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I don’t know if problems is the right word but if that’s a joke to her how is that supposed to make me feel? I don’t want to be just another guy she brags to her roommates about. Also, might be a little disrespectful to have them if I’m with her you. Or am I just tripping?
Agree. She's clearly mentally unhinged so there's zero point in trying to extract any logic from those interactions. The “acting like it never happened” bit just confirms it. You can't reason with someone who is incapable of self-reflection.
Hi, I just wanted to let you know that I just talked to her. I told her I wanted to meet her after class and I asked her directly whether she had a boyfriend. She said yes. So I'm bit sad rn but I'll make it through. Thank you so much for your advice. I like it and I think I'm going to use it again in the future. Again, thank you so much for helping me out and I hope you'll have a great day ahead of you.
Also, she's in the same course as me. Im taking bachelor's degree in software engineering
Girl, maybe hold off on sex until he agrees to use a condom.
Also, try taking a D Mannose supplement every night before bed. I had constant UTIs anytime I had good (longer than 10 min) sex regardless of hygiene. D Mannose doesn't allow that bacteria to ever attach to the walls of the urinary tract.
Why is he angry? Can't he get his money back? If he can't, then he can still come, but need see you after work. While you're at work he can spend his time looking around on his own. If he is still upset, then whatever. It's not like you can eat boyfriend visits or pay your rent with unemployment. How are you going to support yourself? If your bf can't see that he is selfish and uncaring anyway, and it's good you got to see his true nature before you get kids together
You are not entitled to her knowing your feelings without communication. In all fairness she may have not felt like being exclusive at that point at all, you're lucky and it's fortunate she felt the same way when you did talk about it. You rolling back the start date to before you had that conversation and agreement is unfair and frankly, hysterical. That is purely a you problem, you need to work through irrational emotions yourself, you should never hold this over her at all. The reality is you asked her ARE we exclusive. You should have asked, do you want to be exclusive, because I do. If you treated being exclusive like a mutually respectful question rather than a confirmation you would not be feeling this way now.
If anything if I was her, I'd be thinking, is this guy irrationally jealous, does he create problems from nothing, can he take responsibility for his feelings and work through them, will he be judgemental and hold grudges, will he expect me to take on the burden of doing the impossible and working through his insecurities?
Let’s say best case is you jump through these hoops and stay together. Do you really want to live your life with someone who may think these things about you? Don’t waste your life with someone like that. You deserve better from a partner.
Literally run! Don’t put up with this! He love bombs you and then coerces you under threat of taking his love away, to do weird shit for his gratification! It’s like he is pimping you out only instead of money he wants videos! Get out fast!!
By that point in a relationship, emotionally I would need the other person to love me back. He’s saying it could realistically be another year before he’s ready to say it?? Me, I wouldn’t be able to wait for that. I’d break up and find someone who does love me.
I don’t know if problems is the right word but if that’s a joke to her how is that supposed to make me feel? I don’t want to be just another guy she brags to her roommates about. Also, might be a little disrespectful to have them if I’m with her you. Or am I just tripping?
Agree. She's clearly mentally unhinged so there's zero point in trying to extract any logic from those interactions. The “acting like it never happened” bit just confirms it. You can't reason with someone who is incapable of self-reflection.
By getting therapy and learning to love yourself
Hi, I just wanted to let you know that I just talked to her. I told her I wanted to meet her after class and I asked her directly whether she had a boyfriend. She said yes. So I'm bit sad rn but I'll make it through. Thank you so much for your advice. I like it and I think I'm going to use it again in the future. Again, thank you so much for helping me out and I hope you'll have a great day ahead of you.
Also, she's in the same course as me. Im taking bachelor's degree in software engineering
Girl, maybe hold off on sex until he agrees to use a condom.
Also, try taking a D Mannose supplement every night before bed. I had constant UTIs anytime I had good (longer than 10 min) sex regardless of hygiene. D Mannose doesn't allow that bacteria to ever attach to the walls of the urinary tract.
Why is he angry? Can't he get his money back? If he can't, then he can still come, but need see you after work. While you're at work he can spend his time looking around on his own. If he is still upset, then whatever. It's not like you can eat boyfriend visits or pay your rent with unemployment. How are you going to support yourself? If your bf can't see that he is selfish and uncaring anyway, and it's good you got to see his true nature before you get kids together
You are not entitled to her knowing your feelings without communication. In all fairness she may have not felt like being exclusive at that point at all, you're lucky and it's fortunate she felt the same way when you did talk about it. You rolling back the start date to before you had that conversation and agreement is unfair and frankly, hysterical. That is purely a you problem, you need to work through irrational emotions yourself, you should never hold this over her at all. The reality is you asked her ARE we exclusive. You should have asked, do you want to be exclusive, because I do. If you treated being exclusive like a mutually respectful question rather than a confirmation you would not be feeling this way now.
If anything if I was her, I'd be thinking, is this guy irrationally jealous, does he create problems from nothing, can he take responsibility for his feelings and work through them, will he be judgemental and hold grudges, will he expect me to take on the burden of doing the impossible and working through his insecurities?
That’s pretty evident from your original post
Denial of course is the primary symptom. That's two. Good luck
Let’s say best case is you jump through these hoops and stay together. Do you really want to live your life with someone who may think these things about you? Don’t waste your life with someone like that. You deserve better from a partner.
Literally run! Don’t put up with this! He love bombs you and then coerces you under threat of taking his love away, to do weird shit for his gratification! It’s like he is pimping you out only instead of money he wants videos! Get out fast!!
By that point in a relationship, emotionally I would need the other person to love me back. He’s saying it could realistically be another year before he’s ready to say it?? Me, I wouldn’t be able to wait for that. I’d break up and find someone who does love me.
I really like how you responded imma be more like you when i respond to things
I don't think they expected him to have sex with the girlfriend
No fault divorce.
Sex alone is not going to do anything to sway a judge.
It's not even close to equitable to manipulation of children.