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Your husbands knowledge stops at grade 9 biology. If he's not totally unreasonable just do some googling and show him some proof.
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Agreed. OP you crying in front of someone who is supposed to be there for you in these types of hard, emotional situations is fine. You're supposed to be able to cry in front of your SO. You feel like it was a mistake because she didn't respond the way a caring partner should respond.
She didn't want to intrude? Didn't. Want. To. Intrude………wtf kind of response is that to seeing someone your supposedly care about being in immense emotional pain? My fucking dog has a better sympathetic reaction to me crying than your gf does for you, hell my 3 year old daughter would even come and hug me if she saw me upset.
To keep it short I'll just say I was in marine infantry and was sent to Iraq in 2004. I had some rough times when I came back and my wife would find me sitting in a room alone crying and wouldn't even say a word, she would just come and sit beside me and gently ease into to hug and comfort me. It's not intruding to hug someone when they're crying unless they tell you specifically that they want to be left alone.
I will say that maybe she just doesn't know how to react and comfort others when they're upset. I've known people who grew up in emotionally distant families where your emotions were your business so it's just something they've never known how to deal with. It's something that needs addressed though if you have plans of staying together because you've got years of emotional pain ahead of you, that's just life, and not if your partner isn't trying to help you through it there will be more problems.
So your parents give him food and shelter during very hard ecomonic times and his response is start drama over their vices, you really should try dating men who on some level can be grateful.
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Why would your girlfriend want an abusive woman around her kids? In any case, your girlfriend needs to see her on her time when you're not around and preferably not your home. That means when it comes to events for your kids like birthday parties, school plays, etc… that you will be at, your girlfriend needs to put your needs first and not invite your mother.
Is this new? How did you marry someone you havent been able to discuss negative things with?
If it is new I would suggest couples therapy because this has to be coming from somewhere else. Maybe you vent to her more than you realize and she’s fed up. Maybe she has evolved thinking on things how she views relationships and you need to evaluate if you are still fulfilled in the relationship.
I don’t really understand the line of thinking that venting about work problems is not a role for a significant other, so unless she has always been this way then I think it has to be something tangentially related.
You know now that it's important to tell people right away if you're in a messy situation. Also, why worry so much about the nuclear fallout that may or may not happen? Why do you care if the friend group drops him? He treated you horrible, why do you care what happens to him? Actions have consequences and he treated you like garbage. And if people drop you instead or there's a mix of people that side with you or him… Don't worry about it. True friends stick around and people go in and out of our lives (and sometimes in those rare moments back again).
Break up
Aside from the predatory age gap (at your age).. this woman has already lived a lot of life that you will have to miss out on because you’re going to be stepping into a daddy role
You recognize this is more lust than love. Move on now before it gets infinitely more complicated
Does Gordon Ramsay's restaurants still count as Michelin stars?
Umm….. If it has a star, yes. If it doesn't, no?
Nothing to do with disease and poor conditions of course. They all died because they slept beside their mother's. Lol.
I agree that I was not sensitive with my delivery and that is what I think I may need to apologize for. The pronoun thing triggered me to respond with no filter. I also don’t want her to think I feel bad about kicking her dog out because I genuinely think my boundaries were not respected by her. She’s obviously hurt, and I do think I caused some of that with my word choice. Idk why I feel so torn about whether I need to be the bigger person or not.
It’s called free will. You have it as well as him.
Maaaaaaaan, sell the house, and move on. Make sure he pays child support.
I think this'll be the last chance I'm not going to say anything so its not suspicious and its her choice. If she goes out and does it again then thats it I'm done.
At that point I dont think you can use the excuse about it being a drunken mistake
Erm, yes. Why does it matter that he was gifted something by another woman? Does that automatically mean there is something going on? She may aswell just say that she doesn't trust her partner.
I agree. Divorce rate with doctors is extremely high. Add two and the odds are greatly against you. It doesn’t sound like she will cut ties with her parents either. She might be working extra to stay away from home, but don’t expect her to reduce her hours when you’re married. If you’re not sure -don’t. Postpone. It’s easier than divorcing
I'd check his phone bill dials and texts for the last 90 days.
In the currency of my country, Brazil. Everything is expensive here.
She didn’t make a fool of you. You made a fool of you because you assumed you were exclusive. Yes the argument can be made that you were serious enough to be exclusive because of your holiday together but the reality is unless you explicitly talk about what you want in the relationship both you and she were free to see other people. Use this as a lesson for this relationship and any future ones to never assume someone knows what you think or how you feel unless you tell them. Nobody is a mind reader so she can’t be held to the same standard you were holding yourself to because like it or not you were not in an exclusive relationship until you had the talk
Maybe, just maybe, she wants to be your friend. Didn't she say “message as friends”? People don't lose value just because you can't sleep with them..
Nah she's just mean. My sister is the same, a genius is raising, very skilled artist and already interested a few art schools at the tender age of 14. She is straightforward too and has a mean sens of humor, definitely on the spectrum (seeing a doctor as of now, a bit late but we do not have a lot of means). Can't wear a lot of clothings because they feel weird on her skin and has issues with some of our home lighting but has to deal with I anyway because, once again, accommodation costs money. Even she is not as mean as your gf, and she is 14. Manners and tact can be taught to anyone.
You should’ve called him and sent him the screenshots as soon as you hung up.
