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Date: October 16, 2022
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Is he gonna carry it? No? Then no.
Does she see that it’s a problem and is she willing to work on it? Will she go to AA or therapy on her own? At the end of the day you can’t try harder if she’s not going to try to remedy her relationship with alcohol. My ex was the same way when he drank. I wish I had left sooner then I did but I was convinced he’d wake up one day and change. If you want to give her another chance to change that’s up to you. If you’re done that’s completely okay too.
Yes I read it as she was 15 and he was 19 which is concerning ?
He told me beforehand he was staying at the Fairmont. Which is the resort and I was just sitting thinking about the whole room separation thing and I decided to called to Hawaii to the hotel and asked them, so I talked to this reservations person and he explained to me all the type of rooms they had and the way the are arranged and ALL SUITES are single one king size bed. That’s it. I asked if they had separate rooms but in a suite and even asked for the villas and he denied and said that they only have 2 queen size beds at the villas but even same rooms.
But they stayed at the suite so yes. I’ll give more updates tomorrow. For tonight I have no much more to say about this other than he’s still blocked since the AM, and I asked my friends that had him to do the same from all social media and I blocked his phone too.
We also don’t live together but I have stuff of his and his apartment keys so I’ll be driving there now to get my stuff and leave his keys and clothes in there because he returns tomorrow (I don’t know what time) and I don’t want him to have an excuse to come to my house for his keys and things.
OP, please stop taking on what is not yours. Her self destruction is not yours. She needs counseling. Seriously. Stop feeling guilty for wanting to do what is best for you. Follow your gut and do what is best for you. Do not feel guilty about it, either.
The insight is get rid of this guy immediately and evaluate why you'd think this possessiveness would be attractive. I'm hoping that now that you have an idea about what this looks like to your life that you realize this is not how a relationship functions and that a partner is supposed to build you up and trust and respect you. Get rid of this loser. This possessiveness has nothing to do with his overwhelming love for you and all to do with the fact that he knows he's completely useless and the only way he can think of to keep a girl is to make sure she has no friends or family to turn to and that he can make you feel like you have no better options than this piece of shit dude.
Lol, regularly drinking to the point of being sick is 100% an alcoholism issue.
Think about it as if they were doing any sort of other substance that got them that fucked up. Like “My partner does x or y drug so much every weekend that they are frequently left so sick that they're vomiting at the venue bathroom and I have to babysit them”.
She has a problem.
Average monthly rent, $1,794, for 2022 (United States); $21,528 a year.
The average cost of a wedding in 2022 was $30,000. (More than years' worth of average rent.)
The median down payment on a house in 2022 is 13 percent according to the National Association of Realtors.
The median home price in the United States is $428,700 as of the first quarter of 2022.
So, the median/average downpayment based on those figures is $55,731* in the US; so 30k is a little more than half of that. (* I'm bad at math!)
OP: How long did it take you to save up what's in savings?
What is the projected cost of your wedding?
I personally side with your fiancee; I could never validate that expense for a one-day thing, especially while knowing there are less-expensive options —my cousin had a normal-sized? (maybe 50-75ish people) wedding, but instead of a church and a hotel and a DJ and all of that, she rented the local botanic gardens in the off-season, and had the after-party at her and her now-husband's then-favorite bar (where they often had date nights). They had to keep their wedding on a budget as they had to save to move countries within a month. It was the BEST! wedding I've ever been to, and the total cost was about $3k. I think I spent $50-ish on making her decor, and her dress was about $600. And let me say– it didn't look nor feel cheap, either. There were super fancy hor devours at the venue and free champagne toasts & bar food at the party, after (though no open bar). Her cake was from a local bakery, and there was even a groom's cake.
I'm sure your fiancee wouldn't mind doing something that cost less to include everyone, without jeopardizing what might be a significant chunk of cash to save up for y'all.
The only thing that should matter about any wedding is the person standing next to you.
Good luck.