She needs to talk to her doctor about her medication. Antidepressants usually lower sex drive and vacations don’t make a difference. She shouldn’t go off them because that can be dangerous, but her doctor can try different ones to see it it helps. But if you love her you might have to accept that she needs antidepressants and that means less sex.
Than you have validated her point that she has nothing to offer him to stay. She knows he wants kids. He wants kids. Yes there is all of those things there is also the days your kid goes with you to watch your favorite movies. You take your child out for lunch at your favorite steak house. The day you take your son to his first baseball game. The day you take your daughter out for a Saturday afternoon bike ride around a lake.
You make memories that will last a lifetime because when you are dying on your death bed you aren’t thinking of the spreadsheet that had a V lookup that didn’t work. Or the tax lot of securities that you couldn’t figure out the purchase price. No that’s not what you are remembering. It’s the experiences of those events you shared with your children.
It sounds like you like a girl who flirts with banter and teasing. That’s a fine thing to want. However, your girlfriend isn’t one of those girls, so your options are to accept the relationship you have, or break up and find a girl who matches the energy you’re looking for. Asking her to change her sense of humor/personality just isn’t going to happen.
Size has nothing to do with a woman’s orgasm. Have you tried foreplay? Extra romance outside the bedroom? Toys? Or asking her to show you how to please her?
As a woman who loves a good stretch, some of my best lovers before I got married were on the smaller side. But they made up for it with spectacular rizz and effort in the bedroom.
The colleague crush might also tell you it’s not working with your BF. If you loose interest for your BF so quickly after the start of your relationship, that’s not a good sign.
But yeah, limit your interactions with your colleague and see how it goes.
Yeah, let her walk. The clue was the long distant part. She probably wants to (or will soon tell you she wants to) 'take a break'. What she won't tell you is that this is because she has someone lined up and it won't be cheating if you are on a break. This way if it works out the story is that it was fine that she met someone new, the past will be muddy and no one will remember she was dating you when she started entertaining this guy.
Maybe even worse is if it doesn't work out, maybe it plays out as a multi-week fling, then she just calls you back up to resume the relationship. Nothing lost on her end, she gets herself a hall pass with the Mr. fun guy and if you ever find out she will remind you that it's your fault for not respecting the hallowed and very important woman's day, so really you got what you deserve.
I've dated women like this when I was younger and I thought we had something special because she always seemed to come back. I thought sure we fight over nonsense stuff but there's just this connection between us. Then I just found it was her way of cheating with out technically cheating.
Line up a new guy, let it progress to the point that she thinks she can move on to this new guy, then pick a fight with you over nonsense so that it's your fault some how. Then say 'I can't do this, I think we need a break', then 10 minutes after she hangs up the phone head over to that guys place.
Seriously women are much less crazy than guys like to think. They are actually pretty straight forward. In my experience when a woman seems utterly illogical then she's trying to create a reality distortion field. Where nothing is something and that something is a problem. When you start to realize this is happening, ask yourself, what does the solution to this problem enable? Because it's the solution to this problem that she wanted to have happen.
id feel the exact same way for sure. Its threads like these that make me fully realize why I ended my last relationship. I just didnt trust her. But its also threads like these that make me wonder if i'll ever get into a serious relationship ever again. And im serious about that. I cant fully grasp trusting another woman that can change on a dime and meet someone new and screw it all up.
Whoa girl. Say bye bye to this loser. He’s abusive, unloving and makes you feel bad about yourself?! F that! Nope, no way; get away from that. Love yourself more. It’s got nothing to do with your weight and everything to do with respect.
She needs to talk to her doctor about her medication. Antidepressants usually lower sex drive and vacations don’t make a difference. She shouldn’t go off them because that can be dangerous, but her doctor can try different ones to see it it helps. But if you love her you might have to accept that she needs antidepressants and that means less sex.
