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Date: April 5, 2023
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The title probably sounds bad , but let me explain.
Me and my current boyfriend were high school sweethearts who were together for 4 years and then broke up. We both moved to other cities for a year before we found each other again and live about 30 mins from one another now. We broke up the first time because of excessive fighting and not sticking to boundaries. Basically just losing love and becoming two people who fight like siblings.
When we met up again after our year long break up, things felt different & i was very hesitant to give it a shot but I still did. Safe to say things have slowly fallen back into how they used to be. There have been times I have tried to bring to light some concerns I have between us (lack of love, no quality time together, quick to get angry) at during those times he seems attentive and ready to do better in the future but nothing ever changes. There have been times I have blown up and just cried trying to plead with him to work with me so I no longer feel like I am giving everything with little in return. I’ve acted in ways I didn’t want to with him but there have also been times I’ve tried to talk to him in a neutral time with no hostility.
In recent times, I’ve just been exhausted. Im tired of trying to make things work. It seems like he knows I’ll stick around no matter what so what is the point in changing? I’ve tried to break things off but he promises he’ll do better but I never see it. I want to just stop talking and block him on everything because everytime I bring up my concerns he talk a me out of it. Im tired of emotional exhaustion. I value peace and stability and these things are lacking majorly in my relationship.
Any advice helps
Do I owe him an explanation, or a talk anymore?
Thank you, I’m already going through the first few pages of it now. I’m sorry you had to deal with that, it’s shit for sure. I’m glad you’re out of it now!
My ex was like that and still is. From my personal experience people lacking empathy don’t improve but get worse. Plus these types are bad when you are down but you do not want to discover how much they don’t care when you or their children become sick. Then they really show their worst side.
This doesn’t sound like it’s about you, so honestly there’s not much you can do. You can ignore her. But if you’re keen to develop a relationship with her because your boyfriend is best friends with her, I’d just kill her with kindness as it were. Always be polite and delightful with her, don’t let her get to you. Sometimes people who have a problem with something they are projecting on to you, if they’re actually a good person, it can be hard to continue if you genuinely show them who you are. Just don’t make yourself vulnerable to her in the process in case it doesn’t work!
Ditch the asshat and ask that young woman if she would like to be your honorary niece or cousin.