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The possibility that you might lose some friends in the break up is not worth staying in a relationship where you are unhappy. Also, just because you break up doesn't mean you can't be friends anymore in the same friend group as exes.
I'm asking you if I should ask her tbf
When a narcissist doesn’t just triangulate but triple triangulates, that’s you.
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As a guy, I understand him, we have our g-spots in there and it does feel pleasurable when stimulated. This is just how male bodies work. The pleasure that we feel has nothing to do with our gender orientation. Men could actually have two types of organisms when anally penetrated and stimulated, the first type is the (Wet Orgasm) which is basically ejaculation, some men even cum handsfree. The second type is the (Dry Orgasm) which is said to be more similar to female orgasms, Dry Orgasms could come in waves and last for extended periods of time. Dry Orgasms are said to feel more intense that Wet Orgasms.
If you would want to learn more about prostate stimulation then I recommend r/ProstatePlay. I recommended this to you so that you may better understand your husband and where he's coming from.
Now, with all of these said, you should set some boundaries with him, if you don't want to partake in his exploration. It's okay if you're not into it, but as a guy myself my recommendation is, don't prohibit him from exploring his own body. If you don't want to peg him, then you could tell him to purchase prostate massagers or a sex machine.
As a guy, all I could say is that if your husband likes the feeling of getting fucked, he would seek it out. I myself experimented with another guy just last Tuesday. I had broken up with my GF a month ago and I thought to myself, “I've been curious about this for a long time now, so why don't I try it?”… I did find a guy and he fucked me. I'm not attracted to him at all, I did it purely for the sensation of prostate stimulation.
What the actual fk?
My fellow ladies, why in the world you let men treat you like incubators and garbage?
OP, your husband said that you being attacked, assaulted and raped was A BLESSING. A BLESSING!!. Do you not see that he is a selfish psycho who you need to kick out of your life? Do you really think he loves you? Absolutely not. I have no idea why he needs that baby so much but I guess nobody else wanted that guy, no surprises there.
Abort the fetus and abort the husband.
I understand. I haven't gone into details of all the occasions she made me feel small in public just to avoid gossip and rumour. But that's not the point. I want to improve and understand how, in actionable ways.
Ma'am you were not a “”borderline alcholic”” if every time you drank you blacked out completely. Hurts to hear but you were absolutely an alcoholic and your experiences as an alcoholic are not comparable to OP who isn't a fucking alcoholic
Maybe being an alcoholic fried your brain. Traumatic memories like being raped, beaten etc can be accessed even after a blackout, maybe not immediately but in a few years OP is going to need a LOT of therapy for this. Ask me how I know drinking traumatic memories can resurface years later, go ahead
If you weren't drinking at home than your rate of being drugged is much much MUCH higher than 2%. OPs risk of being drugged at home should be nonexistent and yet she absolutely is, uou can disagree w me all you want but what you're perpetuating is dangerous. I'm glad you were relatively safe getting blackout all the time but frankly that shouldnt be the norm and I'm glad you're sober now.
OP is being drugged, she should not be getting blackout every time she drinks off of a few drinks. Your tolerance builds the more you drink, it doesn't disappear
I graduated HS when I was 16, I worked at a local ice cream shop. When I turned 18, I started looking for a real job and found him looking for an assistant, so I applied.
Thank you for your honest opinions, I’m weighing all of my options.
So is she. If she moves in, it’ll be her home too. He doesn’t need to wear, as he said, “super tight boxers” around an unrelated child. It makes mom uncomfortable, you know, his girlfriend he’s supposed to care about and want to be comfortable. He can compromise and throw some shorts on. I don’t think he’d be unreasonable to not want hear to walk around in “super tight panties” if he had a 14 year old son around.
Ask a good friend to help you see it through. You need to do this for your own sake. Just ghost.
I’m not at all saying you should force yourself to try sex again but also…sex is rarely good when you’re starting out. You had sex a total of 5 times when you were 16 and a virgin. There’s so many factors as to why you wouldn’t like those experiences like he was also inexperienced, you weren’t mentally prepared, you weren’t warmed up enough, you could have medical issues like endometriosis, you could have vaginismus, etc. You were literally a child. But you wrote it off and decided you just hate sex. Do you not have any sexual desire at all? Do you masturbate?
As far as everything else it sounds like he does care for you a lot so it doesn’t seem impossible but just you have to talk to him about it.
I'm a people pleaser. I like making people happy.
However, I can't make people happy if I have no happiness myself. Or if the person I'm around actively makes me unhappy.
How do you feel around him? Happy? Relaxed? Tense? Uneasy? Neutral? Scared? Loved? Respected?
How does he contribute to your happiness besides you having a person to give happiness to? How does he positively impact you more than a roommate or pet?
Being clear about your reasonable boundaries only makes crappy people unhappy because NOW they can't exploit you. It makes good people a bit sad because they inadvertently upset you, but now everyone's happy because they know the rules.
This is solid advice if anything this is constantly messing with my mental health
Honestly couples counselling is useless if the individual doesn’t want to save the relationship. Counsellors aren’t magic, you have to come in willing to do the work. I’m a huge advocate for therapy, but they would likely spend money trying to do half-assed CPR on a corpse.
I’d like to say that a therapist working with him long enough would be able to help him identify and work on those patterns even if he doesn’t specifically call out his attachment, but I have no idea :/
Do you two speak openly about him being avoidant? Or is it just something you’ve observed about him but haven’t brought up?
Yeah, that's how it starts. But soon there's a friend of a friend who also wants some. And then their friends have friends and before long, it'll be total strangers.
I'm not trying to be mean, but that's just the way it goes, unfortunately.
She doesn't like you like a possible relationship. She likes you as a person and she needs money. So either go back to paying for her time or tell her to have a nice life.
I’d phrase it a little differently. Right now, four years is a lot. When you’re 34 and she’s 30, not so much.
So just say something along the lines of “the difference in where we are in life right now is too much” or something like that.
BF is either rich or has a vibrator for a dick or both because I don’t understand why you’re still with him, OP.