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Date: November 25, 2022
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I think this is the hard truth I’ve been trying to deny. I know that we have little to no chance for a future so I’m not sure why I’m holding on really.
As far as sexual performance goes, it’s not exactly something I’m worried about because she made it seem like a big part of it is her claustrophobia and PTSD so she gets bored of doing the only two positions she likes. That being said, I might look into finding some new ones that could solve the issue. I’ll give it a week or two and see if anything changes or gets better
Definitely using you
Jesus just leave him like u shud have two years ago
Jesus just leave him like u shud have two years ago
OP- on the dates of previous transfers, was your hubby out or at home? I'm just trying to establish any patterns.
I actually know of instances where the friend waited in the waiting room of brothels while his mate was inside shagging-usually with two girls. Drugs were involved definitely with the shagger but I'm unsure about the friend.
Like everyone- I agree he's lying at least to some extent and you did the right thing to give you time to process and think things through. I'm so sorry he did this and made you feel this way. Big hugs X
Agreed. If she doesn't see why it's wrong then you are better off without her. Hope it all works out for you.
Yeah, my sister got surgery and to be honest, I miss her old face lol but idk if her new one will grow on me. It’s been like two years and I still remember how her old face looks. Hard to feel comfortable with the new one lol
Unfortunately you’ve already destroyed it. Can you live looking into your wife’s eyes knowing what you’ve done? You’ve also betrayed yourself.
Why would he just read it but not say anything until I apologized and then he admitted he thought it was “sexy, exciting etc” but the issue is distance
He was aware of her boundaries for years and created many situations to act like a toddler having a tantrum and did this on her birthday. His behavior was appalling.
I would have noped out of the relationship at the start if there was no kissing involved most people would have. Doesn't make his behaviour justifiable though
I don't really have the energy to go back home early and spend money to rebook my fllight just to catch him. For now even if I'm anxious and worried, I just want to enjoy my time with my elderly parents.
This is about the midway point of a horror film. Get out of this relationship now. Why would you even consider staying with this psycho?
This very obviously has nothing to do with that, she's put off by how quickly he's moving and the fact that he's oversharing on social media. It would be different if he'd texted this to a buddy. Emotions are great, that's not the issue here.
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I think context is important. If you were harassing and humiliating him in some way, calling him a liar, accusing him of something he didn’t do, trying to take his kid away from him, it might be understandable to drive a normally healthy person to acting frustrated on an inanimate object.
However, in this case no. This guy is messed up and you need to run from him.
This is one of those cases where being polite and circuitous in your language will not work. Be blunt:
“I love you, but no. No way. Do not even think about moving that close to us. We need our own space. If you move there, we're moving away. Let me reiterate, do not buy that fucking house.”
You need to establish those boundaries before it starts affecting your marriage.
You're right unfortunately
Fair play
He didn’t reach out to you. You didn’t say what exactly happened to make him suicidal/depressed and break off contact, but he evidently got better eventually and still didn’t get back in touch. I don’t know whether he’s just seeing things with rose colored glasses or if he’s just telling you what he thinks you want to hear. Maybe he really is happy and is trying to let you down easy or maybe he’s sweet talk luring you into an affair situation. Hard to tell from just what you’ve said.
I think you say you reached out because you missed your friendship but mentioning you think your current relationship has run it’s course makes it seem like you were probing to see how stable his relationship is. No judgment here but I’d definitely proceed with caution bc I think this dudes trying to get a bit ots
This ain't a friend. This is a rebound who will exit your life once you figure out that you're just going back to your codependent ways with him. It's fine to get yours. Just don't drag your kids into it.
Similar to what is written here except she claims he is her husband and best friend (yeah, right). She says she doesn’t remember the night due to drinking and she insists that she is not a lesbian.
Sounds like you need therapy
Sometimes people need a taste of their own medicine, sadly!
He is showing you his true colours. You move on by not moving in with him and finding new bf that is not abusive.
They tell me I’m in the wrong for not helping her. What do I tell my friends?
She keeps telling me she loves me and she needs me to help her stop her addiction. It just makes me feel bad because I feel like I’m running away from someone who I can help.
Who pays the bills in your lives? You work one day and can't get out of bed for 3 days. Spend your tips on weed. He's playing video games all day. How do two nearly 30 year old full grown adults who behave this way get by?
