I would definitely talk to him about it and see if that would be helpful for him. I can see where both of you are coming from, so I really hope you can find a solution you can both be happy with.
I’m telling you that you’re showing warning signs of becoming a legitimate, television show on A&E, intervention from local government hoarder.
Keeping things like silica gel packets “just in case” set off all kinds of alarms for me. You’re not going to like this statement and you’re going to have what you think are legitimate reasons to stash sugar packets and silica and so on.
Memories of pets are pictures and paw prints.
I’m begging you in a totally non judgmental way and entirely out of concern for you – get therapy. These behaviors absolutely destroy relationships of all kinds as they escalate. I’ve worked with them as a pastor and it’s heartbreaking.
I don't intend to demand an apology. While I would like them to know how they made me feel. I ultimately know it wouldn't help the situation. I don't want to prolong anything. I was ready for this to be done months ago when mediation was on the table.
He can decide what you buy when he starts contributing financially to the household. It is more economical to buy a new car than it is to get into a major accident with an old one.
Sounds like you need assistance and join a care takers support group and a therapist. Start practicing self care. Care taking is beyond hard. Take care.
I would definitely talk to him about it and see if that would be helpful for him. I can see where both of you are coming from, so I really hope you can find a solution you can both be happy with.
It's a terrible idea. Sounds like you have closure. You are happily married . . You don't owe your ex closure
Have you tried an andrologist? My bf went to see one.
I’m not telling you that you’re a hoarder.
I’m telling you that you’re showing warning signs of becoming a legitimate, television show on A&E, intervention from local government hoarder.
Keeping things like silica gel packets “just in case” set off all kinds of alarms for me. You’re not going to like this statement and you’re going to have what you think are legitimate reasons to stash sugar packets and silica and so on.
Memories of pets are pictures and paw prints.
I’m begging you in a totally non judgmental way and entirely out of concern for you – get therapy. These behaviors absolutely destroy relationships of all kinds as they escalate. I’ve worked with them as a pastor and it’s heartbreaking.
Yep. This is why I never wear my ring to the gym. I’m terrified of loosing it damaging it.
I don't intend to demand an apology. While I would like them to know how they made me feel. I ultimately know it wouldn't help the situation. I don't want to prolong anything. I was ready for this to be done months ago when mediation was on the table.
He can decide what you buy when he starts contributing financially to the household. It is more economical to buy a new car than it is to get into a major accident with an old one.
Trust me they can, even if your together 20+ years you never know a person
Sounds like you need assistance and join a care takers support group and a therapist. Start practicing self care. Care taking is beyond hard. Take care.