It's not really possible for a LDR partner to provide the level of attention required for a fully mutually satisfactory romantic relationship with most people.
So it's not surprising that you're seeking other sources of attention. If it's not causing problems, and if all it takes to satisfy your needs is a little friendly conversation, then I wouldn't worry about it.
But if you're feeling perpetually unsatisfied, it might be time to confront the fact that a LDR is not for you (which would put you in the majority).
It's not really possible for a LDR partner to provide the level of attention required for a fully mutually satisfactory romantic relationship with most people.
So it's not surprising that you're seeking other sources of attention. If it's not causing problems, and if all it takes to satisfy your needs is a little friendly conversation, then I wouldn't worry about it.
But if you're feeling perpetually unsatisfied, it might be time to confront the fact that a LDR is not for you (which would put you in the majority).
Don't ever feel bad for not being ready to do something.
Texas has some backward laws but I don’t think OP’s post is about tx politics ?
People break up over anything. This is not a reason. It's disgusting yes but not something that can't be talked through
Did you really expect better from a 19yo? Dump her and find someone locally who doesn't BS you
Don't say snitch either. You are a fully grown adult.
Yeah, OP when you said: “it's just paranoia try to be less paranoid” you didn't say the right thing.
Professional help, and see if the relationship is salvageable from thereon.
That is gaslighting. Sorry to say it, but you should dodge the bullet…
That's exactly how this reads.