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Date: October 29, 2022
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Dude cut your loses before they grow also maybe find someone in your age group. I know she isn’t a big thing but ultimately if you want someone with similar mentality you want someone who’s hopefully equally mature
I'm going to say I had pretty much the same read as /u/Acrobatic-Panda-1119. I can find some sympathy for Shera wanting the group dynamic to stay the same, and I don't think it's unreasonable to ask for some time with just the old group, but it sounds like she really isn't ready to accept and adapt to how things have changed with you and Byron being married.
It's been a long time, things change, she needs to either work within the new situation where you guys have other partners now, or decide that this is no longer worth it for her. Instead it seems like she just tried to make it be the same without saying that out loud and grew resentful when it didn't work.
And that right there is how everyone – including your husband – will know that you made a mistake, but you’re still inherently trustable, redeemable, and a woman of integrity.
Don’t listen to those that advise you with easy lies to soothe, and twist it into some kind of martyrdom.
If you want a high integrity relationship, you need to act with integrity in it. Same goes for honesty, faithfulness, and respect.
It’s the only way.
You’re making the right choice. Good luck to you, I’m rooting for you and your marriage.
Have these meetups never been specifically called out as dates? Is there flirting or any romantic progress whatsoever? She may be signalling that she doesn't want that – or that she just prefers not feeling indebted to someone. Either way you have to specifically tell her that you're interested in dating and growing your relationship.
Be prepared for rejection of course. Thats just the way it goes.
Ok. At some point along here one of you is going to have to be the grown up.
she told you she had something important at work the next morning, you remembered this, you completely disregarded this because you were “so turned on”, she barely got any sleep, couldn’t fall back asleep after you woke her up, she isn’t talking to you, now you’re here asking reddit if you made a huge mistake?
buddy you’re incredibly dense, yes you made a huge mistake, you massively fucked up congrats
I read this and all you do is play the victim. You chose to have unprotected sex, you chose to tell your parents or a trusted adult who could help talk about other options. You blame the father even though it sounds like he was a stoner who liked smoking weed. Guess what my dad was a stoner and would smoke after we went to bed cause he could finally relax. That dude also died in a work related accident which I doubt it was weed related due to construction being dangerous. You then blame your child for all your stupid mistakes and blame everyone around you but you. Yes blame lies with the parents for forcing you but you still had other choices to make and you made them poorly which can be expected of a dumb kid making adult decisions. Then both your other step kids back up what their sibling says and you still can’t accept that you were a shitty parent cause you blamed your kid not yourself.
If she doesn’t want a relationship with you then respect that you chose to treat her the way you did and now you deal with the consequences. You made your bed op and now you have to sleep in it.
Personally reading this. I believe you still aren't considering Julia's emotions. You've explained to reddit why you couldn't be a good parent and why you built resentment toward your daughter. You are aware that you've felt this way. But you thought it wasn't affecting her or your relationship with her. It's unfair. It's unfair of you to think you deserve to be treated well by her. It's unfair that at 6 years old you wanted to give her up for adoption. It's unfair that you blame everyone but yourself. You became pregnant. This wasn't a choice you made. This wasnt a choice she made. but you made the choice to have sex. You made the choice to listen to your parents. You made the choice to harbor resentment towards her. You made the choice to ignore her feelings and concentrate on your own. I believe you need to listen to her. Listen to what she says. Don't make excuses. It's important that she is heard in a safe way where you don't jump up to tell her why your feelings matter more and what you went through was harder. And that she has good things because of you. Because they aren't because of you. They are despite you.
Don't let your desperation for a relationship talk you out of your common sense.
This is not love.
I genuinely want to figure out a way of making her understand that making me feel like shit for what she has dreamt is not fair.
(I still listen and am compassionate, but now it’s just an act)
She knows its not fair to you, but she doesn't give a shit.
Stop listening and being compassionate. Not about all things, just about this thing. If she starts up about something bad you did in her dream, just get out of bed and leave. Say something like, “I've already told you that it's unfair of you to berate me for something that happened in your dream. I'm not interested in listening to this anymore.” Then just fucking go. It is unfair and immature for her to blame you for something that happened in her dream. She is continuing to do it because you haven't set a meaningful boundary with her. She'll stop when she realizes that her behavior actually produces real-world harm to her relationship.
Oh god, if I were you I would just say my goodbyes right then and there
If you know for certain you haven’t been with anyone else, then you know he’s lying. Like others have said, if you haven’t seen the results in black and white for yourself, then there’s definitely something going on here
Oh ok…basically it's drama with other people. To me it's forgivable because it involves people that want to make a problem in your relationship. Explain this to your girlfriend and block the people that are spreading lies about her and you.
Info – does your husband know you married him for money, like is it an obvious money match, or have you been pretending to care about him?
This is great, I was going to suggest a journal but if he needs an audience there seems to be someone out there willing to listen to just about anything
She does like to keep things simple, yeah. The picnic idea is good, thanks 🙂
I hope you leave so he can go find someone who wants to be with him.