You actually mentioned 100% of women blaming men. And now you're claiming that men “rarely” blame their spouse because you're sooo responsible for your actions. Good for you, boyscout! You're full of it. Men blame women equally as much for their cheating, as women blame men. Cheating isn't gender-specific. And most cheaters blame someone else because cheaters suck. ?
Sure, I'm angry at what you're saying because it's insulting, disrespectful, sexist, and enormously offensive, and not something that deserves an excuse, but you keep making excuses for your sickening spew. That doesn't equate to “anger issues” you complete tool.
I know this isn’t so much about the pet hair, but Im so tired of people saying “this is serial killer behavior”. Why? Just because one enjoys different things. I collect dead animals and collect my cats hair so when she dies I can make a resin necklace with the hair inside. Is it creepy? Sure. Is it morbid? Also sure. Does that mean I’m a serial killer because I can find beauty in things that you can’t? No. Surround yourself with people that don’t judge the niche things you do (as long as they are healthy).
Asking her if she does or not could complicate things. I have suspicion that she’s hiding it because she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend and if I ask her, she could pretend to say no and at the same time lose some of her trust
Genuinely sounds like he's potentially got a whole second life or family that his relatives know about, maybe you're not actually legally married or maybe he has committed fraud in that regard. Regardless it sounds like he's living a double life. I'd go digging for info on his family and show up on their doorstep to find out the truth. This is literally the beginning of an episode of “who in earth did i marry”.
You actually mentioned 100% of women blaming men. And now you're claiming that men “rarely” blame their spouse because you're sooo responsible for your actions. Good for you, boyscout! You're full of it. Men blame women equally as much for their cheating, as women blame men. Cheating isn't gender-specific. And most cheaters blame someone else because cheaters suck. ?
Sure, I'm angry at what you're saying because it's insulting, disrespectful, sexist, and enormously offensive, and not something that deserves an excuse, but you keep making excuses for your sickening spew. That doesn't equate to “anger issues” you complete tool.
Nothing you can do to help him be more mature. Move on. You've don't nothing wrong but you're in here asking how to make up for it.
I know this isn’t so much about the pet hair, but Im so tired of people saying “this is serial killer behavior”. Why? Just because one enjoys different things. I collect dead animals and collect my cats hair so when she dies I can make a resin necklace with the hair inside. Is it creepy? Sure. Is it morbid? Also sure. Does that mean I’m a serial killer because I can find beauty in things that you can’t? No. Surround yourself with people that don’t judge the niche things you do (as long as they are healthy).
Asking her if she does or not could complicate things. I have suspicion that she’s hiding it because she doesn’t want to lose me as a friend and if I ask her, she could pretend to say no and at the same time lose some of her trust
I'm sorry, but this is familiar, have you posted this before?
How do you know that?
Genuinely sounds like he's potentially got a whole second life or family that his relatives know about, maybe you're not actually legally married or maybe he has committed fraud in that regard. Regardless it sounds like he's living a double life. I'd go digging for info on his family and show up on their doorstep to find out the truth. This is literally the beginning of an episode of “who in earth did i marry”.