But really, some couples do fine with an 'out of sight, out of mind' policy. That's my wife's rule – I'm happy to oblige and never leave evidence. Granted, my consumption is sporadic and mostly tied to how active we've been in the bedroom recently. If homeboy is getting his rocks off every day or more, that's a different can of worms.
I mean not holding a grudge against her, I am not saying I am right, I admit it's pretty immature, but I am just acknowledging the amount of patience you need to forgive someone who cheated. Let alone never mention it to them again.
Maybe because she has had to deal with people talking about her for a long time and knows how to cope. You should learn how to cope by going to therapy. She's 29 and looks 15. I'm sure she has her own personal issues that she has to deal with because of that. Go. To. Therapy. And put your daughter in therapy too while you're at it.
you decided not to go, he respected your decision, how is there even an issue here?
I loled.
But really, some couples do fine with an 'out of sight, out of mind' policy. That's my wife's rule – I'm happy to oblige and never leave evidence. Granted, my consumption is sporadic and mostly tied to how active we've been in the bedroom recently. If homeboy is getting his rocks off every day or more, that's a different can of worms.
I mean not holding a grudge against her, I am not saying I am right, I admit it's pretty immature, but I am just acknowledging the amount of patience you need to forgive someone who cheated. Let alone never mention it to them again.
what are you worried about?
Maybe because she has had to deal with people talking about her for a long time and knows how to cope. You should learn how to cope by going to therapy. She's 29 and looks 15. I'm sure she has her own personal issues that she has to deal with because of that. Go. To. Therapy. And put your daughter in therapy too while you're at it.
People have different roles and it’s not always assigned to genders. I totally agree.