This reminds me of a recent AITA post about a dad advising his son to rethink his decision to marry his gf that got involved in a terrible accident before their marriage. Just love isn't enough to face the reality of being a caretaker. I have no advice just that I hope you and your wife get the help you need and able to get better, either together or separate.
It is very nice to work with perfect information, is it now?
Your bf knows your boss has been sexually harassing you and messaging you inappropriate messages. Now he is told it is all done, because he isn't messaging you anymore?
No, your bf can't know your boss is not going to do anything more, neither can you.
Scorch earth is obvious impossible in your situation, however looking for other job, and moving to it once it is found is the correct choice.
Your bf is insecure, that much is clear. You really need to tell him you will not do scorch earth since you can not afford it, and he is only thinking about himself. He might end up reflecting on his behaviour, or he might not. If he can't, it should be only his problem, no longer part of your life.
The thought plaguing his mind can be probably summarised to: If her boss ends up pushing sexual harassment once, more will my gf allow his actions to keep escalating, or will she tell me and actually quit the job?
There was no mention by you about her and your nephew. Also what is the situation between you and your bf? You haven't said.
Yeah this is a really good point, this part should be the easy part. What happens with more difficult compromises?
This reminds me of a recent AITA post about a dad advising his son to rethink his decision to marry his gf that got involved in a terrible accident before their marriage. Just love isn't enough to face the reality of being a caretaker. I have no advice just that I hope you and your wife get the help you need and able to get better, either together or separate.
What a joke
I'll tell you one thing, they need to adjust your meds.
It is very nice to work with perfect information, is it now?
Your bf knows your boss has been sexually harassing you and messaging you inappropriate messages. Now he is told it is all done, because he isn't messaging you anymore?
No, your bf can't know your boss is not going to do anything more, neither can you.
Scorch earth is obvious impossible in your situation, however looking for other job, and moving to it once it is found is the correct choice.
Your bf is insecure, that much is clear. You really need to tell him you will not do scorch earth since you can not afford it, and he is only thinking about himself. He might end up reflecting on his behaviour, or he might not. If he can't, it should be only his problem, no longer part of your life.
The thought plaguing his mind can be probably summarised to: If her boss ends up pushing sexual harassment once, more will my gf allow his actions to keep escalating, or will she tell me and actually quit the job?
4 years later and he’s still talking about it with his buddy.
Yeah, now that he has you to do his scut work, he's perfectly OK using animals or financial issues to force you to do it.
Your boyfriend does not understand boundaries.