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Date: October 7, 2022
You don't care about advice since you didn't ask for it, so why are you here in a sub dedicated to asking for advice about ones relationship?
She's going to keep cheating with her friend, and when / if that goes south, she'll find, at minimum, one other guy to 'fulfill her needs'.
Good luck with a trashy asshole cheater.
Two years of it and you still think she's a good person?
W T F man?
you say that otherwise your boyfriend is sweet and kindhearted. im wondering, how does he feel about you doing all of this? is he content and even often pushes more work on you, or does he seem embarrassed? when you say you have to get specific, how so? is he frequently forgetful? if he seems like he wants to be more independent and responsible but doesnt feel capable of it, i would recommend looking into whether he might have adhd or a similar neurodivergency. this isnt to excuse his behaviour, but just to say if theres a psychological reason underlying it then that is something you can both adjust to and accommodate so that there is a more equal share of the work being done between you. if he seems like he just hates doing work but hes otherwise a good guy, perhaps couples counselling is in order
It is sad to see people treating marriage as a prize they get for being a good girlfriend/boyfriend. There are no relationships without some issues. The other person is always different from you and thinks and acts differently. Learning to be together despite those issues is the whole point of a relationship. Changing each other is usually a bad idea. Adults can't be changed, or be happy if they are forced to.
Marriages aren't something final. People divorce all the time. There is no point in long trial relationships, especially when those seem to last more than many marriages. Except that because your goal is marriage, you aren't simply enjoying life while in those relationships.
Anyway, it seems like you have serious problem, and one of them mught be that you started this relationship with him while being very young. Have you had any other meaningful relationships? Perhaps the best thing for you would be to break up with him and find someone who is willing to be with you as you are, not as he wishes you to be.
They are always so special aren't they? Such supportive good friends! So smart, right? So brilliant! Why should he tell her to go away? -sarcasm-
I have been there. Fuck him
Woah woah! You have to get rid of the cats, then just get rid of one cat so he can have one???
All this after catching him flirting with another woman?
Why are you two getting back together doll? I’d it just because he’s familiar and comfortable?
I hate cats. For real. But if I love someone, and they have cats, then I guess I’ve got fucking cats too ??♀️
The red flag is coming from inside the house!
Yes. He thinks it’s compromising by cuddling while on his phone.
Do you like her? I agree with everyone here, she clearly likes you and hoping you say that you do like her and gives her a way of saying she does also, either that she just thinks you like her idk
Seriously, run! I have never once commented on a man’s size.
Go nuclear and say her vagina was too saggy and you are used to someone smaller. In any case, she's not worth your time.
You can ask wives the same thing. Would they appreciate their husband making constant unsolicited probing questions and “suggestions” about chores she is doing? Why are using that soap? Here use this soap it’s better. Did you mean to use that bag to bag the cat litter? Here use this bag.
It would be different if it was a one-off situation, but my response is based on OP comment that this is a regular behavior.
Bro repeat after me ” I have self respect, and will break up with (insert gf name). I am young and have time to find someone who can treat me equally good”.
Time to break up with her. Stop wasting her time. If she wants marriage and you do not, let her go.
Imo Never actually talk about kink until 1 you’ve already had sex or you’re in the bedroom etc. It’s just an actual good rule lol
this wasn’t brattiness this time, this was genuine i didn’t want it.
negatory.
The unreciprocated yet continued flirting began to constitute harassment. when contact was made, it graduated to sexual assault.
Imagine if a man had gotten a woman alone, then pinned her and kissed her against her will. Surely that would be sexual assault.
Ok so how do I say this? Umm your friend is being catfished
The dad is the one who brought it up
You’ll have to be strong and cut contact , it might be hard at the beginning but you’ll get used to it .
So you don’t think I would sound crazy if I brought all of this to his attention?
Just in case I recommend to go to a gynecologist and check to see if you have BV, a yeast infection or something else.
You could get a dental dam and see if he’d like to try again with that.
But you are really young and you don’t have to put up with people who won’t communicate or say they lied to not communicate.
That might not be the answer I wanted, but somehow I feel like I needed that. Thank you. Any stuff I can do to get over it?
Girls have these little organisms sometimes, if you try and not shoot you can experience it too, shooting is what makes a man not able to cum twice, it’s kinda hard to understand, but it’s REALLY seen as not a big deal to the person experiencing it, my wife will spread her legs under the bathtub faucet and have several just to warm up so when we connect shortly after she’s in her prime for the bigger ones.
TO BE FAAAIIIRR!!!
Even if she knew she was adopted, taking that test (which she would have been more eager for) would have shown it was with her Dad's foster sister. There's no way that would happen in a healthy relationship.
