Well, at first the vet told us to give him nothing at all and then to do pumpkin, chicken & rice and then to slowly introduce his regular food to him. So that’s what we have been doing, and it’s been getting better. I mean, even I was worried Friday night. I have never seen it that bad before….it is clearly getting better but it’s still gross and messy. And I’m not a monster. I’m not mad at the dog for going in the house. I’m not mad at the dog because the house stinks. I’m not even mad at the dog for getting into the garbage can that is normally locked closed, but wasn’t because he got into it during one of our kids birthday parties…..I’m mad at the person who is supposed to be taking care of this and isn’t. When I made it extremely clear how i felt with the dogs. Before we got the dogs. Before we decided to build a house. Before we moved into the house….,just so much boundary pushing and I guess it’s easier for me to not like the dog than to not like the REAL a hole….
She's lied to you before. What makes you think she's telling the truth now? Do you honestly believe that a 25 year old would go over to someone's place and just make out with them multiple times??
You will never be able to trust her. You will drive yourself crazy with paranoia if you let this continue.
I can't bare to let this relationship go
This is the issue, the hardest part. You have been with her for 5 years, you feel comfortable and safe with her, even though she hurt you. Breaking up with her would feel like losing apart of yourself, and you are so afraid of being alone that you will stick in a relationship with someone who does not respect you.
Fuck that.
You will be so much better off alone I promise. You are too young to get stuck in a bad relationship and declare that you'll never find anything better. You will find someone who loves and respects you I promise.
Head on over to loveisrespect.org and do some reading.
Well, at first the vet told us to give him nothing at all and then to do pumpkin, chicken & rice and then to slowly introduce his regular food to him. So that’s what we have been doing, and it’s been getting better. I mean, even I was worried Friday night. I have never seen it that bad before….it is clearly getting better but it’s still gross and messy. And I’m not a monster. I’m not mad at the dog for going in the house. I’m not mad at the dog because the house stinks. I’m not even mad at the dog for getting into the garbage can that is normally locked closed, but wasn’t because he got into it during one of our kids birthday parties…..I’m mad at the person who is supposed to be taking care of this and isn’t. When I made it extremely clear how i felt with the dogs. Before we got the dogs. Before we decided to build a house. Before we moved into the house….,just so much boundary pushing and I guess it’s easier for me to not like the dog than to not like the REAL a hole….
Geez what the F@$k is wrong with people?
She's lied to you before. What makes you think she's telling the truth now? Do you honestly believe that a 25 year old would go over to someone's place and just make out with them multiple times??
You will never be able to trust her. You will drive yourself crazy with paranoia if you let this continue.
I can't bare to let this relationship go
This is the issue, the hardest part. You have been with her for 5 years, you feel comfortable and safe with her, even though she hurt you. Breaking up with her would feel like losing apart of yourself, and you are so afraid of being alone that you will stick in a relationship with someone who does not respect you.
Fuck that.
You will be so much better off alone I promise. You are too young to get stuck in a bad relationship and declare that you'll never find anything better. You will find someone who loves and respects you I promise.