Aw come on. He has no intention of leaving her. You’ve fell for the age old line, my relationship is boring, she doesn’t understand me etc. absolute mug.
See we have a few times- and it always ends up with the same response after going thru it and she will say that she will look over our ‘plan’ ( our joint document we got on it for things to do/places to stay ) but I know Thas just her putting it off… I was initially insistent that it would be a good idea and not to sweat the money because we only live once which she agreed but after this repeatedly being a thing I think I’ll have to be more blunt with the conversation
He shy and sometimes ignorant. Shy means he probably won't make a move. Ignorant means he might miss signals. Ask him if you can talk to him sometime (specific) about something important. Make sure it is a time where you won't be trapped together by obligations.
Straight up tell him. “I really like you. I want to get to know you more. Would you be interested in dating me?”
The signal can't be like a perfume billboard (that's not even English!). It needs to be a traffic light. Green, yellow, red. He can't be distracted, but hear the question. Have an option in your mind if he asks, “like a date? To where/when?”
90% of guys and 98% of shy guys like when we get clear directions with easy answers. “Steak or Mexican?” Is better than, “where should we eat?”
I'm not Chinese but I lived in China for a bit, and she is Chinese. I know that in her country it's not normal to have boobs that big. She is showing them off for sure
he wants a woman who is soft spoken and doesn’t question him and let’s him take the lead on EVERYTHING
I originally wanted to go to therapy together but now I’m like…. What’s the point if he doesn’t like ME?
If hes been married to you for 10 years I'm sure there are things he likes about you. I think he has been influenced by some toxic gender ideas. Couples therapy might be a great way to clear up some of his misconceptions and get him back to how he used to be. And if that doesn't work then there is only one option left.
Aw come on. He has no intention of leaving her. You’ve fell for the age old line, my relationship is boring, she doesn’t understand me etc. absolute mug.
See we have a few times- and it always ends up with the same response after going thru it and she will say that she will look over our ‘plan’ ( our joint document we got on it for things to do/places to stay ) but I know Thas just her putting it off… I was initially insistent that it would be a good idea and not to sweat the money because we only live once which she agreed but after this repeatedly being a thing I think I’ll have to be more blunt with the conversation
Thankyou for the advise tho- I appreciate it ☺️
His narcissistic bs will blow up one day and when honeymoon is over Ellie will see him for the dick he really is. Cheaters mostly stay cheaters….
He shy and sometimes ignorant. Shy means he probably won't make a move. Ignorant means he might miss signals. Ask him if you can talk to him sometime (specific) about something important. Make sure it is a time where you won't be trapped together by obligations.
Straight up tell him. “I really like you. I want to get to know you more. Would you be interested in dating me?”
The signal can't be like a perfume billboard (that's not even English!). It needs to be a traffic light. Green, yellow, red. He can't be distracted, but hear the question. Have an option in your mind if he asks, “like a date? To where/when?”
90% of guys and 98% of shy guys like when we get clear directions with easy answers. “Steak or Mexican?” Is better than, “where should we eat?”
I'm not Chinese but I lived in China for a bit, and she is Chinese. I know that in her country it's not normal to have boobs that big. She is showing them off for sure
He told me he feels disrespected
Did you do anything to make him feel that way?
he wants a woman who is soft spoken and doesn’t question him and let’s him take the lead on EVERYTHING
I originally wanted to go to therapy together but now I’m like…. What’s the point if he doesn’t like ME?
If hes been married to you for 10 years I'm sure there are things he likes about you. I think he has been influenced by some toxic gender ideas. Couples therapy might be a great way to clear up some of his misconceptions and get him back to how he used to be. And if that doesn't work then there is only one option left.
“So… do you want to split up and we'll date other people?”
If he's insensitive to you all the time then leave him instead of staying with an asshole who makes you cry
They can have all 3 if she accepts that she has one child to raise.
I would run like hell. This is so disrespectful to you.