End it. You will never get over this. Your partner has betrayed you in an unforgivable way. She cheated. And she lied about it.
Yeah, dude, that's abusive. You don't need to put up with that garbage. See that curb? That's where she belongs.
I don't walk on eggshells with him in anymore. I decided a while back that if he wants to be my friend I'm going to be me, and he's gonna have to attune to that. I'm a very assertive person myself, and my feelings doing get hurt easily.
I'm also really good with boundaries..
I guess I'm just comfortable with his type because I grew up around it, and as an adult learned how to stand my ground.
I'd like to avoid all the red flags too, but are they red flags if it's something he recognizes and is also actively progressing on?
I mean everyone has something right?
In the past my standards have been so high,high. They are almost unattainable…
Make sure you communicate. Also, schedule yourselves a date night/date day away from your kids.
Husband and I met while working retail. We had different schedules. We made sure to check in with each other throughout the day (still do), communicated with each other, and made sure we scheduled in a date (whether it was night or day). We still continues this since I’m WFH, and he travels for work.
You have to leave, he will destroy your life well before he destroys his own, he will suck everything from you. If you truly care about him you have to leave him and let him fall on his own, otherwise you will just be his enabler.
!updateme
Wow this is so fucked up. I’d be filing for divorce immediately and would be long gone, and my note to him would be “consider yourself untrapped.”
He already has someone lined up…
It's not on you to read into little interactions over the years and somehow deduce that your partner is transgender. I've had those questions with my partner just as random hypotheticals. It's up to your partner to be honest with themself and you.
Don't blame yourself for this.
That's going to be really tough to give him and ultimatum when you can't even explain why you don't want him doing it. Because I can guarantee he will ask you, and he's probably not going to be satisfied with that answer. Definitely have a deeper think into it, because that will be a very important part in him understanding your side and why you want him to stop.
It might have been a similar thing at any point. The current understanding is that children should know how they came to be from the start so the information doesn't come as shock and invalidate their identity. Kids and teens react to this type of information often as badly as adults. I agree that she should have told earlier but the shock would most likely still have happened although not with the shock of only being told when forced.
The fact is that you do the best you can with the information you got. OP made a mistake but there is a real possible explanation for why it could happen. Focusing on the mistake is not helpful to her or anyone else.
Ouch, yes that hurts… she gets back with you, yet she still thinks about this other guy and now wants to bring him into the bedroom… I 100% understand why you feel the way you do.
She wants to keep the relationship going with you, and is looking for ways to keep this guy on the side in some kind of official way. The fact that she even knows this dude would be open to it… that is concerning, like has she been keeping in contact with him the entire time you guys have been back together? That is where my mind would be going. Normally when someone is open to a threesome, they test the waters with their partner first. Maybe finding a “relevant” way to slip it into a conversation or discussing fantasies just for fun. If a partner seems repelled at the threesome idea, they don't take it any further, if they seem receptive, they take it a little further. I can't believe she just brought this up out of the blue with no reason to believe you'd be interested, along with the guy she has in mind, as if she was proposing something mundane like trying a new way of cooking potatoes. Geez…. no sensitivity or tact!
My guess is that the two of you are simply not compatible sexually anymore. Sounds like she is the type who would want an open relationship with lots of sexual exploration and you want monogamy with someone who you are “enough” for. I think it is time that the two of you sat down and had a really serious conversation about the relationship and what you both want out of it.
To each their own. Everyone gets to decide how they conduct themselves and what level of respect they practice. The last sentence of my comment sums it up.
Don’t do it. You can trim it but let him know it makes you physically and emotionally uncomfortable to shave it completely
She's told you she wants to wait to have sex.
He didn't try to have sex.
sounds like you two are a great match!
I support the use of medical marijuana 100%. Some medical marijuana is formulated to provide symptom relief without the intoxicating “high” effects associated with recreational use of marijuana. Under physicians advise, you can dose it properly like any other medication.
Taking puffs from a pen at work whenever you feel like it isn’t appropriate use and it’s obviously recreational. If someone caught her, she’d be fired.
NTA- your bf needs to get a grip. Did he apologize for telling you not to go or for upsetting you? Bc those are two very different things.
