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Date: October 31, 2022
It’s definitely cause for a pause at the minimum. The difference in life experience is vast in those age groups. and he can use that to manipulate you. You’re more malleable/controlable in his eyes. He’s fully aware of that. If it’s 27 and 38- a bit different bc the life experience is there. You’re going to do what you want regardless- but just go in with eyes wide open and watch out for things like him telling you what to do/how to dress ext. and If he spoils you (buys you lots of things) sure that’s nice. But it’s also a way for him to garner more control. There’s an exception to every rule, but always safer to assume you’re not the exception. No matter what you decide, it’ll work out. Always advocate for yourself and look out for your best interest. If you get a weird gut feeling- listen to it
Boy, bye. What a tool.
Sounds like she didn't like being rightfully called out for being shitty to her husband.
Do not apologize.
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Fair. You're right.
Sounds like you're doing what I did
Putting all your strength and energy into someone with issues that are not resolving themselves
On top of that you get periods of behavior which is worthy of relationship ending choices
You forget and are not really allowed to concentrate on your own mental wellbeing, as that becomes a one way street
You take responsibility for helping them which then makes you feel guilty when you need to put yourself first
Sound familiar?
All I can tell you is my mental health ended up in the gutter, it only started to improve when I was no longer in that relationship, the huge majority of my own mental issues came from being with that person, so the moment we split, I started to get better very quickly
I left that partner who was 100% reliant on me with no further support, they are still the same but getting by many years later, they have no quality of life, no cash, no prospects but that's their choice (we have an adult kid together)
Now my mental health is back to normal and once it was, I was able to see clearly that I was only enabling someone to not help themselves but also to be abusive because of their issues as they knew I wouldnt leave (or thought so)
I dont regret trying to be a good person and supporting that partner but I do regret I was too unhealthy mentally to do the right thing, which was to leave much earlier, as the moment I did put myself first, that person was no longer someone I wanted around me
I learned complete dependency on someone else (especially financially) is actually a manipulation tactic to hold themselves hostage, so you're guilted into sticking around
Once I realised that, my view of the person ended up in the gutter, which torched every atom of guilt I had
She had her father supporting her well into adulthood by paying her living expenses simply because she didn’t want to live at home, he routinely pays for her things, buys her expensive treats, goes out for one on one time, still pays her health costs.
Yeah that’s spoiled for a 25 year old.
It ruins all of us
Block and never talk to him again
I think you did fine. There's no need to apologize more. Just keep it in mind not all men appreciate that kind of clothing.
“what if a dude jizzed in a pool and then she went swimming that day and one of them got in there and got her pregnant?”
You need to look up how people get pregnant. And not date men who think this could happen.
It’s like going through your partners phone for no reason. If there’s no trust why are you in a relationship?
Sorry to hear about your mom’s past.
My parents were faithful to each other but there were other problems with their marriage. Old school Italian Catholics who didn’t believe in divorce but didn’t have a loving relationship. So my view of marriage is not theirs but I do believe in keeping my promises.
Thanks for the reply. I was genuinely wondering about that. I can sense how lost and scared you are here. It’s pretty shite. Comments here are everything from burn the house down, the world is ending to “whatever”. Three things I notice is that it is like 6 months or less and that bodes well to nail this on the head. A commenter said something like stay somewhere else for a little bit. That sounds like a pretty good idea to me. Last one is think very carefully about reporting this to early. I do not know the duty of care and mandatory reporting regs there but you can get unexpected consequences around drug seeking behaviour that will have a wider blast radius. Especially if insurance providers get wind of it. Anyway no right answers but it is perfectly valid to be feeling like you do. I sort of think that you will make this right. Good luck right.
Nah, he was very sane, OP's father probably believes that apostates to Islam must die. OP's dad has no clue about how the real world works outside his little Islamic bubble, and he was taught a very important lesson that assault has consequences.
Hell, he's lucky he didn't get shot dead in self-defense, which he could've, especially if he continued assaulting her, which is probably pretty common for Islamic fathers to do to women in their family.
Also the arm bone is not that strong honestly, now breaking a femur or cracking his skull open is a different story.
