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Date: November 5, 2022
She’s on the low to mid end of weight for her height she absolutely doesn’t need to count calories or lose a pound. She is SLIM
The problem is that you are basing your relationship on your ephemeral feelings, rather than on a solid decision to stay together and love one another. Feelings come and go, but love is far more than just a feeling, which means it can be more solid. If you find yourself feeling differently about your guy, this is just how feelings change like the wind, and you shouldn't pay attention to that.
It almost (Alternatively cuz I agree with your thoughts too) sounds like he's one of those “I'm doing it so I'm going to obsess and insist that you also do it” things??????? Don't even entertain the discussion at this point if it's going to be one sided anyway, he's not listening to you
Oh ya that’s mad sus
Make sure you have boundaries set that you guys both agree on what is inappropriate and not inappropriate behaviors with other people
For example:
One couple may be ok with piggy back rides from other people
Another couple may be like no piggy back rides
At the end of the day it comes down to what your comfortable with and what you think is ok and not ok
But when you have this discussion make sure he can speak to about it (because it’s a discussion)
And when you do it don’t seem emotional, seem logical
don't waste his time if you want different things.
He might losing his erection fast when on top, comes from bad blood circulation, is not unusual but difficult to communicate, and can be worked on.
No I go round his house once a week and have spent like week straight there in the past. It’s just more so Christmas, I have asked previously if perhaps on Christmas eve if I could see him for just the morning or something it was an immediate no sort of like any time near Christmas it’s not allowed if that makes sense.
That’s highly dependent on culture and circumstances, so I wouldn’t make such a blanket statement.
Yes, I have a feeling that their grandchild has not helped the delusion. That’s given her a reminder taste of the delightful parts of that stage – cuteness and newborns sleeping on your chest – but not the extent of the crying and the lack of sleep and general exhaustion, which can feel so much worse at 40+ than when you’re in your energetic 20s.
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I'm sorry. I think he IS a bit traumatized but he also is “settling” for you because you don't cause all that ruckus. It's the weirdest thing but the more ridiculous and childish women act, the more men seem to “love” them. If you're calm and chill they just take you for granted. Couple's therapy could help or My personal suggestion is to ditch men altogether and make a life you like without the bullshit. Best of luck to you
So what if someone is disgusted? That's their right, too. I'm a lesbian and would absolutely under no circumstance be with a trans woman. I like boobs and vagina.
Op at this point anything you say is an issue you would be best to let her make all the decisions and when/if they go wrong say nothing. I guarantee it will still be your fault. At that point you will know you are not to blame and will be correct to act accordingly!
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It is hard under the best of circumstances and probably impossible while long-distance.
She's always going to be wondering where you are, who you're with and what you're doing with/to them.
Any female name you mention could make her suspicious and cause distrust. Then you feel mad because she is just a platonic friend and think she should be over it by now. That is just one possible problem I thought of on the fly. Of course, I don't know either of you, but infidelity is hard to survive under any circumstance.
I think you would both be better off to move on with new people in your local area.
Well I purposely didn’t tell my friends or sister cos I knew they’d say NO and I didn’t want to hear that haha but we live and learn!!
Do it. Don’t stay and regret your decision.
Love this, I’m on “get my ass out of the way” method too.
“If you love someone, set them free.”
The logic behind this is that you want to be CHOSEN. You don’t want to be second best, leftovers, or greatest of two evils. You can’t force someone to choose you, accept you and acknowledge you, that had to come from within them and forcing someone on a decision is just manipulation.
Good luck, OP! Take a couple steps back and defend yourself at all times.
you talk about people who does not have BPD.
do you want me to discuss the diagnosis, or do you want me to say that the diagnosis are no exscuse in the legal system?
It's not rushing in terms of the relationship, but they're pretty young in general to be married or having kids. I'm wondering if her desperation to start having kids is about something other than just wanting to be a parent. Does she feel insecure in the relationship and think that marriage or kids will make her feel better? Does she want to opt out of having a career and want to have kids with the idea that she can stay at home? She just seems young to be desperate. Intentionally or not, she's pressuring him, and who wants to marry someone that doesn't really want to marry them?
Ur 23 and have a dead bedroom. Leave him.
Well I feel like maybe we don’t have a lot in common? We have a few overlapping interests but that’s it. The pluses are that we have great chemistry, we trust each other and when there is a problem in our relationship we communicate really well to solve it. We both come from somewhat privileged backgrounds, but in the last few years he’s been through a lot, losing a parent during covid, losing his safety net, establishing himself in a career… he was going through all of this while I was still wrapping up university till last year and was lucky enough to do so from home (it’s common where I’m from to live with your family during university). He says he really values how I was there for him during this time, but at the same time I feel like we both are on such different stages of life now sometimes. I can’t always relate to him and he can’t always relate to me. I’ve also been having a really tough time getting a job after graduating in my field (it’s screenwriting, if anyone’s wondering) and am applying to grad school and shifting my career to focus on something more practical so we can have a realistic shot of making it work together. I feel like maybe that just means it’s going to be another few years before I get any sort of “real life” experience (his words).
