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There's more to it than that, she also suffers from a few mental illnesses and there's other personal info that im not willing to give over the internet involved with it
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My friend and I got our nipples pierced together yesterday. We decided to get glow in the dark rings for them. Afterwards we actually went into a dark room just to see how they looked lol. I know this seems silly and not a big deal, but my boyfriend is mad at me for this. He says i basically cheated by letting my friend see my boobs. I don’t think I cheated, it literally wasn’t even sexual at all. He literally won’t even talk to me over something so small, we’ve been together for a year. Any advice would be helpful
Main thing is, have a good conversation with him…or atleast put in the effort to. If he's great otherwise, he's not doing it without a reason, so just try and talk to him about it and see if he can understand that you only flake on plans that won't affect him and even follow up on those to ensure you aren't messing around or anything.
Your BF wasn’t around because he was busy pulling his weight. A concept that it sounds like you wouldn’t understand. And you went off at him for it, and then yelled at his parents. None of that is OK.
Your motivation to find a job should have been “So that I am not an ungrateful leech, living off the hospitality of my BFs parents & taking advantage of their kindness”.
Your new motivation should be “so that I can be a contributing person in this relationship so that I can keep a roof over my head & food on the table”.
You apologise to your BF for acting selfish. Acknowledge that the reason you weren’t seeing him is because he was busy working. You also apologise directly to his parents for your attitude to them. Spend some time getting your head right.
I understand that you are grieving, but that doesn’t give you permission to be an ungrateful AH to people who were helping you in your hour of need, even though they didn’t have to.
My partner and I share locations after a recent car crash to help with my anxiety. Ya know what we use it for? Unlocking the door when we see the other is close. “Babe youre at taco bell can I have x y z please???” Otherwise we dont even think about it.
This is someone who wants to control you and already has insecurities. Its not worth the effort.
If he wants to have PiV sex, that means she continues doing the treatment that hurts her.
I think this is where the disconnect is. Him having a desire for PiV sex is not the same as him asking her to continue (which he does and that’s incredibly important to the point you make).
Ultimately it sounds like he will accept it if she chooses to stop, but refuses to see that she’s trying to ask him for permission to stop. (Bad move, poor emotional intelligence.) She’s not willing to say she wants to stop without reassurance that he won’t resent her for it, but she wants that information to be delivered in a specific way and without directly stating what she wants (poor communication, doesn’t allow for him to be emotionally honest).
I have an ex with NPD. I did this with the woman he got with after me. It wasn’t use. It took her five years to eventually leave him! He knocked her up within the first two months of then dating cause my ex wanted kids so badly, he even said, “I don’t care how it with who, I want kids!”
Narcs have an agenda and will do anything they can to get what they want. They will do everything they can to skirt around anything moral or legal, to not get caught.
Op? You can scream till you’re blue in the face to warn people, but until they see it themselves, they think you’re crazy cause the Narc is telling lies about you to the other person or people.
So I wish you all the best of luck, but release control over the ultimate control freak and move on with your life❤️
it is beyond ridiculous that YOU op have allowed this to go on for so long. these are YOUR friends, and by allowing them to shit talk your fiance and LITERALLY NOT INVITE HER TO THE AFTERPARTY FOR YALLS ENGAGEMENT. like shit grow a back bone. who are you marrying???? your friend or your fiance. good on your fiance for not allowing herself to be used by Sarah, who wanted an emotional dumping ground in your fiance while she then ran off with her party friends. also “Bob” is not your friend if he allows and enables his wife's behavior.
Good luck marrying him “anyway”. You think things are bad now? Oh, just wait. This is only the tip of the iceberg. Are you really that naive? Unless you move far away, your marriage doesn’t stand a chance. We should start placing bets on how long.
There's more to it than that, she also suffers from a few mental illnesses and there's other personal info that im not willing to give over the internet involved with it
He didn’t use condoms AT ALL?