Send her back one with “my lock is bigger”. Put her shit outside, Change your door locks and move on.
Sounds like she was being a mega buzzkill on the trip and so they are trying to get back at her for ruining their trip, from their perspective.
I think your sister is being genuine in her concern, but the person feeding her info is being malicious. I don't really blame your sister because who would suspect someone of going this far to frame someone of cheating for apparently no reason.
Yes, if there’s no basis to it, then get over it. Sticks and stones. He’s an adult. She’s his wife. He needs to suck it up and deal with it. Hence, therapy.
When I was around 30 years old my then husband and I were looking for a new apartment. I would sometimes bring my father to an open house if my now ex husband couldn't make it, since it's always nice with a second opinion.
Now, I also look about 5 years younger than I really am, that's at least what people usually tell me. So, I might have looked like I was 25 rather than 30. My father was in his late 50s.
No-one seemed to look at my father in a manner that suggested that they thought I was his very young wife. They probably, if anything, just rightfully assumed that he was my father.
I think the big issue was that even believing her age, that didn't absolve me. The ones who accepted her age basically took it as I'm into children, so I'm dating an adult who looks like one. So I still like children, and am a threat regardless. It's bullshit but that's how it's gone.
I constantly hear the comments. And have had people outright confront me. Today a parent was telling their child to stay away from me because apparently I'm dangerous (she's friends with Leah and was just walking over with her).
I am not saying he didn't behave poorly. But there is no way all of that would justify cheating. There isn't even a scale.
Instead of breaking up or talking about the situation she went looking for attention. It's not about empathy, I can understand being alone in an unfamiliar place, but she chose to mess it up.
I did try to be nice about it. You're the one who made an ass of yourself.
I'm sure he would be stepdad material if the woman he was dating was willing to communicate like an adult.
You should be trying to make friends. It's important to have a rich social life.
Old enough to be your father.
Get your nose out of the dictionary and into actual context. You’re being obtuse.
The issue here is with OP’s boyfriend being a judgmental ass. OP’s past is not the issue. She should tell him, and she should likely break up with him, because her not feeling comfortable telling him is a big red flag that he’s not a good person.
Dude. Your mental health matters, and your adult fully functioning partner- should understand your mental health issues. Anxiety is quite literally the worst feeling on this planet and you deserve someone who will help you feel like you will get through it. Not how much worse it will be down the line, when “she needs you” as if she is helping or supporting you to the level she expects??? because personally- just reading that, as a person with anxiety. GIVES ME anxiety… there is no way you deserve that, or need to deal with it. And as a female I’ll tell you, there is someone out there who will be your person. And they will never berate you. I wish you luck and I hope you give yourself a break and let this relationship go.
Um, lady, the only appropriate response is to immediately break up.
This guys was never going to marry you or anything anyway. Say thanks for the year of memories, then give him the finger for ditching you. Then think how it's a little creepy it is for a 27-year-old to date a 19-year-old in the first place (if you don't get it now, you will get it before you're 27) Then, mentally prepare yourself for his engagement/wedding announcement, which is most likely coming soon. And then move on with your life, and consider this guy a cautionary tale to help you make better choices in future.
One day, you'll want to slap your younger self for agonizing over whether it was selfish of you to be upset about his. Trust me, you have been free of any moral obligation to consider his happiness in any way since he flew off in that plane; you just haven't realized it yet
Can I just not want to eat my own cum and not be a homophobe at the same time?
OP, spit, swallow, whatever, quick mouth wash rinse, and enjoy the kissies then. If he's going down on you too I wouldn't stress about it.
I get why your family is worried.
You somehow got together, but also took a step back, but also moved in together, but also saw other people, but also the whole time had discussions leading to getting back together. All the while there is an 11-year age difference.
When summed up like that, it certainly doesn't look great or promising to an outsider. You may see it differently, and your therapist may understand it differently because nobody probably has a more complete picture than they do. But anyone else? I could see why they are worried, whether it is just or unjustly.
All this to say, proceed with caution and expect it to take a while for your parents to warm up to this relationship. So take his (re)introduction slowly, just make it clear you've heard their jokes and remarks loud and clear, but that those need to end.