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Yeah, I understand that. We were just friends at first but over the course of a year it changed. I do understand peoples skepticism though.
I did. He really just controlled how much I got and when and would punish me by constantly threatening to take it away when I said or did something he didn’t like. Thankfully, with the purchase of the house it has now been dissolved.
Fuck Sarah. Fuck the squad.
Worst advice ever
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He asked that within the first hour but he stayed for more than 5, so I doubt it.
He was already there and probably either figured it might escalate to that if you felt a little more comfortable or was enjoying your company but still wasn't looking to date. My bet would be on the former. Don't underestimate dudes' doggedness when it comes to sex even if they're told it's not on the table.
From the outside it's pretty obvious he just wanted to get physical.
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No. When I answered this, the person had asked if she was acting strange before we had left, and that is what I had answered. It was after this that they edited it.
The accident happened after she left our house, obviously. Surgery happened in the early morning. She is still in the ICU, but she doesn’t need any more life saving surgeries. She is no longer in critical condition.
Semen jar!? I totally got a flashback of the poop jar story!
Yeah but why is the girlfriend giving a speech? And why does she need to announce her pregnancy during the speech?
I've told my partner to fuck off before if he was following me after I asked for space. It's not ok to reply to abuse with abuse loke I did, but in some cases both people need to change something.
I’ve never been in a relationship where someone has sworn at me in an argument. So yeah it’s more than possible. This guy is an ass.
A good majority of “mature young people” were forced to be that why because parents didnt want to care for them or their “childish” needs. (speaking as a “mature” young person who went through this exact thing and also many professionals pointing it out)
You don't have to do anything you don't want to. And your fiancee needs to accept whatever your decision is. Personally I would prefer my parents divorce than have an open marriage.
Well, I already mentioned it's possible if they're held back, but either way we don't even know if they met at high school.
I remember being in high school and the administration announced that we were forbidden from driving to the middle school on days we got out early. Yes, high schoolers were trying to pick up middle school girls.
She’s playing games. It’s a bit much for someone her age.
Couple counciling is probably the best bet. Cause either she's lying to manipulate you which is bad. She's telling the truth and you're lying and need some help.
Or youre both wrong and it's just not working out and she's trying to make that clear.
Actually, she asked me to go back to therapy she said a boundary she said if you don’t go to therapy like I am her words I will stop talking to you until 2023. I was going through therapy and that’s when she came back.
This isn’t your fault. It’s isn’t your boyfriends fault. It’s his shitty parents fault. Give him some time to process what occurred, it may have opened or brought back some past memories for him that he needs to think through. He still loves you and you love him. I would suggest making him his favourite meal or buying him his favourite treat as a little pick me up for him if he seems down this week. Wishing you both the very best ❤️
Having surgery to simulate a vagina doesn’t mean you have a vagina. You have a mutilated inside out penis, and most if not all straight men would be disgusted to have sex with that. There is nothing “transphobic” about it
No! He has to take his meds or it time you walk out to protect yourself and the kids.
My ex was Bipolar too and I feel your pain.
Yes, it's scary when they go into depressed mode and get suicidal but it's just gonna be a repeating cycle of that until he gets his disorder under control.
You have kids. You have to prioritize them. I was lucky I didn't have any.
His wording definitely could have been nicer, that’s for sure. But he does have a point here, and it most likely wasn’t meant to look down on you. (I hope).
It’s great that you’re doing your research on the company and preparing yourself that way, and it does go a long way, but you also need to show them why THEY need YOU. Bring your best qualities to the interview, whether that’s wit, humor, charm, whatever. Just keep it toned down to a professional level. Also, research a bit about the person interviewing you. I quick search on LinkedIn is really all you need, and then you find a common ground with that person. It shows that you took the time to get to know them before coming in.
People love to jump to a breakup. If it were for this sub literally no one would be in a relationship since the solution is always to break up. ? In my opinion, the way to move forward is for him to accept he’s not going to be getting head from you. He clearly enjoys sex with you, so if he’s willing to move past that to get all the other wonderful things in the relationship, then there’s no need to end it. This can be solved with a meaningful heart-to-heart conversation.
Ps, my husband (been together 7 yrs), doesn’t like blowjobs. I truly feel like the luckiest woman alive. But sometimes… sometimes I kinda miss giving them (then I get over it and remember how lucky I am). But the point is that we can’t have always seems more tempting! Human nature. And I think your bf experienced that feeling even though he doesn’t actually need the bjs.
If you can’t talk about then that is him not respecting you. Next time he shuts you down just simply say ok if we cannot talk about it then I guess we can’t be intimate until we do. Don’t settle for this and make sure you are heard in the relationship.