Damn like it has been addressed but my thoughts wouldn't be why is that guy clowning his own sis your future wife so easily. This is her her family her problem
Any girl would be just as insecure in this situation
what potential problems are there though? i wasn’t interested in the guy, simple as that. no reason to be insecure
Sorry, but for some people it just doesn't work. I'm as comfortable as it gets with sex and kinks for example, have used lots of lube, plugs to get used to it – but it won't work nevertheless. It seems as if it's the same for you. And that's okay.
Your bf behaves scummy about that, instead of just accepting that it doesn't work.
If he is so adamantly about wanting to do anal, you can switch roles and you use toys on him. That way he can still have anal on the receiving end.
Where do sleepovers come in?
Also, as you said, psychiatrists went to school for this, they should know more than you about this!
Raise crows, and they will poke your eyes out.
If you are in the US there are insurances he can get that are about $50/year. They cover 2 cleanings and reduced cost of dental procedures. Tell him to try that.
The age gap itself is just a number. What’s important is if you feel compatible, and have fun together. If so, then you have what everyone is looking for, and no need to give it up.
Like I’m literally right in front of his face. It’s so frustrating and honestly annoying. Like now he’s having this light bulb going off. He knows it can’t happen because of his “ it’s not realistic…”?
He’s telling me not to waste my vacation time?
I mean I asked him about just friends and I don’t know if he was getting confused or that’s what he was talking about.
She has communicated through her actions that she still lives him and cares about him. Op has said it himself. Because she doesn’t want sex isn’t anything against him.
If you truly believe a woman has to have sex in order to prove she loves him then you also believe a woman can’t have consent. If she is having sex for any other reason than that she wants too then it’s not consent.
Her not having sex with him isn’t her telling him she doesn’t like him.
Also sex is a lot more than just pleasure but also being intimate, vulnerable and reliant. Not everyone wants to do that all the time and some just need a break.
You see sex as nothing but fun (which is fine) but not everyone sees it as that.
I view sex as something intimate and romantic, I feel vulnerable when having sex and want to be completely invested to feel comfortable. I do want breaks and I do want cool down periods.
And the fact is that she is actively communicating with him, he doesn’t want to listen as he’s solely focused on having sex and nothing else. She has responded in a way he didn’t want and is upset. She has tried fixing the situation in a way that doesn’t violate her boundaries and he isn’t accepting it. She has tried other ways. He has denied it over and over. He wants to make her have sex with him without him directly coercing her or forcing her.
It sucks but you're right.
Date people who are kind to you and have their shit together, dating projects always ends like this. Good luck.
INFO: did they say why they needed this information?
Example- my partner and I have totally opposite schedules, and his work schedule only gives him a week notice as to what his two days off will be. SO, he has to give me his schedule at the beginning of the week so I don’t accidentally schedule something on the one night we might have to spend together. Giving someone a heads up is showing them respect.
HOWEVER- he doesn’t have to tell me anything else about his life. Where he is going, what he’s doing, who he has been with, etc.
So, if you guys have pets or something and your partner needs to know if / when you’ll ever be around to help with anything around the house, that makes sense. You like to be spontaneous, does that mean you also end up sticking them with all of the responsibilities and chores around the house when they might have had different ideas for how to use their time off, or maybe wanted to spend time with you?
The “why” here matters big time.
The title sounds like a total control freak. But the story leads me to believe it has almost nothing to do with the other partners, and more to do with perhaps you haven’t been as good or dependable a partner to them as you are to your other partners.
Something to consider!
I appreciate this!
Listen. I’m pansexual. I have a long term boyfriend. I am monogamous. Having a larger pool of potential people to date does not mean you need to go fuck someone else too. Just because I can date women and non-binary people doesn’t mean I’m polyamorous. Neither you nor your boyfriend seem to understand that. You laying down that you don’t want a threesome shouldn’t be a thing after finding out he’s bi. It should have already have been known that you were in a monogamous relationship and didn’t want a threesome. His sexuality doesn’t change that. And it seems he’s playing into that naive idea so that he can screw around. He’s cheating on you and he’s pretending he’s confused. If he’s confused, he can leave. If he feels the need to fuck a guy while he’s dating you he doesn’t want to date you, he wants to fuck a guy. He’s cheating on you and it’s not okay. You leave and you leave now. If you don’t he will continue to do this to you.
