So… he’s cheating on you and you’re both trying to convince yourselves that it’s okay to cheat if it’s a “kink”. I don’t think there’s a way to recover a healthy relationship from this.
The text was a day old, we already ended it. It really isn't affecting me much, it had been months since I didn't really care about it anymore. I already edited the text so that there's no confusion for future readers.
Doesn’t sound like OP had much sexual contact with his wife in the first place
Sometimes I doubt the authenticity of these post seeing that OP always wants to give them a chance.
So… he’s cheating on you and you’re both trying to convince yourselves that it’s okay to cheat if it’s a “kink”. I don’t think there’s a way to recover a healthy relationship from this.
The text was a day old, we already ended it. It really isn't affecting me much, it had been months since I didn't really care about it anymore. I already edited the text so that there's no confusion for future readers.
Oh sweety, that isn’t normal at all. You don’t have to live this way.