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Room for online sex video chat Pretty-Lady
Model from: vn
Languages: en,zh
Birth Date: 1999-03-02
Body Type: bodyTypeAverage
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureBears
Date: January 3, 2023
There are a few things compounding how you feel here. They're all normal things that might happen to anyone, but when they stack up they feel overwhelming, and you can start to feel like your partner is intentionally hurting you.
I suggest you try and tackle each of these individually, because when they interact they can all make the others seem worse.
First, you're insecure about your weight, and you feel unattractive. That's all in your hands, nobody else can change how much you weigh, or how you feel about how much you weigh. You've got two choices, either decide you love your body how it is, or decide you to do something about it. There are heaps of good resources available to help you with that.
Two, you feel like he's not interested in sex right now. Have you talked to him about that? It doesn't sound like you have. You need to be able to talk to your partner about that. Maybe he's got some issues of his own going on that are impacting his sex drive. Maybe it's not about you. You won't know until you have a conversation about it.
Three, his porn habits. You need to decide if you're okay with you partner getting themselves off or not. Generally, no couple has identical sex drives, they're not always aroused at the same time, and people can do whatever they want with their own body. Men typically need visual stimuli to get off. Think hard about the aspect of this situation you're actually upset about, because he probably doesn't feel like he's doing anything wrong. If you're not happy about it, again, talk to him, tell him how you feel about it, ask his perspective, and try to agree on habits that you're both comfortable with.
Finally, your invasion of his privacy. You were going through his internet history, so thoroughly that you know exactly how many images he clicked on. Do you think this is a normal, healthy thing for you to be doing? What makes you feel like you need to do this, or that you're entitled to do this? Is he allowed any privacy? How would you feel if he did this to you?
In general, you need to learn to communicate with your partner if you hope to survive an adult relationship. You're going to encounter much more challenging situations than your partner browsing porn, if your instinct is to break up before you decide to talk about it, you're really going to struggle.
Time for a talk.
Then get your clothes back if it is so obvious and break up if you can't handle a man wearing women's clothes.
You are 21. Move out.
Or “culturally “ do what your parents/father wants. No matter how destructive it is. You are no longer a child but you have to choose to be an adult.
You can’t pretend to be culturally bound but want answers that don’t work for you culture.
You either choose or they choose.