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Date: February 14, 2023
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It sounds like you're a friend with benefit and not an actual partner. If you want more, then don't give out to someone who refuses to make the relationship official (and lets face it, this is basically the situation we're dealing with here).
It's done. Sorry.
He should have broken up with you first.
Age is just a number…an age old excuse for justifying predatory behaviour.
His approach to conflict isn't flawed, it's age and experience appropriate.
Locks of fur is often part of cremation packages from the vet. You’re being offensively rude to someone’s grieving process, and many people keep locks of fur. Grow up.
Locks of fur is often part of cremation packages from the vet. You’re being offensively rude to someone’s grieving process, and many people keep locks of fur. Grow up.
Locks of fur is often part of cremation packages from the vet. You’re being offensively rude to someone’s grieving process, and many people keep locks of fur. Grow up.
Are you sure your bf isn't trying to turn you into a sex worker? Sounds like he lovebombed you, used the lovebombing to get you to move in with him and as soon as your housing situation was insecure he brought up his desire to watch you have sex with other men while he records. You say you agreed the first time because you love him, but the possibility of being homeless if he broke up with you over this and your family not being an option would have played a role and he knows this.
You have no way of knowing if the second guy paid your bf to sleep with you, which seems likely given your bf asked for a STI test. These videos may also have been uploaded to PORN hub etc.
Please contact your local Domestic Violence shelter so they can work with you on developing a plan to get out of this relationship safely.
Honestly he sounds like a solid dude, and you should keep trying to get along with him. He could teach you some stuff.
Yes. I agree. She needs to get the police involved bc he’ll do this to someone else.
I was w a guy once that put a used condom in his pocket and I thought it was revolting. That's enough for me to advise breaking it off
Okay? There are lots of reasons why someone might visit a friend’s dorm. What do you imagine he’s doing there?
Where he’s coming from is, he doesn’t have to do any work and he likes it that way! He knows that as long as he only does things when you explicitly ask him to, he’s not going to have to do very much labor. He’s selfish, he doesn’t care that much about your burnout, and he’s using “all men do this” as an excuse so that you won’t think too hard about it and demand any changes.
I’m sorry, but you’re not going to get any good advice on how to change someone else’s behavior. Sounds like you’ve spoken about this pretty clearly, and he’s literally said he won’t offer any help or support to you. There’s no magical way to word things in the exact right way that will make him do what you wish he would do.
If I didn't have my own dear BIL who doubled down on any argument just to make sure he won, I'd agree with you. But I've had this sort of thing happen in real life. His proudly proclaimed motto is, if anyone contradicts him, he'll go to ten times the effort to inconvenience them just to prove a point.
We are no longer in contact.
I haven’t texted him since so I am trying to respect his rejection. I just literally haven’t been able to get over it. After his “feedback” I tried explaining a little bit but he never replied. Is there a chance he might think differently or like.. idk.
The thing is, I’m not even interested in dating him anymore! I just feel really bothered that I was so misunderstood. Maybe bc it’s happened a lot when I was growing up.
So many things at play here. Age, maturity, comfort, exploration and more. Honestly i’m not sure what you what here? This seems like positive growth. All I can say is stop fixating on the past, appreciate the growth and continue to dive deeper.
You literally play Pokémon go ALL DAY?! Are you putting any effort into this relationship at all??
This has clearly bothered her for a while & she only brought it up last night when you forgot her damn birthday!!
I know this isn’t AITA but you’re the asshole, OP.
Info: Do you write in Time News Roman?
Tell him commenting on your body, is a boundary for you.
A joke is only funny when both people laugh.
((HUGS))
No, it's not what I asked, question is in last line. “I don't know how to convince her (for sure we're not letting this one go) to make her feel safe with this.”
Their mistake could be easily fixed by giving you the room they think you should pay for
My sister was my best friend for 30 years, this sort of thing started happening when we were in our mid-20s. By the time I was 40, I realized the wasn’t ever going to grow up. It’s so sad. Love your sentence, “We ARE the company we keep.”
red flags do not make someone a perfect partner. don't sacrifice what's important to you for the sake of being in a relationship. try to be okay on your own in the new town and think about what qualities are important to you in a partner (such as compatible/reasonable views). next time you start dating you'll have a clearer idea of what will work for you and hopefully your next partner will reflect that. I'm sorry for your current heartbreak.
U really helped thank you we eneded up getting down to the root of it and sorted it completly turns out it was acctually quite sweet the reason she was moody at me
Lol. You're saying people shouldn't be using their current employer as a reference?
So I guess the question is, ultimately: what do you want to do? What do you feel, especially about your husband, but moreover about your combined ability to support the lifestyle you envisioned?
