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Date: February 18, 2023
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You cant do a relationship thinking “if it were me”. They will never be you. You have to communicate.
otherwise it's just “vaguely hinted at non-consent”.
I think this is the part she's interested in.
I think you need to work out what the vision looks like in the future for the both of you and see how your finances fit in those plans. You're not wrong for wanting your part-time job life. It seems great! Your gf isn't wrong either for thinking you did accrue more income for your future. That said, what's that future?
For example, my bf and I would like to get a place in the future, but that can't happen right now. However, we still have a housing list to get an idea of places we'd like to live, the types of homes, and, most importantly, the cost. We may not be acting on it right now, but at least we know what our housing budget could look like and can preemptively plan.
So, I'd say sit down, talk about those plans, and see if your combined incomes as they currently stand can make those plans a reality. If it can't, see if it's possible to compromise/adjust.
Good luck!
Weird that he blocked her though
This is easily the most logical, emotionally intelligent comment I have ever read on Reddit. Thank you so much.
I was worried about catching more lies, which is what caused today's argument – so if I look at this logically, he's frustrated because he feels he ruined the trust in our relationship. In his emotions, he took it out on me, saying he's on the spot and I'm going to just keep doing this — then admitting he knows it's his fault. When he said “people get over things at different paces” I thought he was being rude, but I think he was trying to validate that I'm still upset, because he's not the snarky type. We've both been wrong in the whole ordeal, me asking for too much info and him for lying. We both have work to do and feelings to feel.
You're a miracle worker… haha.
It's really too bad that he wasn't this concerned about your relationship until he got caught in his lies. Please do not go back to him. Had you not been on facebook, you'd never know here, and he would never had told you!
It's so painfully true if he goes without pot he is a nightmare, if he doesn't have cold soda he's a giant baby and if I complain to him about the bills and work stress, he cuts me off or gives me a hard time to “being mean” to him. I'm squirreling away money so I can leave him. I'm taking back the car I bought him. I'm not going to take back the appliances I bought for the house, or the bed. But I don't think he should get to the car on top of a furnished home after all this. I'll be the bad guy no matter what I do.
She already has a kid looking at her post history.
I wonder if deep down she knows the next in line to be a punching bag is her daughter and herself so she’s letting him abuse the dog.
I know her past and that could be her type.
Don't let her past color your perception of him.
More than likely she lusted after him and he didn't give her the time of day. So saying that to you not only hurt you, but it also salved the narcissistic injury of him rejecting her. She killed two birds with one stone.
FWIW, when she said that to you, she absolutely believed it. For the narcissistic mind, truth isn't about facts, its about whatever makes them feel good. The really delusional narcissists will says contradictory things back to back without a hint of irony, just so long as both things make them feel good about themselves.
As someone who has dealt with people like that, my advice is not to waste your time trying to make sense of her. Someone like that isn't playing with a full deck and trying to figure out their weird internal logic will just have you going in circles.
Good point. I wonder if the sister also knew. Didn't OP say that she met his sister and brother before him?