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But what is crazy? Is it a person in a hysterical state? Is it a person with slight depression? A person with scitchofrenia but on medicines? Or a very aggressive person?
Mental health is not a stable state that one is on through life. Very few of the people are “stable and calm” in every possible situation. Are we all crazy? Or just the unpleasant gf?
Huge sigh this is him to a T. And he even ruined my credit by guess what he has over an 800 now. I never learned how to prioritize myself or I wouldn't be in this position. That was a hard read. But you are right on target.
the suggestion of let's look up together might work, i will definitely try it, thanks!
It's more irritating to get a divorce without your important documents, but it is by no means impossible. A judge can compel your husband to produce yours and your son's documents as they technically don't belong to him anyway.
Have the hospital check your son's hair. Anyone stupid enough to give a toddler an edible once is probably dumb enough to give it to him multiple times. There's a good chance his hair can show signs of THC/CBD/etc.
So, his parents are lying to you about the fire thing. It really doesn’t add up. Remember you say she’s controlling, she’s not, she’s a narcissist asking with the step father. They are not reliable narrators. Then telling you this is a power move. It will come out and they will reply “Well OOP knew the whole time!” They will use you knowing to kill your marriage so that they are the most important people in his lives again.
These people are vile, disgusting creatures for keeping him away from his father. How do we actually know dad was abusive? Your husband was too young to remember and you’re getting all this info from a bad source.
Ultimately, tell him today so you can begin cutting these pistols out of your lives.
You and your gf aren't affectionately compatible. You have been together a year and were tempted into flirting with someone else for the affection you are lacking.
Do you honestly want to spend another year, 5 or 10 not getting affection?
Yes it's your fault.
And your gf has every right to walk.
In the future don't get in a relationship with someone who you aren't compatible with. Get therapy so you can learn how to communicate effectively with future partners.
I am glad to hear you are moving on and doing better and it's only the beginning
I'm so sorry you have to deal with the pain of losing your daughter ❤️
This is such a great point! The more I read, the less it seems like op actually wants advice. He just wants the words to change her mind.
I agree. If you dont care anymore don't fight. But if you care and want to stick it out, there are ways to move forward. Sometimes it's just a matter of getting stuck in a rut and not realizing you needed to have been more intentional to avoid getting in this place. Maybe you need more independence, maybe you need more romantic outings, maybe you need to revamp it entirely.
I'm married and divorce is not an option in my mind unless something major happens. We've had the “we feel like roommates” feeling and we push forward through couples counseling and make changes.
My husband and I both feel that we could have been happy with a ton of different people. That there isn't “the one” but people you click with and want to care for. I looked at my husband when we were dating and thought, yeah, I could love him and want to take care of him for the rest of my life. Even if we evolve and change, I'll support him, I'll help him through anything, and there's the added benefit that he's cute and good in bed.
That's all. We chose to love each other and our love continues to grow as we put more and more effort into our relationship. It is work and takes time and attention. If you care, it doesn't need to end. You just might need to get creative.
well, tbf, he never liked the child. He said that in his original post, that he never liked dealing with her child, he was difficult. And once the child was there the whole time he was visiting, he realized it would be a nightmare to live with both of them. Why it took him 2 years to get to that point I don't know, maybe because they live an hour away from each other, but it's understandable that GF is now very upset and feels betrayed or sucker punched. I would have expected him to walk away as soon as he realized he didn't like the child because mother and child are a package deal. But he can't be expected to stay in the relationship when he's miserable. Yes, 2 years wasted, but now he's expected to waste the rest of his life, and hers besides? Who in their right mind wants to stay with someone who's miserable and unhappy?
You keep talking about time passing and bumpy roads and recovering from tough relationship spots like this is a years long marriage but… this is a dude you’ve known but not been dating for 4 months?
You guys aren’t together. You honestly don’t even sound like friends. There’s nothing to “heal” from because nothing has ever been invested, although that’s hard to tell with all of the intentionally vague “incidents” you two have gone through. From your other post, it sounds like there’s a pattern where something minor happens (like you finding out he has an ex), you block him without talking to him, he gets you a gift, and then y’all start texting again. Or you like him, he asks if you do, you lie and say no, then get upset with his reaction to your lie. That’s not a relationship. That’s just two incompatible strangers who continuously keep reaching out, failing to communicate, misunderstanding the situation without attempting to work through it, and then ignoring the fallout.
Honestly, I vote leaving him alone. Two people who have dealt with this much interpersonal conflict after 4 months of being “friends” are not meant to be – your story is full of vague fights and unclear drama without a single semblance of a relationship to make it make sense. Neither of you seem willing to be honest or trust the other; there’s multiple instances of both parties not telling each other what they really want or expect. Y’all are giving each other the worst parts of relationships without ever seeming to want the good parts. You’re clearly not compatible, and that’s no one’s fault, but it’s time to let it go.
The usual, because it was going to be different this time, because she would change.
And we got engaged because there was a period where it did change, and I could see a future for us together.
What??!
Your bf deliberately said it in the hopes you'd offer your girlfriend's up to him on a plate.
If you had never discussed non-monagomy or group sex or if you aren't into that stuff and he knows it.. he's obviously doing it to make you feel like shit and make you feel like you aren't enough for him .
It's one thing to say you fantasise about Tom Hiddleston dressed as Loki fighting Thor.
It's a completely different thing to say “hey babe, I wish I could fuck your friends”.
That is a complete no to the vast majority of people, and he is a sicko with a selfish, cruel nasty streak if this isn't something you have ever shared you are into.
Of course it will make you feel like shit and not good enough alone for him. That's the targeted intention.
Unless there in context – this was a gross thing for him to say and almost anyone would break up with him on the spot. That's fucking gross and cruel. (Unless your openly into swinging and your friends are open happy swingers with you.)