Op, you do know that trade schools are just as good as college? Maybe he would find what he likes at a trade school? A 6-16 month course where he gets certified and can go get a job without YEARS of a getting a degree.
Some people are happier with a trade profession, some are happier with a degree profession.
It really depends on what HE wants to do because he clearly has no interest in going to college.
Time ask him what he actually want his life to look like 10 years from now at 35, which is my age.
Your dad is to blame and he’s also a POS for being ok with not having a role in his child’s life.
They have every right to have a relationship as adults. The sneaking around part is terrible but your parents both knew deep down this could happen. You had both your parents growing up and unfortunately guilt makes people want to overcompensate to make things right or to feel better about themselves.
What is this “our” money crap, that’s your parents money not “our” money. You have zero rights to include yourself in their finances. You are both his children, whether he was married to your mothers at the time of birth or not.
Im getting a vibe from you that as soon as u hear support for your husband, you just assume its false and sexist. I mean he is your husband, you should make more of an effort actually confirming what he said instead of just brushing (the person u love the most) him off like sexist.
The man who's already not spending enough time with his son will not get custody.
You are afraid and in shock right now, you need to go see a lawyer and know aboit your options. Also remember to keep screenshots of him sexting and all other communication with you
You seem.. Strangely proud of this.
Op, you do know that trade schools are just as good as college? Maybe he would find what he likes at a trade school? A 6-16 month course where he gets certified and can go get a job without YEARS of a getting a degree.
Some people are happier with a trade profession, some are happier with a degree profession.
It really depends on what HE wants to do because he clearly has no interest in going to college.
Time ask him what he actually want his life to look like 10 years from now at 35, which is my age.
I would chalk it up to what it is. She doesn't want to live with you, for no particular reason. I would let her move out while you move on
Same can moment you are you just rewriting the word relationship to come up in search?
Tell your mom.
Your dad is to blame and he’s also a POS for being ok with not having a role in his child’s life.
They have every right to have a relationship as adults. The sneaking around part is terrible but your parents both knew deep down this could happen. You had both your parents growing up and unfortunately guilt makes people want to overcompensate to make things right or to feel better about themselves.
What is this “our” money crap, that’s your parents money not “our” money. You have zero rights to include yourself in their finances. You are both his children, whether he was married to your mothers at the time of birth or not.
I meant if he had the dream about the daughter and told the wife because he was disturbed and wanted support.
Im getting a vibe from you that as soon as u hear support for your husband, you just assume its false and sexist. I mean he is your husband, you should make more of an effort actually confirming what he said instead of just brushing (the person u love the most) him off like sexist.
Relax. Give him some space. His grandmother just passed.
The man who's already not spending enough time with his son will not get custody.
You are afraid and in shock right now, you need to go see a lawyer and know aboit your options. Also remember to keep screenshots of him sexting and all other communication with you
Where in Rhode island. 57k might be sustainable in the rural parts but def not in the cities.