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Date: December 6, 2022
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I would ask the friend you are staying with for their advice. If you are helping organize an engagement party, your friend knows you are invested here and might have some wisdom about what is going on. As awkward as it is to do, I don't think it is out of line to ask one of the couple getting married about the bridal party. Couples often have to choose between close friends in order to make a bridal party. Because it is a friend group and because you live a distance away, it may be the case that you feel closer to these friends than they do to you. There is no shame in that. I've been on both sides of such an imbalance. However, it would help you to know whether it was a matter of practicality – (ex: it is easier for local people to participate, numbers- they couldn't have a large party) or something else. It would be reasonable to ask the couple if you were going to be invited to the wedding if you feel there is any doubt. Obviously you would need to know in order to make travel plans and it would avoid obvious awkwardness later. If you simply are not in the bridal party, let it go and have a wonderful time. If you won't be invited to the wedding, have a heart-to-heart with these people you are close to. This is how friends sort out problems.
You're overthinking this. This is a fantasy for her. She has already consented to this multiple times, and has explicitly asked you to do this. If she wakes up and doesn't like it, she can stop you in a few seconds. I'm sure she won't just immediately forget that she (literally) asked for it. I can imagine having to sign a contract just takes all the excitement out of it, and I also understand her feeling like you don't trust her.
However, you don't have to do anything that you're not comfortable with. If that's really the issue, just tell her you won't do it. I'm sure she'll live.
Oh, that’ll be very convenient for HR when they fire you.
OP, stop harassing your kids.
You are the problem.
They do not owe you a relationship. You clearly did some horrible things to create this situation.
Go get therapy for a few years and then revisit whether you think you deserve anything from them.
This happened to my friend… sort of. She had a coming out party. Dated a woman for like a year and then was with a man. Not going to lie… I was confused for a second but she said something akin to… “I thought I was gay but it never fully worked for me… I think I just loved her…” and everyone accepted this… and her. The thing is… people may ask, just have a canned response and don’t make it a huge thing. “Guess I have an exception… and it is Garry.”
Go be happy.
Bro what she still cheats you can't be that naive cmon man
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She'll be fine, if the actually exists we did her a huge favor!
In my opinion being able to talk or not talk comfortably with someone is one of the most important aspects of a compatible couple. If he’s always been like this, I think you should just cut your losses and move on as kindly as possible.
I was going to write all this stuff but frankly I think you just need to hear this.. get out of their life. You are not part of their marriage so your opinion on what he can kr can't afford is worthless. You already stated that she's had bi polar episodes that was accompanied by reckless spending. Well she also being reckless by telling you everything about their marriage, how much debt they have, etc.
If be financially controlling every $1 spent, i cant blame him based on how immature his wife is and that she hangs out with someone who thinks her opinion on how they should spend their money actually means anything
Do you want to give him anymore chances?
Mind you post break up things have just been a complete mess & disrespectful even as it comes to decency (which I know she owes me nothing of). We now no longer speak
If your breakup was messy, it is understandable that you would want to sever all ties and move on with your life. Is your mom aware of this being a messy breakup?
This brings me to- her wanting my mom to help her get a job. Is that appropriate anymore? OR Is that indecent on my part if I try to veto that for a 5 year relationship?
Did she remain friendly with your mom after the breakup? You can't really control that, but you can set appropriate your boundaries with your mom:
“Mom, I dont know if you realize how painful my breakup was with (ex). It has been really difficult for me to move past her, but I finally feel that I'm in a good place. That said, the best way for me to move on was to cut her out of my life completely. I understand that you may not have any grudges against her and may choose to still be friends with her. I can accept that, but I dont really want to know what is going on in her life and would appreciate it if you dont share with her anything that is going on in my life.”
Now, if your ex isn't really friendly with your mom, but is asking you to ask your mom for favors, you dont owe her that.
I don't shave my legs very often (granted, I'm 6 months pregnant and it's winter) but it isn't a way to thwart intimacy with my partner. I'm just tired and can barely reach all the leg spots to shave. Lol. Even when I wasn't pregnant I didn't always shave my legs and we would still be intimate.
