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This woman is demanding you placate her child with bribes.
Is this okay with you?
You cannot change how someone chooses to interact with their child, no matter how wrong it is to give in to tantrums, you cannot force someone to parent properly.
The choice is stay or go, but it won't get better and you will end up paying for everything and having no say.
Children and pets who bite and hit have learned that it works. Same training is given to both. Set strong boundaries that are consistent and never waver. Approval only for good behaviour. Anything else is ignored and not given any time or attention.
If she cannot afford the toys then she needs to stop buying them, you are allowing her to not pay the bills so you are also contributing to the problem. You are also not setting good boundaries.
Unless you follow through you won't change anything. State clearly that bills are paid immediately the money comes in and that only spare money that she earns goes towards her child and stick to it like the power glue that it needs to be. Have consequences ready and follow through even if it is move out because you are not paying for all three of you.
If you don't follow through then she will keep not paying her bills and using you for cash.
Honestly coming to Reddit and reading such stories always makes me appreciate and love my partner even more. I can’t believe what are some people willing to put up with.
She does need more evidence and as creepy and vulgar as this is the hidden camera is her best bet. If this is one of the likely suspects there is a very big chance that he has and/or will victimize others. It is very shitty that this fell on her but she could save other victims and get herself some justice with that camera.
This woman is demanding you placate her child with bribes.
Is this okay with you?
You cannot change how someone chooses to interact with their child, no matter how wrong it is to give in to tantrums, you cannot force someone to parent properly.
The choice is stay or go, but it won't get better and you will end up paying for everything and having no say.
Children and pets who bite and hit have learned that it works. Same training is given to both. Set strong boundaries that are consistent and never waver. Approval only for good behaviour. Anything else is ignored and not given any time or attention.
If she cannot afford the toys then she needs to stop buying them, you are allowing her to not pay the bills so you are also contributing to the problem. You are also not setting good boundaries.
Unless you follow through you won't change anything. State clearly that bills are paid immediately the money comes in and that only spare money that she earns goes towards her child and stick to it like the power glue that it needs to be. Have consequences ready and follow through even if it is move out because you are not paying for all three of you.
If you don't follow through then she will keep not paying her bills and using you for cash.
Honestly coming to Reddit and reading such stories always makes me appreciate and love my partner even more. I can’t believe what are some people willing to put up with.
Yeah keep doing talks like that
She does need more evidence and as creepy and vulgar as this is the hidden camera is her best bet. If this is one of the likely suspects there is a very big chance that he has and/or will victimize others. It is very shitty that this fell on her but she could save other victims and get herself some justice with that camera.
Not saying this in a bad way, but I am surprised! Odd to think of a stranger thinking of me. I appreciate it though and it made me smile. Thank you.
Yes, the best thing is to say nothing and not get involved.