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Date: February 16, 2023
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I dunno. All theft could be reduced to civil issues
Go to the bars with your friend for her Birthday. If your boyfriend gets angry about it, dump him. He has no right to control what you do!
I'm not sure what religion you're in, but we'll use Christianity as an example because it's a big one, and that is kind of a rule for many people. Using Christianity we have God first giving us 10 commandments, saying these are the most important rules of life, then later he allows his son to die on the cross to save us from our sins. So while you might still believe it's a sin, don't put that pressure on yourself, you're not perfect, no one else is either. Having pre-marital sex doesn't make you a good or bad person.
In terms of the sex though, the studies typically show wait until you're in a healthy, committed relationship, which means wait at least until you really know the person that you're with, which takes typically at least 90 days. If you have sex before you really get to know a person then you'll just keep getting that rush, and it'll bond quicker, so you'll feel more attached to them without having the relationship actually supporting that.
Lying is wrong, and it's not good for a relationship. I personally let certain things go, like if you're trying to surprise someone, some deception is all right. There are a few other times that lying can be acceptable, but it's usually a case-by-case thing, but if you want to have a healthy relationship, you have to be honest. If they want a relationship with you, they will respond in a healthy way.
Who knows what his life experiences have been; obviously this was all adding up to something weird in his mind. May your next partner share your love of saving little packets.
Man, you’re such a loser for digging up an old post. ?
This one!
You shouldn’t have a girlfriend if you can’t make time or effort for her. She isn’t there just for you to have something to do when you’re bored and have no plans.
You should actually be desperate to find time with her when you’re busy, but you’re not. Meaning this relationship isn’t for you.
Plus, you want to move away and she doesn’t. Maybe time to end the relationship sooner rather than later.
My main bit of advice is to shut down your lawyer brain while at home, for now. Don’t point out logical inconsistency and just do what you can when you can. If she’s got a double standard on phone use or division of labor, that’s a problem you can deal with later.
Understand that she is deeply and profoundly miserable with where her choices have led her, even if she wouldn’t change any of them. So be as supportive loving and present as you possibly can and just try to hide your resentment.
Now long term that’s not healthy and if she is treating you like this in six months, get to couples counseling. But for a few months your home life should be about helping her feel like her life doesn’t suck, and your feelings can wait. Not forever but for now.
Do you have someone you can talk to about your anxiety? It helps. Do you have health insurance? you can get free counseling often.
You always have to put a foot down on that stuff right from the start. “How do you know its nice to meet me?” “Well I guess it isn’t. What is your problem?” All the way to “Settle down you idiot. I’m not your son who has to put up with your childish shit. Unlike you, I’m an adult” etc etc etc. if he has a problem being called out on it and wants to take it further make it clear he can put his hands on you one time and you will kick the shit out of him.
I told him I am physically incapable of having sex with him the way it is now which is true. Sad but true. I’d love to have sex with him trust me it’s been like a long two weeks but I become instantly Sahara dry when I look at it.
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So they are incredibly stupid. Got it!
Dude, I promise that's not likely her intention. People can not control how they feel after a breakup. It doesn't make them bad people if it doesn't hurt them as bad as it does the other person.
Having all this resentment and hate brewing is going to do you no good.
I wish you the best, for real.
Right? I said the same thing. My husband right now is the one working because we just had a 6 month old. Monday- Friday I do most of what I can do with help firm my mom and his. Saturday and Sunday. He basically takes care of the baby and cooks. This is how a relationship should work
She also expressed joy at being pregnant, so it could be traumatic in this case, especially if she’s trying to hide it. It’s just not good.
It's so hard, and I'm sorry you're in this position. But don't see it as doing his dirty work for him. See it as taking the power back for yourself.
I fucking heated rn just reading this. This is a celebration for bride and groom. I'm sure the wedding is being paid for by then too, and even if not, doesn't give others to disrespect the wedding.
I'd have security to check this MFer at the doors. Or my friends would toss him out for me.
Fuck that op.
My guy, either this is a fake post or you are extremely gullible and should probably be in therapy for it. Get out of that relationship and find a woman who loves you for god's sake.
So he sees getting oral the same as asking for a foot massage?
