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Date: November 28, 2022
This happened to me like 2 weeks ago, me 27(m) one day saw her (25f) after coming back home from work being ompletely distant and let her some space but I was itching to ask her what's going on. She told me I think we should break up. I took her on a long drive we spoke and she looked uncertain so I presured her for an answer. Eventually she said she love me and she want to stay with me then she said I want to pull the plug. Next day after coming back from work she asked me if her mom could come to our place for a month. I objected at that and told her but I will need some space too its my house too. She started panicking and begged me basically that she needs her mom. I said OK after some thinking because her parents took very well care for me and I really do love them.
A little bit of back story: I was completely in love with her, she chased me in the beginning, I didn't want to be with her and we carried after I rejected her, we met in a party and we made up and that's how our relationship started. We have been travelling a lot more than most people, been having experiences here and there rented a flat (in london) bought a car together. And we had the best holidays this August. I was planning to take us to a mystery-to-her trip this February. Which would be for our 6 year anniversary with all the amenities, I spent a couple of thousand per person and was gonna make a move to upgrade the relationship.
Now back to the story. I was getting prepared to leave the house, she was still on call with her parents, and she just left, she picked a backpack with clothes and left. When I came back to the house, it was empty… cold… like 6 years didn't happen or better comparison would be she threw a glass on the floor and I was there to pick it up with bare hands. The first day alone I had a crisis. I panicked I got ended I did some stupid things but…
This made me realise something I always knew. I loved her. And when you love something or someone, you let them go let them be free. 3 days passed after she left and during these three days I had the time to think. I cut down some habits hard on their core. And I started being a little bit more self conscious about who I am and who I want to be. Because until this point it was us. About kids family marriage etc. And I was ready for all of these steps.
The fact that she backed down its probably for the best because of when she did. Because I was really ready to commit my lifetime with her and if it happened later on it would be soul crushing.
Now Saturday came and she returned with her mom, and she was cold. I thought ok the girl has nothing for me anymore so I let her be. Then on Wednesday I decided to move out, found a place no drama about it. Tuesday night I was packing all my belongings, except some books and a gift she made me that I really will never be able to reminisce for the rest of my life or use it. And she came a couple of times to try and tall to me. I cut her off and then when I finished packing I called her in the room to explain the situation, and we really did have one of the best conversations. I saw the spark in her eyes, probably she saw the spark in mine. And this was it. I didn't want the conversation to finish and that's why we ended it.
The excuse for breaking up was that she wanted to find herself wanted to be independent and that there were small things that she wouldn't be able to live with in our daily lives. I said cool. And to be fair if someone is not gonna tell you how they feel and their first reaction is to go, you need to really recalibrate your brain about how you feel in this relationship.
Long story short, i moved out, started making new friends both men and women. Some of said girls has shown interest, so that's really a confidence booster that life doesn't end there. And now I am gonna go out there and grab life by wherever she wants to be grabbed. I still have difficult moments when I am alone in the night. But I made myself so busy. That I don't have to think about it so much.
If they want to go, let them go. They already made up their mind and its better now than later so you have more time with yourself.
Different haircut would be a good call for sure. Also maybe bring a book with you. Mention your recent doctor’s appointment. Don’t talk about crypto if you were into that before. I could think of others but those 4 are all pretty much slam dunks. Good luck ?
When dad passed he was cremated. His ashes were in a urn
Family wise we all lived far apart and dividing them was not a option .
A dear man from hospice helped us all.
You go down to the nursery get a big pot r potting soil for roses and flowers. Look up your daughters birth month ours was dads birth month…you plant the rose bush.
If you have a yard plant in the yard. Dads roses were yellow.
Prune them if needed.. feed them as needed.. water them..
Talk to them about everything you want to tell or share with your father( yours would be daughter)
Flowers form and bloom you have the beauty of a smile from your father..(your daughter)
This way they are Always with you and bring you smiles and beauty. And a ear to pour your heart out your laughter share your day..
Your daughter is always with you in your heart.
And your still grieving. It takes time to heal there are many stages of grief we go through.
Please call hospice ask for someone you can talk to. They are amazing folks
Also get a rose bush. Name it after your daughter.
It really does help.
Really does. It gives us something to touch talk to and warm our heart when it blooms.
On your ex…. Let him wallow. Maybe some day he will realize what a mistake he made.
Focus on you . Hugs honey. Remember it takes time .
Yes.. accept the gift.
Thank you so much for your words. ??
Because he told me “I've done this before but not to this extend”. (He cheated on the internet) and I'm not sure when it was that he did it before because he didn't tell me and I was in shock, so i didn't ask it, forgot to.
I dont understand the people commenting here. She suddenly wants guy friends again? Like her old guy friends she cut off? if thats the case id understand but she suddenly wants new guy friends forrrrr what reason? what do guy freidns bring that girl friends dont? Doesnt anyone find that suspicous af? I know I would, thats so sus of her if she actively wants *new* guy friends for seamingly no reason
Agreed, this could be him being a child but, honestly, it sounds like he snapped for some reason. If that was my partner I’d be very concerned and not because I thought it was stupid
so you pushed him twice and he is all of a sudden asking for divorce?
nah, there's lots missing here.