Sexually happiness has to be a two way street and it’s not fair that your needs are not met or even considered.
It’s common knowledge that he had no rights to your possessions until you get married. Even after marriage many couples keep their finances separate.
If the subject of marriage comes up, you can broach the subject of s prenup to protect assets like your home and inheritance.
Imagine asking for advice and trying to talk about someone’s reading comprehension. You are genuinely kinda a moron.
The gang-bang plot twist is a WILD choice to make up about someone omg ? she needs better friends
So he acknowledged that he finally understands what you've been telling him. Why are you pissed about that?? Unless he used completely different words than what you described here, nothing he said was insinuating that there is anything 'wrong' with you. Again, you are being very defensive. It sounds like maybe you think there is something wrong with you and you want to make it his fault.
These. things. happen. It comes and goes, for a zillion different reasons. There is no 'fault' inherent in your wetness or lack thereof. It sounds like he is trying to take things on board and your resentment is coloring things.
You could give her your phone number and say if she needs help to let you know. I'm a DV survivor myself and I'm thinking about times when my abuser would jump the fence and sneak onto my property at night, I had noone to come help, protect or defuse, just had to wait for the police to show up, sometimes hours.
Otherwise, just let her know you're there for her. Speak quietly, don't make sudden movements around her, she's like traumatised by this experience.
Thank you for being a good man and wanting to help her.
Now for clarification, since your response makes me think I wasn't as clear as I intended on being.
In my first paragraph, I defined mental gymnastics based on my understanding and experience.
In my second paragraph, I gave an example of mental gymnastics, using the concrete example of consent. The belief one must use mental gymnastics to defend was “you cannot withdraw consent”. I suggested the husband may hold this belief based on his anger at his wife for changing her mind (this wasn't referring directly to open marriages, this could equally apply to almost any other scenario in a relationship). I then reaffirmed that anyone may withdraw their consent at any time. I then gave a second example of withdrawing consent, that of two people who have agreed to have sex. I then also affirmed that a married person can commit sexual assault against their partner if they don't respect withdrawn consent.
At no point did I draw a comparison between open marriages, and sexual assault or cheating. In fact, I only addressed two of those subjects in my comment (I didn't mention anything about cheating, although the parent comment did).
I hope that clarifies what I meant with my comment.
In this economy, I would take money from Satan himself if it meant I had longtime housing security.
I do understand his POV. I think it’s best in general to avoid getting money and family intertwined. I had specifically asked my ex’s parents to stop buying us stuff, I told him exactly why (because I didn’t want them to feel entitled to comment on our business), and he wouldn’t have the conversation with them. And wouldn’t you know, exactly what I thought would happen, happened. We aren’t even together and I still have it throw at me that his parents “did so much for us”.
I would go with what others have suggested; have everything in your name, and he can choose to live with you or not. Maybe he can contribute his own money towards Reno’s or investments for you both. But don’t let him ruin an opportunity that most of us could only dream of.
In this economy, I would take money from Satan himself if it meant I had longtime housing security.
I do understand his POV. I think it’s best in general to avoid getting money and family intertwined. I had specifically asked my ex’s parents to stop buying us stuff, I told him exactly why (because I didn’t want them to feel entitled to comment on our business), and he wouldn’t have the conversation with them. And wouldn’t you know, exactly what I thought would happen, happened. We aren’t even together and I still have it throw at me that his parents “did so much for us”.
I would go with what others have suggested; have everything in your name, and he can choose to live with you or not. Maybe he can contribute his own money towards Reno’s or investments for you both. But don’t let him ruin an opportunity that most of us could only dream of.
Her actions did live up to that term, though
Age gap strikes again. Just be thankful he’s gone. Go date someone your own age who isn’t psychologically abusive.
Do you feel like a valued and equal partner in your relationship?
Does your husband fit in where you are from? Do you fit in where you are currently? Are there good jobs for you where you are currently? Do you need to move for a good job for yourself?
Home won't be what it was 10 years ago. Are you okay with that? Friends move away or make new friends. Do you have any roots where you are? Have you developed friendships or joined organizations?
Make a decision that won't cause you resentment. It is okay to tell your husband that staying longer doesn't work for you. Moving may not work for him. Maybe the two of you aren't meant for a lifetime together. Don't sacrifice your happiness for his. Half of all marriages end in divorce. If you stay and end up divorced would you regret staying? You need an equal life for both of you no matter where you live.
If you did it with the intention of trying to get her attention, that's not good – those are games. Don't play games.
If you truly are at the end of your rope with the lack of effort and reciprocity, then good job putting up a boundary. Now stick to it. Most men have a scarcity mindset when it comes to women and they will put up with a lot of shit before they hit the exit.