Yup. Constant looking and surveillance? Yes, that’s a huge invasion of privacy and a fundamental lack of trust. Checking after their story isn’t adding up so you could get a better picture? I think that’s fine.
Girl run. Someone who talks that bad about his ex was the reason why they broke up that’s why they talk shit about them.
I guess it really is an attention game, it would explain why she wanted me to continue begging to talk after she decided not to respond to my messages.
This just seems crazy to me, I'm not asking her to do anything besides understand I am going through a lot and be nice to me. I'm just beside myself realizing she is acting like I am busy with work or friends and not something of this seriousness.
Thank you, the way you describe the way your husband supported you really highlights what I'm missing and should be expecting in a healthy relationship.
Mmmm disappear is hard to say 100%. When she is with other people I get essentially a phone call asking what I'm doing them being told she has to go.
Yes. He’s honest with you and trying to work through the problem with you. I would imagine he also wouldn’t blame you for feeling the same way about his weight gain. Expecting him to tell you he thinks your beautiful no matter what is a silly condition to impose on the relationship. He loves you, and considers your weight gain unattractive. This is normal.
Oh look, another age gap relationship with a stinky loser OP is outgrowing and she thinks the problem is her instead of recognizing that repulsion is her body's way of telling her to gtfo
I would shoot her a text like “Not sure where we stand. You seemed like you needed space last time I saw you. If you ever want to hang let me know” and leave it at that. Give her all the space in the world.
No it’s been a few months now like 6
Listen, it’s your job to entertain company when you get off work. Next time, take a Tylenol and tap dance.
That’s absolutely valid. For me I feel it’s more of a courtesy than anything if we’re in the middle of chatting and he’s going to be busy for a few hours to just let me know as we only really get a couple hours to chat in the evening, but everybody’s different!
Regardless if someone was over. It doesn't cost anything to just say a quick “Hi” while making eye contact, and just say, “I had a bad day, be down later, maybe we can catch up if your still here”
andropause, normal, he should control his s body and impulses though, if not, drop him.
So I have a friend who was kinda in the same situation as you. Dead bedroom. So she suggested opening the relationship. It then just led to more confusion because lo’! Sex with someone new is different from sex with your long term partner! Then it led to a crisis of “oh well if this hook up is able to excite me physically where my husband can’t, it must mean we’re not meant to be!”.
Long story short, she ended up divorced from her husband, and is now living with the hookup. And wouldn’t you know it. Now she’s having issues with the new guy. Not the same, mind you because obviously people are different. But issues none the less.
All that to say – dude don’t do it. It’s such a bad idea. You don’t solve a marital issue by bringing other people into it, that’s never been a good idea. At best it’ll lead to an awkward encounter. At worst it’ll lead to resentment and suspicion. She needs to understand that the grass is always greener where you water it.
Maybe go to couples therapy, go on a little holiday just the two of you. But the solution to finding that spark again isn’t gonna be found in a strangers pants, it’s something that will have to be tackled by you two together.
Thank you. I needed some insight on my own feelings. I think I need to just cut things off
i'm so sorry for both the loss of your child and the loss of the man that you once knew and loved. if you're in the right headspace, you should consider reporting this to the police (even if he doesn't get charged/arrested) so that there's a record of his behavior. your safety should be your number one priority. reddit cares about you (as much as strangers can care about each other) i hope you remain safe and build a beautiful and rich life without him!
I can't stand a cheater. I'm so so sorry. I can't even imagine walking in on that. Like being stabbed in the freaking heart.
That's it though, I'm so scared of loosing him… He is genuinely the kindest and most loving person I've met and I know I will never love someone as much ever again if he breaks up with me…
Well… there is a conversation needed here. You aren't compatible and that is the issue here. I can only say what I would do in your shoes.
You are more active sexually and she knows this, but you need to pin it down in the conversation. You have needs and she can't meet them without maybe pressure herself.
She has a condition which should be respected. But what can be done with it? Doctor? The sexual aspect is important for many, yourself too. So what can be done?
Is it breakable? You hold the answers what you can do and not. The same goes to her.