Not at all, he just recently started heavy drinking. He’s in the military and is away from friends and family and he said this is how he copes with anxiety. I try to help him & he sees mental health but there is an occurrence once a month of some sort of stupid behavior whether it be getting super drunk or being rude.
Once again I am asking women to understand that men who support “sex work” (and sugar baby is just the light version of it) are misogynistic. They don’t see women as people.
It kind of sounds like your bf has a little bit of a crush on this new coworker.
I don’t think you are being irrational about this certain situation since you have mentioned that your bf has other female coworkers and you don’t get “weird” feelings about them. I think you have a right to feel uneasy about his excitement over this new woman.
I’m sure if you came home taking about a new male coworker and got visibly excited about him telling you about his past sexual escapades, added him on FB, and then drove him home, your bf would been feeling uneasy as well.
It sounds like at the moment your bf is not ready to hear your concerns or talk about this any further. My suggestion, let it be for now, but keep you eyes and ears open.
This is what my gut is saying. He says I’m just uncomfortable with him “having any interactions with women whatsoever” but I really feel like their interactions cross a boundary for me
Just stop going or if they invite you places when you reply just say that all 4? of you will be there. It's not hard. If they buy you and your children tickets but not your partner they will learn the hard way.
See, you say you apologised in this comment, but the one immediately preceding this one you say you didn't do anything wrong. So which is it? Because an apology followed by anything that doesn't show you understand and accept responsibility for what you did wrong is a waste of breath. Why would she accept it?
And btw, I'm Indian. I see your culture a lot around me and I detest it. If my parents treated me like you did your daughter, I would've left a long time ago as well. Luckily I have lovely parents who love me and show me that every day so that wouldn't happen. Maybe if you hadn't been such a failure of a parent, you might have a son and a daughter you are proud of and have good relationships with. Instead you prioritised her brother who coasted and punished her for having the balls to be more principled than her cowardly mother and now have the audacity to imagine you have any right to her life or her money? Stop hiding behind your culture and go to therapy.
And btw, no advice on “how to talk to your daughter” besides you don't. It's not up to you any more. After you abandoned her and her desires, you don't get to go back and reach back out. Maybe in your next life or whatever you can fix these mistakes, if you don't come back as a toilet brush, but you don't get to one day randomly decide your daughter “owes you” for all the nothing you did for her. And yes, no matter how much you want to pat yourself on the back for how good of a mother you were, you weren't even a mother. Just a stranger who maybe sent money that she still had to fight to access for her basic supplies.
Everyone says you should just pick your graduation, and I do agree that this is the logical, objective and cold decision, but I am trying to also put myself in your place.
I was also alone on my graduation, for different reasons, and if there would have been a different event that I could have went to, with family and loved ones, I probably would have, even tho I am also the first in my family to even finish highschool, and there I was with a master's degree.
What I mean is that the ceremony itself wasn't exactly worth it being alone
Not at all, he just recently started heavy drinking. He’s in the military and is away from friends and family and he said this is how he copes with anxiety. I try to help him & he sees mental health but there is an occurrence once a month of some sort of stupid behavior whether it be getting super drunk or being rude.
He wasn’t protecting the home when he committed the crime against you last night.
Omg it’s chatgpt, it’s infiltrated Reddit
Let her be. Focus on getting through the pain instead of distracting yourself from it by creating chaos.
Once again I am asking women to understand that men who support “sex work” (and sugar baby is just the light version of it) are misogynistic. They don’t see women as people.
Leave him and find a better man.
It kind of sounds like your bf has a little bit of a crush on this new coworker.
I don’t think you are being irrational about this certain situation since you have mentioned that your bf has other female coworkers and you don’t get “weird” feelings about them. I think you have a right to feel uneasy about his excitement over this new woman.
I’m sure if you came home taking about a new male coworker and got visibly excited about him telling you about his past sexual escapades, added him on FB, and then drove him home, your bf would been feeling uneasy as well.
It sounds like at the moment your bf is not ready to hear your concerns or talk about this any further. My suggestion, let it be for now, but keep you eyes and ears open.
This is what my gut is saying. He says I’m just uncomfortable with him “having any interactions with women whatsoever” but I really feel like their interactions cross a boundary for me
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You kicked the interviews butt! Way to go!
How do you still like her? Im not understanding how you can continue to date her?
If it's a fire proof safe, those will pull the fire proofing chemicals out of the walls and they'll get into whatever documents are in the safe.
I learned this the hard way.
Just stop going or if they invite you places when you reply just say that all 4? of you will be there. It's not hard. If they buy you and your children tickets but not your partner they will learn the hard way.
See, you say you apologised in this comment, but the one immediately preceding this one you say you didn't do anything wrong. So which is it? Because an apology followed by anything that doesn't show you understand and accept responsibility for what you did wrong is a waste of breath. Why would she accept it?
And btw, I'm Indian. I see your culture a lot around me and I detest it. If my parents treated me like you did your daughter, I would've left a long time ago as well. Luckily I have lovely parents who love me and show me that every day so that wouldn't happen. Maybe if you hadn't been such a failure of a parent, you might have a son and a daughter you are proud of and have good relationships with. Instead you prioritised her brother who coasted and punished her for having the balls to be more principled than her cowardly mother and now have the audacity to imagine you have any right to her life or her money? Stop hiding behind your culture and go to therapy.
And btw, no advice on “how to talk to your daughter” besides you don't. It's not up to you any more. After you abandoned her and her desires, you don't get to go back and reach back out. Maybe in your next life or whatever you can fix these mistakes, if you don't come back as a toilet brush, but you don't get to one day randomly decide your daughter “owes you” for all the nothing you did for her. And yes, no matter how much you want to pat yourself on the back for how good of a mother you were, you weren't even a mother. Just a stranger who maybe sent money that she still had to fight to access for her basic supplies.
Everyone says you should just pick your graduation, and I do agree that this is the logical, objective and cold decision, but I am trying to also put myself in your place.
I was also alone on my graduation, for different reasons, and if there would have been a different event that I could have went to, with family and loved ones, I probably would have, even tho I am also the first in my family to even finish highschool, and there I was with a master's degree.
What I mean is that the ceremony itself wasn't exactly worth it being alone
Did your wife grow up rich by any chance? Her behavior really leads me to believe she's never had to want for anything in her life
I didn't say it was necessarily suspicious, but having windows makes it crystal clear that nothing is happening.