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The drink/drugs part is something that would never have crossed my mind tbf because I come from an area of day addicts. I can see why that would concern others though.
The dark being intimate however??? Why would the time of day change how intimate people will be? If someone's going to cheat etc, they'll find a way day or night.
I can't tell if this is going over my head because I'm queer or because I'm neurodivergent, but thank you for trying to explain it to me.
I just don’t know what to do, a part of me believes to just calm down let her figure out things. But every chance I get I keep falling into talking to more and more about it, telling her how much better I’m going to be telling her I’ve finally have been dealing with my issues. And keep promising her it will be better. And I absolutely understand why she is so hesitant I mean why wouldn’t she be I messed her up mentally, and it took this long to finally realize it and see it and understand it and I just hope it’s not to late… she just keeps telling me to back down a little telling me to calm myself and let her process, and i keep screwing that up, bc I keep feeling if I don’t keep telling her how much better it will be then she will not allow herself to take me back. She hasn’t told me not to text her, she hasn’t told me not to call she hasn’t told me not to see her, hell last night we had some of the best sex we have ever had in our relationship. It’s messing me up so much and I just don’t know what to think or do, I feel like if I don’t ask to see her everyday, or try to plan something for the weekend or anything that it’s not showing her that I’m serious about this… I know she loves me and she is in love with me, but she keeps saying she has to her herself back and I just want to be apart of that
What can I do
Couples therapy doesn't require that you be married. It sounds like you two primarily need to learn how to better communicate with each other, which is something you can learn on your own – but it helps to have a mediator to train on good habits.
From his perspective, proposing probably looks like an invitation for more stress. Pressure to have a perfect wedding, etc. Make sure your expectations are clear and reasonable.
Alternately he drove her for someone he does love: his son. I've done it.
Still, something is wrong.
Yeah, it would seem like kind of a normal question — like, hey, you often mention how people hit on you. It doesn't really bother me, but I wonder why you are doing that? Do you think I'll think you're hiding something from me if you don't say anything?
You can be pretty clear & non-confrontational in this conversation. If she shuts down, it may give you a better answer about her motives (ie, she's negging you).