More background on the stupid argument- I was playing video game on TV. He kept giving opinion on how I should play it but I didn’t do what he said as I liked the way I played. He kept saying that I should listen to him because my way of playing was stupid and I just refused to learn to be smart. I felt annoyed and couldn’t enjoy the game anymore so I stopped playing. He kept asking me why I was mad and I told him that it was because I asked him to stop complaining on how I played the game when I was playing but he didn’t. He said that I was lying because I didn’t ask him to stop (to be fair, I didn’t ask him to stop. I just told him that I liked the way I played) At this point, I turned my back and went to the bathroom.
He said that i was wrong because I refused to talk to him every time he disagreed with me/ pointed out that I did something wrong. He said that I cannot take disagreement…
Abuse is calculated 100% of the time. Then they turn it around with manipulation and narcissism. An abuser isn't ever going to come out and say “yea I was abusive”
Yup, a late 20s looking early 20s, sure could happen. A 29yo looking like a middle schooler or high school freshman? lol no. Unless she has the curious case of Benjamin Button or something.
You said your cousin repulses you then later you said you could be really happy with him and he’s a really good guy?
Which is it? Both of those things cannot be true
Ah yes, I do all rutina at the house too :/
He said he’s 20, so… ?
To be fair, I might be wrong first…
More background on the stupid argument- I was playing video game on TV. He kept giving opinion on how I should play it but I didn’t do what he said as I liked the way I played. He kept saying that I should listen to him because my way of playing was stupid and I just refused to learn to be smart. I felt annoyed and couldn’t enjoy the game anymore so I stopped playing. He kept asking me why I was mad and I told him that it was because I asked him to stop complaining on how I played the game when I was playing but he didn’t. He said that I was lying because I didn’t ask him to stop (to be fair, I didn’t ask him to stop. I just told him that I liked the way I played) At this point, I turned my back and went to the bathroom.
He said that i was wrong because I refused to talk to him every time he disagreed with me/ pointed out that I did something wrong. He said that I cannot take disagreement…
Came here to say this… He doesn't like ladies.
Abuse is calculated 100% of the time. Then they turn it around with manipulation and narcissism. An abuser isn't ever going to come out and say “yea I was abusive”
Yup, a late 20s looking early 20s, sure could happen. A 29yo looking like a middle schooler or high school freshman? lol no. Unless she has the curious case of Benjamin Button or something.
This. My husband's mom babied him.
From day 1, I told him I want a partner, not a child. I was willing to answer questions to help, but that's about it.
Now, I have a fully functional partner. We both work, we both clean, and our relationship is fantastic. 10/10, do recommend.
It feels a lot like his reaction is “I'm trying to suppress this urge and you just fed into that.”
bruh shut up you are not helpful. This shit isn’t about gender wars. Take that elsewhere.