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My friend and I got our nipples pierced together yesterday. We decided to get glow in the dark rings for them. Afterwards we actually went into a dark room just to see how they looked lol. I know this seems silly and not a big deal, but my boyfriend is mad at me for this. He says i basically cheated by letting my friend see my boobs. I don’t think I cheated, it literally wasn’t even sexual at all. He literally won’t even talk to me over something so small, we’ve been together for a year. Any advice would be helpful
Dildo of consequences……. Ok I'm gonna start ssying that now lol
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Main thing is, have a good conversation with him…or atleast put in the effort to. If he's great otherwise, he's not doing it without a reason, so just try and talk to him about it and see if he can understand that you only flake on plans that won't affect him and even follow up on those to ensure you aren't messing around or anything.
gross
He's done. Respect his decision not to reach back.
why do you say so?
She's just not into you or she'd be initiating and trying to reschedule.
Actions, meet consequences.
Your BF wasn’t around because he was busy pulling his weight. A concept that it sounds like you wouldn’t understand. And you went off at him for it, and then yelled at his parents. None of that is OK.
Your motivation to find a job should have been “So that I am not an ungrateful leech, living off the hospitality of my BFs parents & taking advantage of their kindness”.
Your new motivation should be “so that I can be a contributing person in this relationship so that I can keep a roof over my head & food on the table”.
You apologise to your BF for acting selfish. Acknowledge that the reason you weren’t seeing him is because he was busy working. You also apologise directly to his parents for your attitude to them. Spend some time getting your head right.
I understand that you are grieving, but that doesn’t give you permission to be an ungrateful AH to people who were helping you in your hour of need, even though they didn’t have to.
Leave. Thats very abusive.
My partner and I share locations after a recent car crash to help with my anxiety. Ya know what we use it for? Unlocking the door when we see the other is close. “Babe youre at taco bell can I have x y z please???” Otherwise we dont even think about it.
This is someone who wants to control you and already has insecurities. Its not worth the effort.
Good riddance
If he wants to have PiV sex, that means she continues doing the treatment that hurts her.
I think this is where the disconnect is. Him having a desire for PiV sex is not the same as him asking her to continue (which he does and that’s incredibly important to the point you make).
Ultimately it sounds like he will accept it if she chooses to stop, but refuses to see that she’s trying to ask him for permission to stop. (Bad move, poor emotional intelligence.) She’s not willing to say she wants to stop without reassurance that he won’t resent her for it, but she wants that information to be delivered in a specific way and without directly stating what she wants (poor communication, doesn’t allow for him to be emotionally honest).
Let her have him.
I have an ex with NPD. I did this with the woman he got with after me. It wasn’t use. It took her five years to eventually leave him! He knocked her up within the first two months of then dating cause my ex wanted kids so badly, he even said, “I don’t care how it with who, I want kids!”
Narcs have an agenda and will do anything they can to get what they want. They will do everything they can to skirt around anything moral or legal, to not get caught.
Op? You can scream till you’re blue in the face to warn people, but until they see it themselves, they think you’re crazy cause the Narc is telling lies about you to the other person or people.
So I wish you all the best of luck, but release control over the ultimate control freak and move on with your life❤️
it is beyond ridiculous that YOU op have allowed this to go on for so long. these are YOUR friends, and by allowing them to shit talk your fiance and LITERALLY NOT INVITE HER TO THE AFTERPARTY FOR YALLS ENGAGEMENT. like shit grow a back bone. who are you marrying???? your friend or your fiance. good on your fiance for not allowing herself to be used by Sarah, who wanted an emotional dumping ground in your fiance while she then ran off with her party friends. also “Bob” is not your friend if he allows and enables his wife's behavior.
You married a child. I’m not sure what you expected.
You accept by dumping him
Good luck marrying him “anyway”. You think things are bad now? Oh, just wait. This is only the tip of the iceberg. Are you really that naive? Unless you move far away, your marriage doesn’t stand a chance. We should start placing bets on how long.