Than you have validated her point that she has nothing to offer him to stay. She knows he wants kids. He wants kids. Yes there is all of those things there is also the days your kid goes with you to watch your favorite movies. You take your child out for lunch at your favorite steak house. The day you take your son to his first baseball game. The day you take your daughter out for a Saturday afternoon bike ride around a lake.
You make memories that will last a lifetime because when you are dying on your death bed you aren’t thinking of the spreadsheet that had a V lookup that didn’t work. Or the tax lot of securities that you couldn’t figure out the purchase price. No that’s not what you are remembering. It’s the experiences of those events you shared with your children.
It’s hard 8 months of jerking off
Make like the seagulls and RUN AWAY!!
Thank you, very this. OP you absolutely did not hesitate enough before throwing around an awful word.
It sounds like you like a girl who flirts with banter and teasing. That’s a fine thing to want. However, your girlfriend isn’t one of those girls, so your options are to accept the relationship you have, or break up and find a girl who matches the energy you’re looking for. Asking her to change her sense of humor/personality just isn’t going to happen.
Size has nothing to do with a woman’s orgasm. Have you tried foreplay? Extra romance outside the bedroom? Toys? Or asking her to show you how to please her?
As a woman who loves a good stretch, some of my best lovers before I got married were on the smaller side. But they made up for it with spectacular rizz and effort in the bedroom.
The colleague crush might also tell you it’s not working with your BF. If you loose interest for your BF so quickly after the start of your relationship, that’s not a good sign.
But yeah, limit your interactions with your colleague and see how it goes.
Any advice on how to deal with this argument?
Yeah, let her walk. The clue was the long distant part. She probably wants to (or will soon tell you she wants to) 'take a break'. What she won't tell you is that this is because she has someone lined up and it won't be cheating if you are on a break. This way if it works out the story is that it was fine that she met someone new, the past will be muddy and no one will remember she was dating you when she started entertaining this guy.
Maybe even worse is if it doesn't work out, maybe it plays out as a multi-week fling, then she just calls you back up to resume the relationship. Nothing lost on her end, she gets herself a hall pass with the Mr. fun guy and if you ever find out she will remind you that it's your fault for not respecting the hallowed and very important woman's day, so really you got what you deserve.
I've dated women like this when I was younger and I thought we had something special because she always seemed to come back. I thought sure we fight over nonsense stuff but there's just this connection between us. Then I just found it was her way of cheating with out technically cheating.
Line up a new guy, let it progress to the point that she thinks she can move on to this new guy, then pick a fight with you over nonsense so that it's your fault some how. Then say 'I can't do this, I think we need a break', then 10 minutes after she hangs up the phone head over to that guys place.
Seriously women are much less crazy than guys like to think. They are actually pretty straight forward. In my experience when a woman seems utterly illogical then she's trying to create a reality distortion field. Where nothing is something and that something is a problem. When you start to realize this is happening, ask yourself, what does the solution to this problem enable? Because it's the solution to this problem that she wanted to have happen.
You abused, gaslight and were awful to that poor woman. Some you say you love. love doesn't do the shit that you've been doing to her.
Even now, it's all about you, what you've done and how it makes you feel.
You're selfish and now need to leave her alone. She deserves so much better than you.
It's still not great odds. 24% is a very large portion, even if it may not seem that way. It's not really even more reliable than the pull-out method.
Dump her
Right? Maybe he takes “horrified silence” to mean “I’m always right.”
id feel the exact same way for sure. Its threads like these that make me fully realize why I ended my last relationship. I just didnt trust her. But its also threads like these that make me wonder if i'll ever get into a serious relationship ever again. And im serious about that. I cant fully grasp trusting another woman that can change on a dime and meet someone new and screw it all up.
Whoa girl. Say bye bye to this loser. He’s abusive, unloving and makes you feel bad about yourself?! F that! Nope, no way; get away from that. Love yourself more. It’s got nothing to do with your weight and everything to do with respect.