm just relaxing. She did get me a few things through out the day but over all she mostly ignored me, not wanting to stand with me, or just getting mad at little things. I tried to end our day off at the bar near our place which I thought would be a romantic way to end things. She had already had two glasses of wine at our house and went for a few more drinks at the bar. When I was ready to leave she insisted we go to another bar down the street and maybe I should have said something but I also thought it wasn't my place to boss her around and there was an arcade in the bar so I was willing to go to try and get her to play some arcade games with me. She instead tried to leave me and join a table of random people at the bar which is where I finally intervened and told her it's our anniversary and I wanted to be with her. She finished her drink we didn't play any games and began to walk home. halfway home I realized she was black out drunk couldn't stand straight could barely walk and wasn't speaking right. She insisted that I leave her on the street to go get her the car and drive her home which, I refused because I had a couple drinks and I didn't want to risk it. This is where she began to get really mad at me. At one point she wanted to use the bathroom right on the bridge we were on and when I told her she can't because that's illegal she got more upset. Fast forward to us being home now and she went to use the bathroom could barely stand up demanded I make her food and then she just kept calling me a loser over and over again. She finished her food and went to bed saying I was useless. Now I've always been emotional but I just want to cry now I don't want to be with someone who thinks I'm a loser. I'd do anything for her. Did I do something wrong? What should I do?
Tldr – my girlfriend got black out drunk and called me useless and a loser.
You made the right call. He deserved it and you need to ghost him unless he apologizes and makes some major changes
This is a fair take! I agree 🙂
Not really. He could just say he doesn't feel up to it and I would understand because I, too, know what it's like to have times when I don't feel up to it. If he said he wanted to, but then it never happened, then I would ask. NOT because I think I'm entitled to an explanation, but because I would want to make sure everything is okay with him physically and mentally. If he is okay, then I would continue to respect him by not pushing him to do something he doesn't want to do.
She's already a single mother. OP doesn't help with the house, he said so in his post.
What a terrible thing to say. You have no idea what that guy’s future holds.
Typically, I'd say to get over it since you should trust your husband. But since he's a hypocrite, you have every right to be mad at him.
i don’t know where this idea that people can’t change comes from, but it’s not healthy. people can and do change over the course of their lives for the better and for the worse. you don’t have to be patient while waiting for the former or tolerant of the latter, though.
so because it didn't happen for them it doesn't happen for anyone??
In your husband’s mind, he now has you trapped and can treat you like dirt and his maid. It’s sadly a common story where the happy ending is divorce.
Such extreme actions on his end signals he's done with the marriage. Lawyer up and take your evidence with you. Instead of “why don't you just leave?” It should be flipped back on him.
From my experience, this means you two are not compatible. I was this very masculine woman who didn’t need a man. Read about the exchange of masculine/feminine energy flow between couples. Makes a lot of sense.
I used to date a man who was trying to dominate me completely and I just wouldn’t budge. I would carry the luggage when going on vacation because I can do it etc. He wouldn’t do certain things because “he’s not a girl”. He (and me) barely had any feminine energy in him and we were butting heads.
Later, I started dating this wonderful man who didn’t have a problem with any of this. He is also very masculine, but also has a good feminine side. A healthy balance. Thanks to this I naturally started to become more and more feminine. “Letting my guard down” if you wish to call it. I have never been so feminine in my life. It’s all about the energy and the exchange of it between two people. I would never think this is important.
My kid and I relationship is great but I will give my wife an ultimatum if things don’t get better we will move on by the end of the month
He is a sweet person, and usually very understanding . He is also a hardworking individual, and really good with kids. He is giving, and when he is loving, he's incredibly loving. He is usually incredibly supportive of me also and anything I wish to pursue in life.
Anybody gonna tell him?
She's getting boned
I wouldn’t see it as shitting on women, I’m stating that my experiences have been like. I think the disconnect here may be because I haven’t stated my experiences with I have been in exclusive relationships, and they’ve so been the same bar one. I’ve been on the giving end emotionally, giving my 50% effort and gotten nothing in return. This whole idea that men like to chase and keep chasing seems to be the consensus among women. (Or at least those I have dated) I have seen no difference in the level of effort between being in a full blown relationship and simply having a casual relationship. I’ve set up that boundary because I don’t feel like I’ve really been appreciated in a relationship. Any questions they’ve asked had ultimately been self serving in the fact that it’s more to do with them than anything. Asking me about my whereabouts and then cursing me out for being with another woman is not someone trying to get me better. Asking me about my ideal type so you can figure out why I won’t date you isn’t trying to get to know me better. Texting me more often asking “what do you like about me?” & “why did you only want something casual from me?” Isn’t trying to get to know me better