She has a pretty old fashioned view on mental health / therapy. She's become more open minded over the years of being with me, but I think she still thinks mental illnesses can't be that bad because she's never experienced it. Needless to say she will probably be all unwilling to attend therapy even if I recommend it. I can hear it now: “I don't need therapy, are you calling me crazy?” But I will try, and I'll ask my therapist for advice as well.
Hey I totally get what you mean. My bf is a teacher and he says school roleplay makes him feel uncomfortable too.
It sounds like your wife could be having some insecurities about her age. Perhaps the role play is a way to feel young and like she’s experiencing her youth again.
I would definitely sit her down and express that while open to roleplay, this type is no longer comfortable for you anymore. It’s negatively effecting your sex life. Also, it’s not fair of her to make you feel like you don’t “love her” because you’re into it. That’s very wrong.
Yeah, same in parts of Europe. Reading these comments is mind blowing.
I love when people tell on themselves like this.
She has a pretty old fashioned view on mental health / therapy. She's become more open minded over the years of being with me, but I think she still thinks mental illnesses can't be that bad because she's never experienced it. Needless to say she will probably be all unwilling to attend therapy even if I recommend it. I can hear it now: “I don't need therapy, are you calling me crazy?” But I will try, and I'll ask my therapist for advice as well.
Hey I totally get what you mean. My bf is a teacher and he says school roleplay makes him feel uncomfortable too.
It sounds like your wife could be having some insecurities about her age. Perhaps the role play is a way to feel young and like she’s experiencing her youth again.
I would definitely sit her down and express that while open to roleplay, this type is no longer comfortable for you anymore. It’s negatively effecting your sex life. Also, it’s not fair of her to make you feel like you don’t “love her” because you’re into it. That’s very wrong.