As someone who has seen it, there's no age you can tell a kid that they are the result of SA where they'll take it well. It's a horrible thing for anyone to face. When they are young, they usually lash out in terrible ways and get into trouble in their teens. Adults can't cope with it very well either.
Or she's never had an orgasm so she really doesn't see the big deal
…first off stop calling him your boyfriend. That’s a dangerous psycho ex boyfriend you have there.
Second I would alert every family member you have, every friend and neighbor, and the police of what he said. Make sure everyone and anyone knows that he threatened your life. Honestly there are places that he could be arrested for saying shit like that – could be considered a terroristic threat, class 6 felony where I am, for example.
Third- get the fuck out! Leave, never come back. Restraining order, get a gun, get a big ol’ dick-biting dog, etc. (maybe this is too dramatic, but idk, better safe than sorry with religious nut jobs)
He sleeps a lot more & I don’t sleep very much at all. We have 2 bedrooms now but I’m not sure how often I really want to be going into the other room
she showed me a test that said 3+ weeks
English isn't our first language so sorry if it came off as childish.
Could you explain to me what heady rush of hormones means? I want to know that if this is the causation how could I stop it.
Alright thank you
Definitely need time away from things and hopefully ill be ok in a few months
The only failures in your life is your mother and ex husband.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. On the contrary you seem to be an excellent mother because you value your son's happiness above anything else.
my body had a negative physical reaction to all this
sounds like he's also stuck in the “student” mentality and tbh it's not one that is grounded in reality
Partners should enhance your life, not act like this! How on earth do you expect this man to actually help you with a baby when he's no better than a toddler himself? Absolutely not, he won't. Don't live your life like this OP.
This starts to sound like your bf is both growing up and having a life.
Long rant made short, his change in priority doesn't change his understanding of what's important. You can be the #3 priority of the day/week, but still the most important.
This impulse to reach out and check on someone you've dumped is an exercise in guilt assuagement. As long as you're not depressive and suicidal she can end the phone call believing that it's all okay and she doesn't have to feel bad. But you don't owe her that. You won't be able to recover and move on fully until you cut contact with her completely.
Talk to him before you lose your shit.
I'm so sorry to hear about your girlfriend, I offer my sincerest condolences.
50m, widower, my wife (42f in 2027) died 6 years ago after a long battle with cancer. After she passed away I had terrible anxiety and very disturbing dreams. I reached out to health care professionals for help and suggest you do too. The next few weeks and months will be difficult for you for sure.
It still hurts, but it gets easier. Work with a therapist to talk things out.
Yall watch too many made-for-TV movies and now let your minds become extra suspicious over unsuspicious circumstances. It’s a work trip, looking good is important for impressions. She’s married too. Get therapy over your insecurities, please.
that and they actually learn stuff because they don't have the preconceived notion of “I'm a man and I was born knowing this.”
Stop talking to him one on one. Stop trying to sort this out because the more you try, the more he will use it as ammunition and twist your words round to suit his own agenda (whatever that is).
You owe him nothing. You’re not his parent, his mentor or his mental health carer.
Look after your own studies and career.
Leave, he’s unsafe to be around. Getting violent and locking you out is never ok, period.
The denial I think is a weird expression of grief but grief doesn’t excuse violence. Get out to protect yourself. He needs grief therapy but you can’t make a grown man go if he doesn’t want to. Take care of yourself first.
yup! sooo spot on! these idiots never thought of the “what if when its a reverse situation”.
Yes ofc, I regret I even gave him the ultimatum the first time, it was very childish of me. So I for sure will not do that again, just thinking of leaving myself. And again, I do not dislike the girl, she was trying to do the right thing, she believed I was cheating and wanted to let my boyfriend know, she was being a decent human being here. Just wished she would have listened when I told her the truth but she is not, she continues to talk badly of me.
The problem for me is how he lied and did things behind my back… But I guess the choice is somewhat obvious 🙁
If you can control the amount you drink, then it shouldn't be difficult to make that amount zero.
Yeah your boyfriend but you don't care, you are an abuser and your boyfriend is a victim
He says he just hates being around people he has never met before but I definitely think he has social anxiety and just won’t accept that it’s an issue. He works from home too so it’s hard to get him out at all. I’ve finally negotiated 2 morning walks a week and he has started going to the gym. I feel sad that he also won’t see his own friends, who I know he likes but who he now says annoy him.. if we were rich I would get him to therapy but alas I have 15 quid to my name
yesssssss it would be foolish please don’t do this i’ve done it and i regret it.