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Model from: ve
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Birth Date: 2003-03-08
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Date: October 10, 2022
Im so sorry. It’s so hard especially when your lives are so intertwined. All the love to you ❤️
Have you expressed this to him
Respect his boundaries. If he says there will be no kids, there will be no kids with him. If you want children, then this relationship is full stop not the right one for you.
But there's more here: You keep making (totally valid) excuses on why it would be better to stay home and how much of a strain it would be to go to his country compared to a better life for you to stay home.
From my perspective you're really sunk in on the NRE to even consider this. You want to make your life objectively more difficult, relocate to an entirely different country, to start a relationship with a man who you don't really know all that well and who self admittedly is mentally struggling, “selfish”, emotionally unavailable, unreliable, and can't even hold down a job.
When people tell you who they are, believe them. You're fixating on the dreams of what you want this relationship to be and not listening to and respecting the reality that he's telling you, and you're acting like you know better than he does (with the whole thinking his kids issue is negotiable, thinking that he's not 'seflish').
What I worry about happening is that you make the decision to go and you will find yourself trapped in that country with no prospects, on the brink of poverty, stressed out because you will have to be the one to be an adult and pay all the bills, and suffering pain and resentment because you will never have that family you wanted.
The kids question is a dealbreaker and reason enough to walk awway; But the rest of the situation is a red flag to run away screaming from.
You asked how it was misogynistic. Both my and your comments are good examples of that. Neither of us said it was bad but don’t act confused by it.
Totally. Why the hell would a 1-hour timeframe be put on picking up a set of damn keys?? This is horrendous, my heart just dropped into my feet for you when I read what his message was.
it can be a subtle ask. If once the clothes are off you notice something you don’t want to be sticking your face in, suggest “do you mind wiping down real quick?” Not sure if this is something that would be triggering but hopefully if you do it in a thoughtful and understanding manner, she will understand.
Bro, is a random photo from internet with paint, Its not her. Just to show where is the bruises…
I was heartbroken and called him crying and yelling. He said that we were separated
“what do you think separated means”
He started crying and asking how I could do this to him. Begging me to take him back.
He was the one who made the choice to be separated. He was the one who slept with a mutual friend, a double betrayal, within a week of separating. Tell your ex the same thing he told you. “We were separated. What do you think separated means?”
Unfortunately, if you get back with your ex it more than likely will not work out. He will resent that he was not able to get you pregnant and that you slept with another man. Conveniently forgetting the fact that he was the one that asked for the separation and slept with a new person first.
This new guy sounds like he wants a relationship with you and was excited about the baby that you will have . I know that it is later in your life than you intended to have a child, but you also seem excited about the prospect of a baby. I would say go forward with the pregnancy and see where the relationship with the new guy goes. Even if that relationship doesn't work out, it seems like he is the type that at least wants to be a good father.
Congratulations on your baby. Don't let your ex, or anyone else family included, ruin your sunshine and happiness.
Well you're going to be saving a lot of money because you won't need to pay for his food or other expenses anymore, since he's clearly not willing to get a job and help out financially, that dude is on his fucking OWN.
I would simply ignore them to be honest. A true friend wouldn’t be upset with me setting boundaries.
Agreed, I was going to suggest that. If she’s so keen on having this friend around, they csn arrange their own damned vacation on their own dime. Uninvite them both and find someone to go with who isn’t taking unfair advantage of your generosity.
Ethical nonmonogamy only works when boundaries are set, communicated, and agreed upon, and followed.
You're not good at nonmonogamy.
You're also not someone that should be with a partner if you're going to resent them for something like this.
THIS IS A RED FLAG AND A WARNING SIGN FOR YOU TO LEAVE! Do not marry him!! You will be trapped and things could get worse!!
Please call a domestic violence hotline!! They will help you and can provide resources for you. Sadly, your situation won't be new to them, but the good news is they have the experience in helping people in your situation. Please warn your family and try to record his threats on video, voice memo, or through a recording app. See if you can get him to text you these threats so you can turn them into the police.
You could stay at a motel or with a trusted friend. Get out ASAP but make sure you have resources available so you can do it safely. Please be careful and please update us ?
that’s what i’m saying. communication has been pretty spot on with him, so i’m planning on asking him his side of the story and let him know that there’s a large list of things i like about our situation but this one terrible thing about him is how he was a fuck to my friend. we already spoke about not wanting to hide anything, but also how complicated this situation can get.
as for my friend, i’m going to treat with respect and kindness. i really do appreciate her, but we all have to move on.