If he has conveyed that this is something he wanted to do for himself then it’s be duh much not thoughtful
If he has conveyed that this is something he wanted to do for himself then it’s be duh much not thoughtful
Personally, this would be a non starter for me. If it isn't for you, it's best to lay down hard boundaries now, otherwise it'll get much worse. The last person that tried that with with my son and my co-parenting relationship with my son's mom is now an ex, because that was merely a symptom of bigger problems that came later.
“At the same time” also works really well
I don't have many either, but those I do, I love to bits and I wouldn't want them to hurt the way this man is willing to let you hurt. I hope you have a beautiful, bright future being loved by someone who cares about their happiness. In light and love, stay true to yourself x
sigh….why and why do you even choose to go out with him? Why are you putting yourself in this kind of situation? Jeezzuz Chryst!
She doesn’t respect you. Don’t build a future with someone who doesn’t respect you.
Why would she needs to tell you she is hanging out with friends at her place while you are in a long distance relationship?
Please, what was the naughty text that went to the work chat? XD
I think it is a little weird that she works for your parents. If you are ok with seeing her if things don't work out you can go ahead. Also, if you can be mature enough not to be negative towards her if she says no or things don't work out you can do it.
I'd say you want her to buy you coffee or tea at a local shop or something to keep it a short interaction.
I think it is a little weird that she works for your parents. If you are ok with seeing her if things don't work out you can go ahead. Also, if you can be mature enough not to be negative towards her if she says no or things don't work out you can do it.
I'd say you want her to buy you coffee or tea at a local shop or something to keep it a short interaction.
This is all true, and in addition, she is actually being horrible here.
however I don’t often want to I just feel like that’s what I should be doing to be a good girlfriend (silly I know).
Y'all have created a very unhealthy relationship and sexual dynamic. Stop before more damage is caused to both of you
I appreciate your input. I recognize I was wrong by snapping that’s why I wanted therapy. I will research in that stonewalling term so I don’t do it anymore. Thanks. Only, I have to say I didn’t expect that ending because I feel like I’m powering through in efforts to please her while being stressed out badly and feel like asking for help in almost every turn. Perhaps my view on things is too immature. I’m not really good with feelings tbh.
Just want to clarify I didn’t pull out from sex. I still comply and do the same things we used to, and some newer. I’m just tired more often but still deliver every time.
You expect her to not tell any family for 9 months? Or is she expected to not see any of them over the next 9 months?
You really aren’t the brightest human are you?
You are the side piece.
Act as you see fit.
Dude your “girlfriend” is a pathological liar and cheater. You know deep down your getting cheated on or your really naive and need a reality check. Which is man up and end this toxic relationship work on yourself find a better partner that’s not going to lie cheat then manipulate you into believing she’s not and actually cares.
Every exposure you have to this allergen increases your risk of becoming anaphylactic. Why tf are you staying with someone who gives zero shit about your health?
We don’t have to assume anything when reading your comment history. You are a pretty disgusting person and you will never have any meaningful relationships with anyone in your life. Especially the older you get.
Stop giving him affection if your needs aren't met.
This isn’t good. Not good at all. I would leave him sooner than later OP. The longer you stay the harder it will get to leave. You are still young please don’t let him dull your shine.
What do you think the life expectancy of a dog is? If you’ve been dealing with this for ten years like you say than these dogs will be dead by the time your divorce is final.
Honey you're too young to settle for this man child.
Just use mild soap down there. Oils and perfume etc is not recommended and might cause irritation eventually. You might want to see your doctor if YOU think you smell weird. You know your body, you'll know if something changes in your smell or discharge.
Also please leave this fool. -You do all the work and pay for everything while he puts no efforts on
-He is texting other girls about sex stuff. This is not a normal behavior if you are monogamous. It's inappropriate and disrespectful to you
-You shouldn't have to change what you eat, drink and wear to get somme attention from him.
I promise you that there are loving men out there who would love you and treat you right. Your bf is not that person.