Uh sir that’s not how it works. You can’t just ask for oral and expect it to happen and then that your partner will be fine with being essentially used as a walking mouthpiece for him to use when he feels like.
Oral sex is a sex act. It’s not even on par with being a favour like a foot massage is.
Christ on a cracker, you think trans women are things? They're people you daft bigot.
I dated a girl who said she was going to have a phone call with her ex and that she was going to meet me and our friends out. She never showed up. I got home a few hours later and she said they only talked for 20min and she was on the phone with another friend. I checked her phone and she was talking to her ex for 2 hours. She ended up cheating on me. Dated another girl for a few months, she cheated on me. Dated another girl for awhile, she was emotionally cheating on me for several months. I definitely have moments where my insecurities get the better of me and all these things happened YEARS ago.
Would I have been thrilled about the situation where my partner was talking to an ex? Probably not. Would I have reacted the way OP’s husband did? I like to believe i wouldn’t. Were his comments weird about how its concerning if there’s no “bad blood”? Definitly. But we don’t know his history, maybe he’s used to being cheated on and what not. Who knows, people are complicated.
I’m amazed there are so many people attacking one another because one may work for and may apply to them, may not be true for others. But so many people telling OP not to apologize, do you all have that much of ego to draw a line in the sand and to draw out a fight where they could both learn from? OP engaged in something that made her partner upset, no one ever wants to make someone they care about upset, if she had known that was a problem for her husband I’m sure she wouldn’t have talked to an ex. If apologizing makes her husband feel better, keeps the peace, they have ideally a more open dialogue, what does OP have to lose from saying “I’m sorry, I didn’t know this would make you feel this way”? and you know what, im sure he would apologize too for getting so angry. Downvote me, I don’t care. But I could’ve sworn this was r/AITA with how belligerent some of these comments are
People don’t accidentally cheat. Count your lucky stars and move on.
I think she’s had enough of being her sister and parents emotional punching bag over what sister did to her. If the book idea must go to these nutcases, then maybe the only rational head prevailing among the whole lot of them (OPs brother) should mention it to them. OP has had enough slaps in the face, humiliation, and verbal abuse from this motley crew to last a life time. She should stay far away.
She wants a bankroller not a partner. You deserve so much more than her dude, so yeah call her out. And sit her ass down and lay out everything you do that makes her life so easy and comfortable.
I can see the situation has already resolved itself, but I'd like to add that he hadn't named yours and his kids already, but his kids. It didn't matter to him who the mother would be, and I dare say that wouldn't have been the only thing he had already decided about his life that would impact his partner, too, but he wouldn't have been willing to budge on.
Do you think I can still fix this and we rebuild trust if he is willing to give it a chance? I feel like he is better off without me, I feel like he doesn’t care as much about me anymore.. and I also feel like I need to learn from my mistakes
Thank you for the response. You're right, nothing changed about me, he changed his mind. I don't believe it's the first scenario, but the more I think about it, the second one makes sense.
Your carrier should be able to show how much they are texting.
To record his side of phone conversations you can buy voice activated recorders and place them around the house and in his car.
To track him, buy a burner phone and turn on the location. Sign up for a Google account and sign in. Hide the phone in his car and watch where he goes in real time on Google Maps from home.
I didn't mean to imply that she might look worse. I focused on it because the boyfriend was asking her because he wanted to show her off, which sounds like he is implying she looks worse with glasses. Because of that I just wanted to say that it shouldn't matter if she wore her glasses or not from a physical attraction point of view because she also probably looks good with them. More to oppose what her boyfriend said than anything else. Your explanation of the baseline self being just as attractive is better worded. That's what I was trying to say.
Also: I'm sorry your ex made you feel that way. It's such a sucky thing to make your partner feel like they should change what they look like.
You need to think about your future. She told you it doesn't matter to her. She told you! Why are you hurting yourself by staying with her? You are both young and you can find other people that you can be happy with
They were friends but didnt talk/hang out much at all. It was that initial situation that immediately made me not like her and gradually they have been a little more friendlier ever since. Idk. Ik wondering if I should get over it, not care & stop giving myself stress over something that's technically not a huge deal or just burst out angry crying and tell him how I really feel.