There's never going to be a good moment, I'm afraid. You are just going to have to suck it up and tell him and stop making excuses for not doing so. Then it's on him whether he's there for his kid or not.
Yeah this is a good point. The family may be grieving but it’s not about them – this was clearly his dying wish, to communicate whatever’s in that letter to her.
You may want to ask her what's the worst paying her share of the bills or all of her own bills without you.
There's never going to be a good moment, I'm afraid. You are just going to have to suck it up and tell him and stop making excuses for not doing so. Then it's on him whether he's there for his kid or not.
Leave him.
If you can't tell his parents, your relationship will never progress from where it is. Him hiding you like you're something to be ashamed of.
Op, this is it. Please leave it after you reassure him. He'll definetly eventually tell you once he is comfortable to.
I’m still staying true to this, 167 days later.
Yeah this is a good point. The family may be grieving but it’s not about them – this was clearly his dying wish, to communicate whatever’s in that letter to her.
Also, 21 y/os sometimes don’t make the best judgment calls, which he knows perfectly well as a grown ass man in his 30s
I want to try this out myself, but don’t know where the edit button is that you’re talking about 🙁