Disagreed. It's one thing to know you are struggling with suicidal thoughts and still decide to have children, that could be considered selfish. But having kids and then get suicidal thoughts is another thing. It is a disease and now an active choice someone makes when they try to commit suciide. I believe this is a dangerous post you've posted because it causes a lot of shame for parents that are struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. You could not post this in the relationship advice reddit.
Now, I don't know what you've been through so make you feel this way and I am sorry for what happend to you. This aint it though.
Kids this age can be eased into it and don't have to know the exact reason why. You CAN have a merry Christmas FOR THEM as they are what matter now. One of my sons remembers me saying, who do you want to live with? I was angry and reactive~ it was over 30 years ago. What a mistake that was. None of them care today who said or did what. We all get along and have holidays and events together with our new spouses. You've got a long ways to go and a lot to get through with custody, school events, birthdays, choir concerts, sports, graduations. You can handle Christmas FOR THEM. He's in the house anyway so everyone needs to do what they normally do for the kids.
You shouldn’t be with this boyfriend. He is not supportive of you. Tell him what you did. That way he will break up with you and set you free to find someone better.
Decor is at the bottom of the list on things hard to compromise for 2 people living together. At least OP sees what a selfish ass he would be to live with it.
You are a much better person than I am… I would go for option 1. Every time someone wants to open the marriage, explore other relationships someone ends up getting hurt. I am very afraid it would be you. You deserve someone that loves you whole heartedly and I am sorry to say your wife doesn’t. She loves the security that you give her but there is something very compelling about her boss. I feel like this might be an instance of ripping the bandage off. Good luck to you.
Please contact the police. You apprehended a burglar and saw them off. That’s not against the law in the U.K. Your girlfriend is in shock. It must have been terrifying.
I think you were polite, even though what probably haunts you is how you delivered what you said.
If it is something that nags at you still you can approach your colleague and tell him: “hey, I wanted to apologise if I was a little brusque towards you, when you offered to help with the project – I was just frustrated with the delay and it might have bled out in how I answered you”
It's a lying through your teeth, kill them with kindness approach that might work, if you haven't already tried it : )
Yeah that's dumb on both of your parts. She was testing you to see how much you liked her, and hoped you'd “show her” how much you liked her. Instead, that backfired and you added way more time. Just text her and quit playing games. Both of you need to use your words and not hide behind games. Good luck
i am sorry your experience was detrimental for your mental health, BPD or not it should not happen.
Disagreed. It's one thing to know you are struggling with suicidal thoughts and still decide to have children, that could be considered selfish. But having kids and then get suicidal thoughts is another thing. It is a disease and now an active choice someone makes when they try to commit suciide. I believe this is a dangerous post you've posted because it causes a lot of shame for parents that are struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. You could not post this in the relationship advice reddit.
Now, I don't know what you've been through so make you feel this way and I am sorry for what happend to you. This aint it though.
Kids this age can be eased into it and don't have to know the exact reason why. You CAN have a merry Christmas FOR THEM as they are what matter now. One of my sons remembers me saying, who do you want to live with? I was angry and reactive~ it was over 30 years ago. What a mistake that was. None of them care today who said or did what. We all get along and have holidays and events together with our new spouses. You've got a long ways to go and a lot to get through with custody, school events, birthdays, choir concerts, sports, graduations. You can handle Christmas FOR THEM. He's in the house anyway so everyone needs to do what they normally do for the kids.
You are vile… ??
You shouldn’t be with this boyfriend. He is not supportive of you. Tell him what you did. That way he will break up with you and set you free to find someone better.
How you considered putting the baby up for adoption? Your current situation is way too unstable
Decor is at the bottom of the list on things hard to compromise for 2 people living together. At least OP sees what a selfish ass he would be to live with it.
Come on you know what's going on. People like that aren't worth the trouble, I'm sorry but I'd seek legal council.
You are a much better person than I am… I would go for option 1. Every time someone wants to open the marriage, explore other relationships someone ends up getting hurt. I am very afraid it would be you. You deserve someone that loves you whole heartedly and I am sorry to say your wife doesn’t. She loves the security that you give her but there is something very compelling about her boss. I feel like this might be an instance of ripping the bandage off. Good luck to you.
DO NOT MARRY. LIVE YOUR LIFE, DAMN
Please contact the police. You apprehended a burglar and saw them off. That’s not against the law in the U.K. Your girlfriend is in shock. It must have been terrifying.
Info: is he the last man in the world?
I think you were polite, even though what probably haunts you is how you delivered what you said.
If it is something that nags at you still you can approach your colleague and tell him: “hey, I wanted to apologise if I was a little brusque towards you, when you offered to help with the project – I was just frustrated with the delay and it might have bled out in how I answered you”
It's a lying through your teeth, kill them with kindness approach that might work, if you haven't already tried it : )
make her your ex . are you kidding . wtf is wrong with people .
This is your wife's issue, you need to tell your wife to back off, he's an adult an should celebrate how he wants.
May I request you to explain
Agreed ? ?
Every three months
Yeah that's dumb on both of your parts. She was testing you to see how much you liked her, and hoped you'd “show her” how much you liked her. Instead, that backfired and you added way more time. Just text her and quit playing games. Both of you need to use your words and not hide behind games. Good luck