Your love for him does not let you fully understand that a perfect relationship does not justify an act, that at least in my country it is illegal, do you realize that you are justifying it no matter how much you think not? And what if next time it's not a disease? What if he handcuffs you because he doesn't want you to go out with your friends or go to a recital? You've just shown him that you're going through with him about this, and now he can handcuff you anytime he wants and say “it's for your safety.” Think about it, the line is very fine and he is the one in control.
Sounds like you're dealing with a tough situation with your bf's mom. Listen, I'm gonna be real with you, a lot of guys have overprotective moms, it's just a fact of life. But that doesn't mean you gotta put up with her giving you the cold shoulder and treating you like crap. You deserve better than that, plain and simple.
Here's the deal, you need to talk to your bf about how you're feeling and let him know what's up. He's the one who's gotta step up and deal with his mom, not you. If he's not willing to do that, then maybe it's time to start thinking about whether or not this relationship is really worth it.
As for the consequences she's laying on him, that's just messed up. I mean, seriously, what kind of mother does that? That's just abusive, period. Your bf needs to stand up for himself and tell her to back off, or he's gonna end up with some serious issues down the line.
And as for seeing each other only 3 days a week, that's just insane. I mean, come on, you're in a relationship, you should be able to spend as much time together as you want. If his mom's got a problem with that, then that's her problem, not yours.
If she says no than accept that it’s a no from her. But don’t push away your own needs. It’s not fair to her if you just suck it up and stay because it’s what a good partner should.
IF you now needs kids to be happy, you need to be real about that.
The day is about your sister and her partner getting married, not your boyfriend expressing himself. If it’s something small and not very noticeable like superhero cufflinks, that is fine. Anything more than that where he’s going to be drawing attention is unacceptable.
If your sister doesn’t mind being the bad guy, send a photo of you and your boyfriend in your outfits. She’ll tell him if he needs to tone it down.
the ferrari / ford comparison is quite rude and sexist when you think about it. particularly in the context of his terrible behaviour
Can you start with putting the crib in your room? Or borrowing someone’s next to you crib?
Your love for him does not let you fully understand that a perfect relationship does not justify an act, that at least in my country it is illegal, do you realize that you are justifying it no matter how much you think not? And what if next time it's not a disease? What if he handcuffs you because he doesn't want you to go out with your friends or go to a recital? You've just shown him that you're going through with him about this, and now he can handcuff you anytime he wants and say “it's for your safety.” Think about it, the line is very fine and he is the one in control.
Sounds like you're dealing with a tough situation with your bf's mom. Listen, I'm gonna be real with you, a lot of guys have overprotective moms, it's just a fact of life. But that doesn't mean you gotta put up with her giving you the cold shoulder and treating you like crap. You deserve better than that, plain and simple.
Here's the deal, you need to talk to your bf about how you're feeling and let him know what's up. He's the one who's gotta step up and deal with his mom, not you. If he's not willing to do that, then maybe it's time to start thinking about whether or not this relationship is really worth it.
As for the consequences she's laying on him, that's just messed up. I mean, seriously, what kind of mother does that? That's just abusive, period. Your bf needs to stand up for himself and tell her to back off, or he's gonna end up with some serious issues down the line.
And as for seeing each other only 3 days a week, that's just insane. I mean, come on, you're in a relationship, you should be able to spend as much time together as you want. If his mom's got a problem with that, then that's her problem, not yours.
There is some reason she does not want sex with you. Also, I wouldn’t be sure about her finishing. A lot of men think their wives get off but dont
Fist… We don't know what he said in response to that.
Second, “losing your mind” is a crazy response to a snide comment about your spouse.
If she says no than accept that it’s a no from her. But don’t push away your own needs. It’s not fair to her if you just suck it up and stay because it’s what a good partner should.
IF you now needs kids to be happy, you need to be real about that.
The day is about your sister and her partner getting married, not your boyfriend expressing himself. If it’s something small and not very noticeable like superhero cufflinks, that is fine. Anything more than that where he’s going to be drawing attention is unacceptable.
If your sister doesn’t mind being the bad guy, send a photo of you and your boyfriend in your outfits. She’ll tell him if he needs to tone it down.
Maybe he doesn't feel you two would have any privacy, and he cares about that?