It's not complicated: You either give up your hopes, dreams and self-respect and become the housewife and SAHM for a guy who respects you so little he literally hides your birth control, or you break up and find yourself a dude who has some dignity and honor. Your call.
I wouldn’t say your in a great relationship but toxic/manipulative doesn’t necessarily seem like the best way to describe it, although I think because your so isolated it magnifies things.
Ultimately your main issue is your girlfriend’s inability to deal with confrontation. That is the issue that you need to figure out if it is possible to solve. My best suggestion for that is to try ask why she is doing the things she is doing that upset you (including issues with her communication) as that gives you a better starting point to work from communication issues wise (ask about specific things though otherwise it can come off as passive aggressive) if that doesn’t work it may be possible to get through to her by making it clear it harms the relationship for you, if she has mental health issues or grew up in a bad household encouraging her to access therapy could help but would need to be handled with care.
If a breakthrough happens on the communication issues front then that opens the door to resolving the other issues but if there isn’t then you aren’t going to realistically be able to.
However and this is very important, if there isn’t a breakthrough that’s not your fault, you can’t get someone who is just unwilling to communicate or change to change.
I would also highly suggest seeking out new friends it’s not good to be so isolated even in a good relationship never mind one as difficult as yours (online spaces, discord servers for things you enjoy, local hobby groups are good places to start)
I’ve been though it, it gets easier to recognize after you’ve dealt with narcissism before but they make us doubt ourselves so much it helps to get someone else’s perspective! Good luck!
I wouldn't interpret it as an addiction. If I don't eat all day and start feeling hungry at the end of the day and really crave some lasagna, I wouldn't feel like I had an addiction to food, I'd feel like I had a normal biological urge to take care of
To me women shouldn’t get this preferential treatment, and men shouldn’t be given a pass for having “masculine energy” and not knowing how to communicate or express their emotions in a human way.
Honestly, this is an “all women for themselves” type of situation. It's your husband's undoing and not yours. He dug himself in, now let him find the solution. Don't pay anything for him. Pay your usual share, don't buy him anything. Tell him to get money from god knows where, you don't give a shit and it better be soon.
His actions were stupid, clueless and above all, so blind to the future, it's really astonishing. I'm sorry you're going through this right now. There is absolutely no way his old job will take him back and if he was stupid enough to damage something, then they'll also sue him for damages. Jesus… You'r husband is a tool.
Fuck it, if your soul needs peace, just do it. If you don't get a response, that's your response, nothing. Nothing is what she is offering and thinking, so if she either doesn't want to clear the air or doesn't reasons, then you just stand tall and let em live happily while you do your best to do the same. Either way, you'll be able to give yourself that final death to any hope. Good luck!
Bob is just trying to stir up more drama by doing this.
This letter was a bad idea and inappropriate. Bob now has a trophy that he can forward and make the case for you being inappropriate and frankly a bit hostile. All weddings are a filled with cousins who don't like other cousins, divorcees who don't get along, etc. It's a 4-6 hour event – get over it. Suck it up, be cordial, avoid your enemies,,,,all for the sake of the Bride and Groom. Don't make drama and make it about yourself.
I don’t even have a joint account with my husband (works for us). You should separate your accounts and then leave. If he can’t you studying for a test he will only get worse when you’re in med school.
Alright it's Saturday, where's our update?
She's fucking another dude
How you hanging in?
Wait, do you work full time?
No judgements. I didn’t notice the year though. I thought you met a month after you were tested.
A year is a long time between tests. Since you know you didn’t cheat, you were probably positive when you met.
It seems pretty obvious to me. You need to have an honest talk about why he doesn’t trust you. You can’t have a healthy relationship with someone who doesn’t trust you.
I don't actually think you're being tough. I think you're being tough on him.
You've got some great dad, who makes 6x what you make, who does chores.
And you're like “Why are you so whiny about your DISTENDED BACK?” (jesus chriiiiiiist)
Your partner CLEARLY is in need of support and you're too busy resenting him for things like his spicy food tolerance?
You don't drive. You work 1 job that I guess doesn't pay great. You've got a 6 month old.
And your priorities are “My Husband isn't Alpha Enough”.
I've got two kids and my wife is SAH. I cannot fucking imagine having communciation this fucking terrible.
Mate, I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. Don't have any advice to give but sending love and sympathy your way x
Choose the dress (and freedom)!
Out of the 4 the one out of town that’s my top choice would be cheap because I get a discount but that’s the same for 3/4 if that makes sense
If it's solid, your relationship can easily survive two hours of distance. Do what's best for you. It will be healthy for you to learn to exist somewhat independently of your boyfriend and parents, and they'll always be only a video chat away or two hours in the car if you really need them!
You have your head so incredibly far up your ass that youre more worried about your own happiness than hers, you're not giving her any reassurance. Put yourself in HER shoes. She has a right to not trust you, and that doesn't mean she has “trust issues”. You gave her a reason NOT to trust you. You sound like a shit boyfriend from the comments ive seen you reply too. I genuinely hope she sees this post and see that she deserves way better than you.
I said I was the problem but what can I do to help support her? Because obviously I’m not doing it right
He gaslights you and cheated on you. Why would you stay? You‘re a grown woman who should know her worth and know it‘s over when you‘re constantly being disrespected.
Well no.. that isn’t true.. if that was the case I’d never take sucha risk