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you feel like the more mature one because you probably are. Theres a reason women his own age wont date him and as you mature you're starting to see it.
I'm older than you and have dated newly divorced men. Venting about your divorce to your current partner is not a good thing. You're using her as an emotional crutch. Maybe try getting a therapist.
Recently divorced men are no longer on my list of potential partners. They need some time to process.
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She is definitely cheating and trying to make it seem ok by pressuring you to do it too. Or she’s possibly looking for a way out of the relationship.
Let her take care of him.
He didn't care about you what should take care of him now?
Trichomoniasis
Then you have your answer. Good luck OP!
It's a good idea. He's not totally committed. Find someone local to date.
True we are too young for it
Say no. You are married, you need to be able to have difficult conversations, especially when both of you want different things. Don't just stay silent until someone starts injecting things into your body. You are an adult and you have agency and bodily autonomy, use it.
You both sound like you aren't ready to be parents quite yet. Perhaps, try some couples counselling first and work on creating a healthier environment in the home before bringing children into this dynamic.
you feel like the more mature one because you probably are. Theres a reason women his own age wont date him and as you mature you're starting to see it.
You need to communicate 1.) what you need/want, and 2.) what’s important to you.
He’s not a mind reader, and most people I know don’t care about their birthdays at all.
So…speak up. Or, be upset.
I'm older than you and have dated newly divorced men. Venting about your divorce to your current partner is not a good thing. You're using her as an emotional crutch. Maybe try getting a therapist.
Recently divorced men are no longer on my list of potential partners. They need some time to process.
Do not try to contact her again.
You tried punching her first. Also cheating is a scummy thing to do, so if someone gets beat up for it, I don’t feel sorry.
Could be the case; but knowing the type of person he is, I highly doubt it.
Could be the case; but knowing the type of person he is, I highly doubt it.