Boyfriend says it’s unfair to him if he doesn’t sleep around when I’m out of town
Basically the title. I’ve speed dated him for a month. He brought up he’d want to sleep around when I’m out of town for a month because he doesn’t want to “virginise” himself. I said I’m not ok with it and he says “ok I won’t do it then because I don’t want us to break things off due to this- but this is unfair.” His reasoning is biologically men want to sleep around.
My gut says that I don’t feel safe with him and don’t trust him 100% no matter how many times he says he won’t do it.
Should I go to therapy and be ok with it or should I break it off from him ?