You can’t work this out. There are some things that are automatic relationship enders and this is one of them. No one is wrong in what they want but staying together means 1 of you is going to be very unhappy in the long run.
Just move on, you’ll both find partners who are a better fit for each of you.
It's a boundaries issue, not necessarily a trust issue. I trust my boyfriend entirely, but I would not accept him living with another woman regardless of a long platonic history.
Btw, being good friends with someone does not mean you'll be compatible sharing a living space together. I've seen my share of friendships ending or suffering because they decided to live together.
It's a boundaries issue, not necessarily a trust issue. I trust my boyfriend entirely, but I would not accept him living with another woman regardless of a long platonic history.
Btw, being good friends with someone does not mean you'll be compatible sharing a living space together. I've seen my share of friendships ending or suffering because they decided to live together.
She was a small child dealing with her father dying of an incredibly difficult disease, without support. This is insanely inappropriate. A mentally strong 6 year old is still a very young child who you deprived of their childhood. You made them handle the care of a dying man on their own. I understand you felt you had no other options, but this wasn’t an acceptable one. She is traumatized. It sounds like you don’t understand what you did to her.
You can’t work this out. There are some things that are automatic relationship enders and this is one of them. No one is wrong in what they want but staying together means 1 of you is going to be very unhappy in the long run.
Just move on, you’ll both find partners who are a better fit for each of you.
Me calling you a rapist is based on your comments. Your baseless name calling drops like a feather.
There is nothing like minor cheating. Either boundaries were broken or not. Doesn't matter how far.
It's a boundaries issue, not necessarily a trust issue. I trust my boyfriend entirely, but I would not accept him living with another woman regardless of a long platonic history.
Btw, being good friends with someone does not mean you'll be compatible sharing a living space together. I've seen my share of friendships ending or suffering because they decided to live together.
It's a boundaries issue, not necessarily a trust issue. I trust my boyfriend entirely, but I would not accept him living with another woman regardless of a long platonic history.
Btw, being good friends with someone does not mean you'll be compatible sharing a living space together. I've seen my share of friendships ending or suffering because they decided to live together.
I never wanted to cheat on anyone but I’m not making any excuses, do you think it’s the best thing to do?In all seriousness thanks for the reply
She was a small child dealing with her father dying of an incredibly difficult disease, without support. This is insanely inappropriate. A mentally strong 6 year old is still a very young child who you deprived of their childhood. You made them handle the care of a dying man on their own. I understand you felt you had no other options, but this wasn’t an acceptable one. She is traumatized. It sounds like you don’t understand what you did to her.
This is Jessica Wakefield level scheming.
yeah I’m trying to come up with something fun we can go do tbag I can bring up to her soon…. But like she’s not even texting me anymore idk what to do