If what he says is true, which it isn't, it means he's very bad at setting boundaries with people around him, especially women. That's already a yellow flag that's well on its way to being red.
But the real problem here is that he's being manipulative, potentially without realizing it. This isn't a thing, and people don't just go around casually talking about who's into them. He's looking to make you see him as having more value then he does and you having less value than you do. It's not a good thing. Move on.
Don’t waste your life wishing he were something other than what he is: a shady, lying cheat. He’s NOT open and honest. Don’t start desperately sucking up to him in the hopes he’ll pick you, that’s not going to help you. If he meant well he’d never have lied and snuck around behind your back.
What about long walks with her in a wheelchair. Or if she got a motorised wheelchair/mobility vehicle you could bike alongside? Think adaption rather than exclusion. Getting her to accept a wheelchair could be hard, it was for me, but it opens the world up again.
Babe, you know this is wrong, and you don't need Reddit to tell you this. Do something! Men will only do what they can get by with. He is getting by with being controlling. Seriously do something, whether it's leaving, try to discuss everything with him, just something! Get off of reddit and take control of your damn life.
As a non gamer I can't believe this is even a question. I'd be fuming if my partner did something like this and would call the relationship in to question.
Give her 30 days and that's that.
She's guilting you in a relationship you clearly don't want to be in.
Next time she loses it, live your life and let her clean up after herself. Or she can get her parents to do it.
Also, you are not responsible for her mental health. She is.
This is ridiculous.
They aren't pokemon to collect …
I’m genuinely not trying to insult her but advice can’t really be given without all the facts
Well, definitely don't watch the Count of Monte Cristo or Sweeney Todd, that's for sure.
If what he says is true, which it isn't, it means he's very bad at setting boundaries with people around him, especially women. That's already a yellow flag that's well on its way to being red.
But the real problem here is that he's being manipulative, potentially without realizing it. This isn't a thing, and people don't just go around casually talking about who's into them. He's looking to make you see him as having more value then he does and you having less value than you do. It's not a good thing. Move on.
Thanks. I'll definitely be sure to give all the in-laws a heads up and get them to help out with distraction.
Don’t waste your life wishing he were something other than what he is: a shady, lying cheat. He’s NOT open and honest. Don’t start desperately sucking up to him in the hopes he’ll pick you, that’s not going to help you. If he meant well he’d never have lied and snuck around behind your back.
What about long walks with her in a wheelchair. Or if she got a motorised wheelchair/mobility vehicle you could bike alongside? Think adaption rather than exclusion. Getting her to accept a wheelchair could be hard, it was for me, but it opens the world up again.
Babe, you know this is wrong, and you don't need Reddit to tell you this. Do something! Men will only do what they can get by with. He is getting by with being controlling. Seriously do something, whether it's leaving, try to discuss everything with him, just something! Get off of reddit and take control of your damn life.
No, i mean this sounds like my relationship (im the guy).
Play stupid games
Could you contact a friend or family member? Maybe ask his parents to hold his stuff for him?
I feel taken advantage of and I’m not sure how to heal from this
You leave.
As a non gamer I can't believe this is even a question. I'd be fuming if my partner did something like this and would call the relationship in to question.
Forgot to add a ticket, that's ridiculous.
It is his moms house yes
Someone who goes after teenagers still in highschool probably should be labeled as a pedo, imo