All of this is to say that, basically, when we’re not communicating about a problem in our relationship, or hooking up, or catching up on our days, we have very little else to talk about.
Also omg thank you for asking this because all of this came to me as I was writing, I don’t think I had put my thoughts in one place quite like this before…
Bad memory from adhd and to keep contact info
You should have ended it tho
changing sheets is one of the simplest tasks.
Start paying them rent for living at home or money towards bills. Say it's time for you to contribute and hand up some money each montj
You keep posting this same thing over and over, changing the details slightly every time (first you had a four year old together, then you had a two year old, which is it? You’re afraid she will take your child and move out of the country with him if you break up. You feel like she’s sacrificed her career for yours and now she will resent you. Oh, and also you’ve found someone else you want to be with, and are probably already having an affair with that person).
What response is it that you’re looking for here? You want people to give you permission to blow up your life and the lives of your child and his mother? Permission granted. Go for it. She deserves better than you. Don’t come crying back here when she takes your child and moves out of the country so she can get back to getting on with the career she deserves and so she can find someone else who actually likes her.
So you’re his sex toy that he can cram his weiner in for as long as it takes for him to climax and then he’s over it. How “fun” for you! I’d say he’s immature, but he’s 18 so what do you expect? Tell him it’s mutual or your our. Time the boy learns a life lesson.
It's called sexual assault! He's assaulting you! Stop allowing it. Leave him now. I guarantee you that you're not the first. He's probably raped someone too. End it now!
I don't think you will be heartbroken for long. It seems you are easily distracted by the next new thing.
She didn’t actively blame my mum. She insisted that we cannot discuss whilst my mum is in the cafe because it’s making her uncomfortable. My mum just had a fall in the morning. So I just wanted to give her a coffee treat since she asked. I don’t see why a compromise can’t be made
Thank you for your honest advice. I appreciate it.
This is insane. I had crippling anxiety with 28k debt, I couldn't imagine 250k.
Low self-worth.
Also i am struggling to find what you would call the male equivalent. Scum or whatever is also used for women. So its once again derogatory to just women and men aren’t as bad.
Ikr?
That’s her next boyfriend.
Your girl “friend” tricked you into thinking Saturday was your birthday to get you to attend an event she was going to, and then your girl “friend” requested to spend the night at your place…?
You don't see the red flag there? Why do you think your girl “friend” went out of her way to trick you into a situation where your actual girlfriend (if you're exclusive) wasn't present?
I would see her getting her things as a sign she wasn't willing to put up with that kind of shit, not an insecurity. I know I would've done the same thing, personally. Your own boundaries are the issue here, not her insecurities…as this doesn't seem like insecurities, it seems like a full stop.
I just have to adjust my expectations for what I can get on my own, which I can do. HE SAID that he wanted for us to get a big house together. I didn’t necessarily need the two storey, enough for his home gym, spare room for his gaming room etc. so those were the houses that I looked for and we looked at. I was considering buying off the plan around the time we met but couldn’t quite get the deposit together. I can now, so I might look at that again. Thanks for your kind and clear advice.
He sounds like a real winner, that one. Lies about saving money, spends lavishly, loves to show off, feels totally ok mooching off his brother for an insane loan (anyone with half a conscience would feel super guilty), had the audacity to go into bankruptcy in his early 20s probably because he had delusions of grandeur, now he’s gaslighting you.
He has narcissist written all over him. Red flags all the way. What else is he lying about? Run!
My husband and I were able to save up for a 50k down payment in exactly a year and a half making less than 6 figures between the 2 of us (fortunately now things are better but it was tough then!) If your fiancé makes 7x any salary he’s probably able to save up at least 100k in a year if he’s not a moron. if your fiancé can’t stop being a baby and save up some money then how do you expect him to have the maturity to have kids, not spend you into the poorhouse, not cheat on you? I’ve never met a “live for the moment” guy who’s been faithful to his girlfriend/wife. That type of immaturity and impulsivity is simply not conducive to that. Look, im not trying to generalize, im sure they exist, im just speaking from experience.
Divorce her she has no trouble betraying you and lying for years. Probably would have gone on indefinitely had the wife not found out.
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Suggestion then go and find a rental and pay them that bc if this isn’t the audacity of men in this age.