Did you think he was the type of person to do this? Were you reliant on his income for your lifestyle aspirations? How diligently did you guys take your vows?
Finally: is your husband okay, emotionally? Has he been under such tremendous stress that it all came out like this, or is he just an asshole?
Honest questions I think you guys should address as a couple, but for my part I'll say your husband is a fucking impulsive idiot and has come from a place of comfort – maybe based on your ability to provide income? – to say these things and it may be informed by how much he hated his current job and… well, maybe he needs therapy?
For sure, now is the time. I’m sure it’ll be for the best long run. Most good things are scary the first time. It’s normal to be scared about the future. If it’s the right person it’s not really a choice. I get that.
What advice do you want from Reddit? You did not HAVE to marry a 20 year old. You told her you wish she wasn’t born and meant nothing to you all because barely legal trim was more important. Reap what you sow. You picked reaping young pussy. Congrats on your choice I hope it was worth it. She probably will never want you around. You will not walk her down the aisle you will not see her children or know much about. All because you”had” to marry someone 22 years your junior. Live with it, she did nothing wrong.
I feel that cheating is more about my partners feelings than the person's in the outside of the relationship. I would care if my partner was emotionally attached and had feelings for them. I wouldn't care a bit if the robot/other person did
I see his point about you trying to hurt him and that’s valid it was shitty. Intent matters. At the end of the day if you didn’t hook up with anyone else he will get over it. If you did it’s a wrap.
Next note who cares. He plays double standard in he hooked up with people you can’t? Sounds like you is a bum.
Why does the babysitter need to be there to babysit you and help you??? Get the f out of here, be honest, you want to bang the sitter. She’s closer in age. Lol why can’t you do your housework on your own? I don’t understand:
Depends on the person really. But I personally like being shown that I’m known: bring me my favorite food, let’s watch my favorite shows or a small gift of something I’m into.
Seconding making sure she’s mentally healthy though. You can’t cure depression on your own.
Who suggested the open marriage?
Everyone here is saying push back the wedding or leave him. Instead put yourself in his shoes for a minute, you said he has a new job and whenever you go see him he is drowning in work. Stress and long working hours will absolutely devastate a middle aged man’s libido. I do know it’s hard for me to be intimate after a day at work cause I work in a high stress environment for 12 hours a day. I get up at 415am and I get home around 6pm. Factor in my two kids need my attention when I get home that doesn’t leave a lot of gas in the tank for my wife. It might feel like he’s neglecting you but maybe he’s just struggling. Just a different opinion then some of the other comments I’ve seen
Stats show that most people as adults listen to the stuff they listened to in high school and their early 20s more than anything else. It's pretty normal.
Yeah, it just takes off a layer of potential conflict.
It would be different if one of us were stay at home parents or something and had no income at all. But that’s not our situation. ?♀️
Why do you want to be married to someone with anger issues who thinks you should finish the fights she starts?
The sunk cost fallacy is something a lot of people get caught up in. But you've already wasted 5 years of your life with this greedy, lying jackass. And deep down you know any more time spent with him is just going to be a waste as well.
This man is literally telling you that sleeping around is more important to him than you and your relationship.
End things now. And cut all ties with him. None of this waiting until he's ready nonsense so many people try. Remove him entirely from your life, work things out with a therapist if you think that will help, and move on to someone who will treat you right.
whoops
I don’t think she’s being evil about it, again not aggressively negative, just kind of passive
You dodged a bullet my friend
Is this a joke??
We have always been open about what we want in bed.
So these are your words. Time to start being open.
I have to say too-you don’t seem all that eager by the sound of it. You say you’re content with just him, but at the bottom you say something different. You don’t have to do everything he wants in bed, it’s totally ok for some fantasies to stay fantasies.
If you really do want to, that’s fine, but I want to warn you, if you’re forcing yourself to do sexual things with him that you don’t actually enjoy, you have a very good chance of not only not wanting to do those specific things, you can become completely sex-averse, or even end up with physical issues such as vaginismus (closed vagina that cannot be penetrated) or other things as your body and brain try to protect themselves. And let me tell you, it fucking sucks when that happens.
I did a lot of things I didn’t want to do with just about every partner I’ve ever had. I don’t enjoy rough BDSM, but most partners requested it, and I was worried about coming off as immature or silly. So I let them all abuse me.
It caught up to me though. It took 40 years, but now I can rarely even have an orgasm and any feelings of arousal are almost always accompanied by crippling anxiety.
Has your partner been tested for sociopathy or other extreme low-empathy disorders? Because this extreme lack of empathy is probably something he just grew up with. It’s something he’s probably going to have to put energy into to start understanding and respecting your emotions