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Date: November 27, 2022
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I'm just saying, if I was in your shoes this would be a deal-breaker for me 100%. Disrespecting my old man in MY house? Nah. And my Dad's not as easy to get along with as yours, I am pretty sure. (Tho tbh if I was in your shoes I'd have asked Dad to move in with me. It's a different dynamic living with your parents as an adult, especially if you're the one looking out for them and not the other way around. It doesn't have to be permanent, but a parent and adult child briefly cohabitating after losing the other parent is a normal way to help process grief; lots of my friends have done it and I would too without a second thought.)
Also, you don't need to practice saying “ours” in this dynamic with your boyfriend even though you might be cohabitating– because you aren't married. IMO that kind of “ours” talk is only appropriate when you're married. And hopefully you'd never marry this lout. What kind of a person disrespects a girl's father? And one that's good-natured at that? Despicable. I would be absolutely livid.
Talking shit about somebody else's parents is fighting words, we all remember that from grade school. Don't let him talk about your father that way.
Sorry, don’t understand why he isn’t responsible for paying for you, his +1, just like you are paying for him with your family (?)
It sounds like getting out and about isn't a priority for her, and that's okay, but it is your job to figure out if you can take care of yourself and do the active things you enjoy without her or if you really need a partner who will do things like this with you.
You mentioned health–does she have any actual health problems? Or is it more you just need more activity in your life than she does?
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I'm sorry but why would you even be in love with this entitled woman! I mean come on dude just grab your shit and leave this golddigger.
Yeah really. Like dude what the fuck do you expect is gonna happen.
“He's never been the kind to cheat”…asks women other than his gf for naked pics.
She never told us that she asked his help. Sometimes people are cowards and they don't discuss they just act. When someones doesn't love you you understand it right away. She never said in her post anything about his behaviour changing. He could have said it while mad at her.
My neighbor and his wife separated and she refuses to tell him where she's living or spend time with her own kids because she's living with another man.
To allow someone you know to live a lie for convenience is cowardice. Your friends and your partner are giving you bad advice. Easy is not always the best path.
Depending where you live, marriage has many meanings. Some of it is law, joint finances/taxes while it can also be religious and/or family oriented.
Find out what part(s) he objects to.
If he doesn't want the law involved, then don't legally get married, just religiously, or maybe not at all, but wear “commitment rings”.
There is often room for compromise.
I have no advice other than being his shoulder to cry on. This is a heartbreaking post. I'm so sorry ?
Girl holy fuck just get the abortion. You can have another baby when you're both ready. Don't sabotage yourself because he's feeling a little sad about it. He'll get over it.
I have read that a whole lot here. I really had not considered any kind of therapy before my original post. I really wish I had not felt like that about it, kind of like refusing a lifesaver when I am was drowning.
“four months together….around the time the honeymoon phase ends”
Oh, honey. You've never been in a relationship lasting even a full year, have you? I'd bet so. Four months is like full fledged honeymoon phase for most couples. Which is fine to not know yet, I mean you're only 19. But just so you know for the future, generally, if someone is telling you they're breaking up with you, you don't really get to argue much on it. Unless it's said like, mid-argument, usually there has been a fair bit of thought on it prior to sending the oh-so-cringey (just on principle..) breakup Snap. I feel for you there, really. What a shitty and cowardly way to dump someone. Four months at least deserves a fucking phone call ffs. On that alone I can already say you should not waste your time trying to get her back. She obviously is lacking in the maturity necessary for proper communication in a relationship.
Let it be. Respect her choice even if you don't agree with her reasons or logic. There are many ways to develop as a single person that are not as possible while in a relationship (and vice versa) so take this opportunity to focus on yourself and your own goals and empathetically reflecting on how you interact with other humans and they you. You'll be fine. Her too (though I hope for everyone's sake she never dumps anyone via Snapchat again that shits just low…)
I honestly believe she's torn on the idea of a relationship. I think she wants to be in one but doesn't know if she's ready to commit.